Sex Geekery

What If Your Partner Isn’t Interested In Fanning The Flames In Bed?

If your partner doesn’t want to try to create sparks, what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Tough question time. Video 2.  Cathy: It’s well and good to understand that-  Reid: If you didn’t watch Video 1, you’re like, where’s Video 1? It’s okay, we’ve got your back. […]

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What Do You Do If Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Sleep With You?

How do you handle it and what do you do when you partner doesn’t want to sleep with you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: You got the memo, too. Purple shirt day.  Cathy: What do you do when your partner doesn’t want to sleep with you?  Reid: I’m Reid […]

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Revved Up And Not Sleeping After A Fun Encounter? Is There Something Wrong?

Finding it hard to sleep after a great encounter? What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So what do you do… Reid: Tada!! Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com  Cathy: Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Never spin around. That’s an intro. Cathy: Would you like to spin back right […]

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Cyber Flirting… How Do You Do It?

How do introverts and extroverts cyber flirt? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cyber flirting. How do you do it? I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Well this is fun for me because Cathy usually picks all the questions because Cathy is better than this than […]

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How Can You Tune Into Your Partners Arousal To Get More Turned On?

Want to create a feedback loop with your arousal and your partners? And build intense pleasure? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said… Reid: Flowers Cathy: Coming out on the top of your head? Reid: Yep Cathy: Oh, sorry. Reid: What they say? We have writing […]

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How Can You Be More Present During Sex?

Being present during sex can enhance pleasure and connection. But how do you do that? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Have you meet more presents during sex? Reid: I’m sorry, what? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And we we’re just talking […]

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Should You Ever Put A Timeline On Sex?

Is it a good idea to promise to sleep with someone in 6 weeks, or any other timeline? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So Reid, you’re talking to someone about having sex in the future, should you ever give them a timeline? Reid: In future like 2069? […]

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What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips?

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips?  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: All right.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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Is Your Condom Too Long?

Does your condom slip forward so there’s a bunch of material at the end? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “My partner and I often have a problem when the condom will slip off his dick or over stretch the tip so there’s this long […]

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Not Sure If You’re Non-monogamous or Have Intimacy Issues?

Are you a monogamous person with intimacy issues or poly? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Do you ever feel like you’ll never fall in love, that you might be broken?  Cathy: That’s a really scary feeling.  Reid: We had a question, some of you awesome folks and you’re writing […]

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