Dating & Connection

How Do I Know When She’s Come

How Do I Know When She’s Come? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I […]

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Privacy and Snooping

Your Partner Is Going Through Your Stuff? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone else wrote in to us and said my boyfriend is going through my email and my phone. He’s snooping. What can I do, it makes me really uncomfortable? Reid: Shhh, he may be listening in right now. Cathy: That’s really […]

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How YOU Can Access Reid’s Latest Relationship10x LIVE Recordings NOW!

You can get access to an entire 3-Day weekend of Reid’s geekery… Relationship10x LIVE… 3-Days of amazing relationship skills and know-how designed for you to implement in your relationships TODAY! Delivered in a humorous yet compassionately direct (and sometimes irreverent) way by the “Tom Hanks of sex education”… Get your personal access to Reid Mihalko’s […]

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Reframing Fighting

How Can You Reframe Fighting For A Better Outcome? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Hi, I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from the TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Yeah, and today we’re going to talk about reframing fighting. Cathy: It’s really powerful because in our society, we do have a tendency … […]

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Stuck in the Friend Zone

Stuck in the Friend Zone? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they’re interested with romantically. It doesn’t ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating. What […]

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Cathy On Tuning

Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hi this is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: You use this phrase “tuning” to somebody. Please explain for our viewers. Your esoteric languaging. Cathy: Yes, OK. Well, there’s two levels you can do that at: 1) you can communicate with your partner […]

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Did You Know YOU Have a Romance Groove?

Last week I shared my pragmatic definition of romance (leaving people seen and heard with warmth sprinkled over the top) and how jettisoning culture’s idea of romance can improve your love life. I also talked about the myth of mind reading around romance, and how sharing the process of identifying romantic gestures with your partner or those you’re […]

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No Mind Reading Required… Conscious Romance 101

In my last article, I talked about Kissing in the rain isn’t romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter? In case you haven’t read the article, I shared that despite what media and culture tell us, if you cut through the BS and the music swelling/tear-jerking movie hype, romance just means leaving people feeling appreciated, significant, […]

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Kissing In The Rain Isn’t Romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter?

Why kissing in the rain isn’t necessarily romance! Isn’t romance some story about a helpless damsel and a strong handsome man riding up on a white horse to rescue her? Or is romance Hallmark cards and flowers? Maybe you’re thinking romance is standing in the rain declaring your undying love… Ummmm… I think romance is none of these things. […]

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What Do Icebergs and Chocolate Have In Common? The Secret, Missing Ingredient…

A gift to make all of your special times more powerful, more memorable, and sweeter… A lot of people go for the big splashy moments when it comes to Valentines and love. We’re taught that the more important something is, the more sparkle and glitter it should have. While pizzaz and flare can make experiences […]

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