Relationships

What To Do When Your Partner Is Depressed

  Cathy: We have another comment from someone asking for help. Reid: Okay. Cathy:  His wife is going through some family stuff, and she’s been really depressed. Every time he tries to talk to her about it, because their relationship is being … Is not going really well. She just kind of shuts down and he’s really frustrated, […]

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If I Need Lube For Sex, Does That Mean I’m Not Turned On?

  Cathy: We had someone write to us about needing lube for sex. She had thought originally because she needed lube, her partner thought that that meant she wasn’t turned on. What do you think about that Reid? Reid: I have lots of thoughts about this. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Lube. […]

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I’m Afraid I’m Losing My Partner

  Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing her, and he wanted to know what to do. Do you have any suggestions? Reid: I do. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And here is our […]

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Doing Things In Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

  Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don’t really know they want to try. They’re not really sure and … Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I’m sure that was it. Reid: That’s crummy. Cathy: Oh my god. Reid: […]

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Getting Your Partner to Grow Up

Cathy: We’ve a bunch of people writing in and sharing things with us at the bottom of our videos, and one of the questions lately was how do I get my partner to grow up and stop being childish, and I can really use this advice right now. Reid: Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy […]

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Reminder: You can still get access to an entire weekend of  Reid’s geekery… Relationship10x LIVE… 3-Days of amazing relationship skills and know-how designed for you to implement in your relationships TODAY! Delivered in a humorous yet compassionately direct (and sometimes irreverent) way by the “Tom Hanks of sex education”… Get your personal access to Reid […]

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Did You Know YOU Have a Romance Groove?

Last week I shared my pragmatic definition of romance (leaving people seen and heard with warmth sprinkled over the top) and how jettisoning culture’s idea of romance can improve your love life. I also talked about the myth of mind reading around romance, and how sharing the process of identifying romantic gestures with your partner or those you’re […]

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No Mind Reading Required… Conscious Romance 101

In my last article, I talked about Kissing in the rain isn’t romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter? In case you haven’t read the article, I shared that despite what media and culture tell us, if you cut through the BS and the music swelling/tear-jerking movie hype, romance just means leaving people feeling appreciated, significant, […]

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Kissing In The Rain Isn’t Romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter?

Why kissing in the rain isn’t necessarily romance! Isn’t romance some story about a helpless damsel and a strong handsome man riding up on a white horse to rescue her? Or is romance Hallmark cards and flowers? Maybe you’re thinking romance is standing in the rain declaring your undying love… Ummmm… I think romance is none of these things. […]

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What Do Icebergs and Chocolate Have In Common? The Secret, Missing Ingredient…

A gift to make all of your special times more powerful, more memorable, and sweeter… A lot of people go for the big splashy moments when it comes to Valentines and love. We’re taught that the more important something is, the more sparkle and glitter it should have. While pizzaz and flare can make experiences […]

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