Is Megasexual a Gift or Curse? Plus, Using Dopamine To Make Naughty Things NICE…

Yesterday was the Winter Solstice – the shortest day & longest night of the year – and I went on a lovely winter hike with Allison and her parents (see photo). I got home to find that a good friend had posted a Solstice blessing, which I wanted to share with you… “Shortest day and longest […]

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2022 IN-PERSON, Sex Geek Summer Camp Dates Announced!

Can YOU Say 350ft Slip ‘N Slide In 2022? Are you a sex educator, workshop leader, toy blogger, Tantra teacher, therapist, sex worker, burlesque performer, coach (or someone whose career falls under the sex-positive entrepreneur umbrella?)… If you need some R&R and want to nerd out on how to build a more successful business helping […]

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Midlife Crisis, Anyone?

Midlife Crisis, Anyone? 🏖️ I’ve taken up kitesurfing in Mexico! Is it the Pandemic? A midlife crisis? Both? It might be both – the pandemic seems NEVER ending, and I am about to turn 54 at the end of January… However; I also think I’m finally harnessing my sex geeky learning skills to exert some […]

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Do You Fib To Empower Someone Else’s Feelings?

Do You Fib To Empower Someone Else’s Feelings?           Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “When is it okay to fib to spare someone’s feelings? Are you just empowering them if you do that or just being a nice person?” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: And the person […]

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Is Micro-cheating A Big Deal?

Is Micro-cheating A Big Deal?           Cathy:  What is micro-cheating and should you be concerned about it? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ who’s doing his getting rid of the shine. Reid: I’m all oily. Cathy: And I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: I want to look professional. Cathy: And […]

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What Do Sex Educators Do?

What Do Sex Educators Do?               Cathy: What does a sex educator actually do? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: I’m here with Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ sitting right next to me. Cathy: Yup. So Reid, what is it that a sex educator, if you were defining […]

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Getting A Sex Doll To Satisfy Your Partner When You’re Not Being Frisky

Getting A Sex Doll To Satisfy Your Partner When You’re Not Being Frisky         Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do you guys feel about getting  a sex doll to satisfy your partner when you’re not feeling frisky?” They’re wondering if it’s a good way to keep people happy when one […]

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Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone

Unrealistic Desire: Fears And Ways Of Sharing Them To Someone Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love you to talk about the fear that one’s desires are too unrealistic or niche to express or share with anyone.” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ staying right by my […]

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Reid’s Sex 10X Deep Dive Retreat | Facebook Walk With Reid And Gretchen

Reid’s Sex 10X Deep Dive Retreat | Facebook Walk With Reid And Gretchen   Want to learn more about Sex10x? Go HERE. Want to see if Reid has other retreats coming up? Visit Reid’s Calendar HERE. ************* Reid: Hello Facebook it’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and it’s Gretchen! Gretchen: Good morning! Reid: And we are […]

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Scary Sex Ed Questions on Halloween…Watch This Out! | Facebook Live With Reid And Allison

Scary Sex Ed Questions on Halloween…Watch This Out! | Facebook Live With Reid And Allison Reid: Oh right. I think we’re live everyone, we’re live I think I think I think let me just refresh my Facebook page and make sure…let’s see let’s see. Ohhh, we’re live. Perfect…perfect. Alright, hello everyone okay so we are […]

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