Sex Geekery

Playing Games Around Sex? Using Old Paradigms Around Relationships?

How can you step out of the old games about withholding sex or not contacting the other person “too soon”? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I recently had sexual encounter with a new man. I know we really like each other […]

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Are There Non-Monogamy Focused Dating Sites?

What sites are non-monogamy focused? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, are there non-monogamy specific dating sites?  Reid: It’s called Tinder. Oh, burn. Swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Yes, […]

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How Did You Figure Out You Wanted To Be A Sex Educator?

Curious about being a sex educator? How did other people figure out they wanted to teach about sex? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I’m getting this. Someone asked us, how did you find out that you’re interested in being a sex educator. They’re really intrigued by a […]

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What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips? Cathy: Yes. Reid: All right. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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How Do You Know When To Pull Out? Can You Feel it?

What do you watch for to know when to pull out? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli, from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko, for ReidAboutSex.com . Reid: We have a question. Cathy: You actually started this as a […]

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How Do You Give A Blow Job….

Want some tips from the creator of Blow Job Grad School? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you give a blowjob? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We teach this amazing workshop on how to give a blowjob. […]

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Can You Really Watch Your Partner Sleep With Someone Else

Society tells us a lot about what it means if our partner sleeps with someone else… Is it possible to watch and enjoy? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and  said, “What’s wrong with you dude? You just sit there and watch while someone else […]

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Talking About Touch You Dont Like During Sex

How can you talk to your partner about what you don’t like in bed? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: What do you if your partner’s touching you in ways that you don’t particularly like? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from […]

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Role Modeling… Asking For What You Want In Bed

It can be hard to ask for what you want in bed. Tips, and role modeling with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: This is awesome. We’re going to get so meta. We’re talking about how you can give your partners upgrades about certain things… Cathy: In bed. Reid: In bed. […]

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How Do You Have Sex With Bigger People?

Is there anything you need to know if you want to sleep with a bigger person? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   So, what if you have never slept with a bigger person? And, you want to? How do you talk to them about what’s going on and […]

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