Dating & Connection

Teasing and Building Anticipation

Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? It can make everything from flirting to marketing more fun! Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Cathy:  Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? Reid:  Hm? What? Yes. Yes! I want to be better at that. Cathy:  […]

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Flirting When You’re Shy

Flirting can be fun and playful…but if you’re shy, it can feel impossible! Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share how to flirt when you’re shy! Cathy: We’ve done a video on flirting before but I’ve noticed that … Reid: No we didn’t. Cathy: Yes we did. Reid: No we didn’t. Oh I touched your […]

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Turning Insecurity and Worry Upside Down

Do you find yourself getting insecure? Worrying if you’re being obnoxious or annoying? Turn your brain on it’s head… with this tip from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Are you ever afraid that you’re being annoying or does your insecurity come up and bite you in the butt? It can get […]

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Afraid of Attraction or Arousal? We’re Not In 7th Grade Anymore!

Are you afraid of other people’s attraction? Or your own arousal? Most of us can actually control ourselves. You can upgrade your beliefs and feel more confident with yourself and others. Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and approaches to help you appreciate your pre-frontal cortex! Cathy: Are you still […]

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Unhooking II – Delaying Attachment

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com discusses delaying attachment and giving yourself time to got to know your partner (before renting the UHaul on the second date). Reid: So this is the Unhooking II, or what we will say Delaying Attachment. Cathy: It’s good if you can delay that. I’ve seen […]

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I Have An Idea! Initiating Intimacy

Want to Initiate a 3-some? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: So we’re back. Reid is going to explain, “I have an idea.” Reid: We’re back from what? What if this is this person’s first video they’re ever watching? They don’t really know […]

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Is It Safe To Be Sexually Intimate With Someone With Herpes?

A lot of people are nervous about connecting with people with herpes. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Hi Reid. One of our listeners asked, is it safe to be involved with someone with herpes? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Is it safe? […]

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What To Do When Your Partner Is Depressed

When your partner is going through a tough time, your relationship can be stressed and strained. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: We have another comment from someone asking for help. Reid: Okay. Cathy:  His wife is going through some family stuff, and she’s been really depressed. […]

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If I Need Lube For Sex, Does That Mean I’m Not Turned On?

Does needing lube mean there’s anything wrong? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.comand Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share.   Cathy: We had someone write to us about needing lube for sex. She had thought originally because she needed lube, her partner thought that that meant she wasn’t turned on. What do you think about that […]

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I’m Afraid I’m Losing My Partner

What can you do when it feels like someone is moving away from you and your relationship? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share.   Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing […]

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