Breathing Easier Equals Heavey Breathing This Valentine’s 💘

A Box of Chocolates Is Soooooo Pre-Pandemic… Greetings from Lisbon, Sex Geek! My partner (and author of Girl Sex 101), Allison Moon, and I are on a long-overdue vacation in Portugal. (Allison LOVES seafood, by the way, and last year, after we got vaccinated, Allison snatched up some super low-priced tickets to Portugal so we’d have something […]

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The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important?

What Is The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important? The Venn Diagram of Compatability (A.K.A. The Venn Diagram of “Is This Even a Good Idea?”) consists of four circles that Misha Bonaventura and I created. We suggest folks seeking to date or hook up take a peek at the four circles BEFORE […]

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In-Person Event and Workshop Resources for COVID Times

Here are some of my favorite resources for my fellow sex educators educators, event producers, artists and entrepreneurs… [If you’re looking for COVID resources for day-to-day life, go HERE.] [Last Update: June 30, 2022] Now that we’re going on 2 THREE years into the pandemic… I wanted to gather the COVID resources and best policies […]

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Organizing In-Person Events In a Vaccinated World (Discussion Panels for Sex Educators)

What are the best COVID event policies to use if you’re going to run or be teaching at in-person events? If you’re thinking about teaching in-person events and wondering what are the best, COVID policies to use… Or what safety protocols need to be in place for you to teach at someone else’s event… Then […]

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From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure – 5-Week Course

Finding yourself in over your head trying to balance this world of relationship, sluttiness, sexy possibility, love chemicals, and secure attachment? Know someone who’s caught feelings when they didn’t want to? Have you tried not to catch feelings only to have your stomach and heart tied up in knots after having great sex with great […]

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Sex Geek Professional Freemium Creation with Reid and Cathy

Attn: Sex-Positive Professionals… Help those in need while proving your worth AND turning the curious into clients! It’s your time. Your intuition may be trying to tell you something important about what your business is missing… An easy & powerful way to attract paying clients! Maybe you have lots of social media interest in your […]

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Is Megasexual a Gift or Curse? Plus, Using Dopamine To Make Naughty Things NICE…

Yesterday was the Winter Solstice – the shortest day & longest night of the year – and I went on a lovely winter hike with Allison and her parents (see photo). I got home to find that a good friend had posted a Solstice blessing, which I wanted to share with you… “Shortest day and longest […]

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2022 IN-PERSON, Sex Geek Summer Camp Dates Announced!

Can YOU Say 350ft Slip ‘N Slide In 2022? Are you a sex educator, workshop leader, toy blogger, Tantra teacher, therapist, sex worker, burlesque performer, coach (or someone whose career falls under the sex-positive entrepreneur umbrella?)… If you need some R&R and want to nerd out on how to build a more successful business helping […]

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Midlife Crisis, Anyone?

Midlife Crisis, Anyone? 🏖️ I’ve taken up kitesurfing in Mexico! Is it the Pandemic? A midlife crisis? Both? It might be both – the pandemic seems NEVER ending, and I am about to turn 54 at the end of January… However; I also think I’m finally harnessing my sex geeky learning skills to exert some […]

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Do You Fib To Empower Someone Else’s Feelings?

Do You Fib To Empower Someone Else’s Feelings?           Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “When is it okay to fib to spare someone’s feelings? Are you just empowering them if you do that or just being a nice person?” I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: And the person […]

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