Communication & Repair

What does “Sharing Your Mildest to Wildest” at a play party mean?

What does “Sharing Your Mildest to Wildest” at a play party mean?       Cathy: If you’re at a play party and someone talks about sharing their mildest and wildest, what does that mean? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ A play party for those of you who […]

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What Are Some Tried and True Ways to Start Getting Out There in a New City?

What Are Some Tried and True Ways to Start Getting Out There in a New City?     Cathy: Quick question, as a super single 20-something in a new city what are tried and true ways I can use to start getting “out there”. Tinder was kind of weird for me and any advice from […]

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You’re Shy and You’re at a Play Party, What Do You Do?

You’re Shy and You’re at a Play Party, What Do You Do?       Reid: You’re shy and you’re at a play party. What do you do? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: I am and this is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: And for those of you who are just joining us, […]

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Too Many Single Men at A Play Party You Are Hosting, What Do You Do?

Too Many Single Men at A Play Party You Are Hosting, What Do You Do?     Reid: It’s on. Cathy: Yes. Now you’re going to. Reid: You, you ask the question and then you tell me who I am and I tell you who you are and then they keep watching. Cathy: Hopefully. Reid: […]

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I’m Shy and Having Problem Meeting Women Ages 58-62, What Should I do?

I’m Shy and Having Problem Meeting Women Ages 58-62, What Should I do?     Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’m shy but my real immediate problem is meeting women ages 58-62, I haven’t had much luck in dating sites, mostly women in their 70’s express interest. Help. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ […]

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Too Many Single Men at a Play Party You Attended, What Do You Do?

Too Many Single Men at a Play Party You Attended, What Do You Do?     Cathy: What do you do if at a play party and there are too many single men? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ where are they? All this single men? Cathy: [Inaudible 00:00:13] […]

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Informing You About My Accountability Process

[Some of the following text is taken from the flyer I make available at all of my workshops and appearances. I’m sharing it here to also give readers a sense of what and how information about my accountability process is being shared offline when I’m teaching.] Information about Reid Mihalko’s Accountability Process In early 2018, […]

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How Do I Know if I am Monogamous or Poly?

How Do I Know if I am Monogamous or Poly?       Cathy: How do I know if I’m monogamous or poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/Cathy: How do I know if I’m monogamous or poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And someone wrote […]

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How To Deal With Someone Who Says No To Flirting In A Powerful Way?

How To Deal With Someone Who Says No To Flirting In A Powerful Way? Cathy: How can you deal with someone say ‘No’ to flirting in a powerful way? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/.Cathy: How can you deal with someone say ‘No’ to flirting in a powerful way? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. […]

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An Apology To You For Disappearing For a Year…

If someone says I harmed them, I start with believing them. Period. Any other response, for me goes against my values. Any other response would be inappropriate. I wasn’t interested in adding myself to the list of men who deny, retaliate, or minimize the harms they’re being invited to hold themselves accountable for.

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