Stories About Jealousy In Polyamorous Relationships

What are some examples of jealousy in polyamorous relationships? With Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more […]

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Someone Flirting With Your Boyfriend…. And Gossiping About You?

What do you do if someone flirts with your boyfriend, then says bad things about you behind your back? With Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Reid: We had a writer write in. Cathy: Yes. Reid: We love it when you write in. Cathy: Yes. Reid: Because it gives us things to […]

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What If Your Boyfriend Is Charming and You’re Jealous?

If people are pulling on your partner who is charming, and you’re jealous, what do you do? With Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Reid:    One of you amazing viewers just wrote in. Cathy: She wrote in and said that, there’s been some jealousy and people that are kind of pulling at […]

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Jealousy – Feeling Special Example

Cathy Vartuli from as she asks Reid Mihalko from how to balance feeling special in a group. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from I’m here with Reid Mihalko from, and this is Feeling Special Video Two. Reid: Video two. Cathy just shared with me that we had … do […]

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Jealousy vs. Envy

In the last article I talked about Jealousy as Asthma and shared how you can identify, avoid, and inoculate against the 8 tentacles/triggers of the Octopus of Jealousy. I also promised to share soon about the difference between Jealousy and Envy, because it can make a BIG difference in relationships. So here’s the distinction between jealousy and […]

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Treat Jealousy Like Asthma

Jealousy isn’t something we look at closely, in general. We’re mostly taught that jealousy is bad, painful, shameful, and there is no relief. When it comes for you, you’re sunk, and it’s better to pretend it doesn’t exist, and to just suffer through it when it does happen. (Or, blame our partners viciously if jealousy […]

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Battling the Eight-Armed Octopus of Jealousy, the Workshop!

Battling the 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy! 4-Call Podclass + Worbook on Overcoming Jealousy by Understanding and Taming Your Emotional Monsters with Reid Mihalko Four 90-minute Teleclasses Recordings, Weekly Jealousy Homework Assignments, PLUS Your very own downloadable Jealousy Workbook AND Cheat Sheet!   When it comes to jealousy, many of us are left feeling like superstitious sailors […]

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What People Are Saying About Reid’s Day of Jealousy!

Thank you for the extraordinary “Jealousy Day” you created. I appreciated the diverse perspectives of your guests and I came away from the day with valuable insights, new perspectives and the feeling that I am in great company. I have a clearer understanding of ways jealousy comes up in my life and some great tools […]

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Reid’s Day of Jealousy with Guest Jealousy Experts

Jealousy isn’t just about romantic relationships, you know! You can experience jealousy over your children taking up too much of your partner’s time, or become jealous over a co-worker’s promotion, or even a lover’s favorite hobby could trigger jealous twinges…

So what’s a person to do?

Join Reid Mihalko, Nina Hartley, Dr. Carol Queen, and other quest jealousy experts as we make sense of what jealousy is, how it impacts our lives, and how we can gain the upper hand. Whether you’re experiencing jealousy on a regular basis, in love with someone who does, or just afraid that jealousy might rear it’s ugly head, these two calls promise to give you a wealth of information!

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