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On this page, you’ll find the following:
- Upcoming Events In Chronological Order
- ICYMI – In Case You Missed It Items and Events of Interest!
- Far-In-Advance Events
(See event listings for anything booked more than +6 months to a year out) - Past Events That Have Been Recorded (and are available for purchase!)
NOTE: Events marked with (2) asterisks** are professional development events designed for sex educators and sex-positive professionals (and may be useful for all entrepreneurs).
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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
JANUARY 2026 EVENTS
FRI, JAN 23rd, DURHAM, NC —
A FRIDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY? I’M IN!
All Gender Temple Party w/ a touch of Kink w/ Reid*
*On account of the big snow storm coming on Saturday, we moved the Play Party to Friday night! Join us before the big storm hits!!!!
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
Date and time
Fri, Jan 23, 2026, 7:00 PM – Midnight
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
WED, JAN 28th, on ZOOM —
NEGOTIATING SUCCESSFUL THREESOMES
Double your pleasure without destroying your relationships…
The ménage à trois is a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure potential, but navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night) can be tricky. Join world-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this humorous, R-rated, fun-filled workshop… (which will be recorded and the replay available for 7-days to all ticket holders, so get your tickets now!)
Not only will you get a chance to ask questions in this workshop, but we’ll cover:
- What are the best techniques to satisfy two lovers at once?
- Ways to overcome fears and concerns – Yours AND your partner’s!
- The most common threesome mistakes (and how to avoid them!)
- How to negotiate boundaries and safer sex protocols to make your next ménage à trois tré bien!
Whether you’ve had more threesomes than the artist formerly known as Prince or are just beginning to consider three-in-a-bed might be something you’d like to explore, this workshop will give you plenty of tools, tricks, perspectives and laughs to enhance your love life and strengthen your relationships! Bring your loved ones, bring your friends, and enjoy an educational and entertaining evening on how to successfully navigate one of the most common sexual fantasies: the threesome!
Even if you would NEVER be interested in a 3-way, this fun-filled class will give you lots of ways to talk to your loved ones about the things you DO WANT in the bedroom – no matter how tame or outrageous!
Date and time
Wed, Jan 28th, 2026, 8:30-10:30PM Eastern / 5:30-7:30 PM Pacific
🎟️ Ticket & Registration Info HERE 🎟️
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Invite your friends on Fetlife HERE
MARCH 2026 EVENTS
MAR 9th, VIRTUAL – BATTLING THE EIGHT-ARMED OCTOPUS OF JEALOUSY
When it comes to jealousy, many of us feel like superstitious sailors who whisper of an almighty leviathan that will inevitably come for us. And when the Green-Eyed Monster rises from our emotional depths, we usually find ourselves powerless to stop its many arms from tearing our relationship-world apart. Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this workshop on how you can kick jealousy in the ass before it kicks you!
In this unique workshop, you will learn…
- Where your jealousy (or another’s) comes from your unique set of Jealousy “Triggers” like Envy, Possessiveness, Fair Vs Equal, Rejection, and the four other arms of the “octopus” of Jealousy
- Valuable tools for dealing with and mitigating your triggers so jealousy doesn’t take over
- How to dramatically decrease your feelings of dread and anxiety around jealousy, and lessen Jealousy’s grip on those you care about
- Ways to communicate to your loved ones how they can make your world a less jealous one
- Boundary and negotiation skills for improving your relationships no matter what emotions you’re experiencing! And more!
If you’d given up on dealing with jealousy or resigned yourself to a life of powerlessness… If you love someone who battles with jealousy and is always on the losing end… Please join us for what is sure to be an insightful and extremely useful journey into the uncharted seas of being empowered around Jealousy!
Date and time
Mon, Mar 9, 2026, 6:30-8:30 PM Pacific
MAR 27th, LAS VEGAS, NV – ORAL SEX GRAD SCHOOL & TEMPLE PARTY
One Night. Two Back-to-Back Events!
Oral Sex Grad School: You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Oral Sex!
Would you like to take your current craft & skills to Jedi levels? Want to ask those nagging questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks? Looking for an “excuse” to give (or receive) oral that leaves your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”
Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your PhD in oral so YOU can give and/or receive mind-blowing blowjobs, cunnilingus, analingus that leaves YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!
The Temple Party Experience
After the class, we transition into a Temple Party, an experiential gathering for the sensually curious and adventurous that warmly welcomes all genders, bodies, and orientations.
This is an invitation to explore connection in a grounded, feeling-full environment that balances electricity with ease. The space is designed to feel expansive yet safe, playful yet respectful.
Monique and Reid guide the group through a Welcome Circle, where strangers arrive together, share agreements, name boundaries, and slowly land on the same page. This helps create a room where people can be seen, heard, and understood before any exploration begins.
Date and time
Fri, Mar 27, 2026, 7:00 PM – 12:30 AM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
MAR 28th, LAS VEGAS, NV – INTRO TO AWAKEN AS EROS TASTER W/ REID MIHALKO AND MONIQUE DARLING
Join Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling for a six-hour immersive laboratory exploring desire, intimacy, and connection through communication, consent, and embodied choice.
This one-day immersion is a taster of our longer 7-day Awaken as Eros experience, which we typically offer once a year somewhere in the world. It’s designed to offer meaningful skill-building, embodied insight, and a felt sense of the work, without requiring a full-week commitment.
During this taster, you’ll get a taste of the retreat that is designed to help you express your Eros without shame or hesitation, no matter your age, size, gender, or orientation. Dive into sensual anatomy, bedroom skills, and erotic demos. We will cover shame, guilt, the soul mate trap, dating your species, boundaries, and permission to be yourself. Engage in powerful rituals. Learn about speed rejection, pressure play, and create your own menu of desires during research and development sessions to try out anything and everything that interests you. In this highly tailored environment, you can release body shame and rewire rejection programming. Touch the shame, guilt, fear, and belief systems that hold you back from imagining what you really desire. If you can’t even imagine, no wonder you don’t have the skills to ask for it!
This one-day immersion offers a unique opportunity to explore and experiment with new skills and techniques, leaving you with a deeper understanding and newfound confidence to be the lover you’ve always wanted to be.
Date and time
Sat, Mar 28th, 2025, 11:30 AM – 5:00 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
MAR 28th, LAS VEGAS, NV — UNLEASH YOUR NAUGHTIEST DESIRES AT TABOO TEMPLE PARTY W/ REID AND MONIQUE
What is Taboo? What are your Naughty desires? What are you afraid to ask for because what it may make people think? Tonight is all about reclaiming the power that comes from your Taboo…
Join Lawrence, Reid, and Monique at a very special Play/ Temple Party dedicated to exploring, unmasking, and normalizing Taboos. Come with your desire to unmask the secrets of your heart.
Come ready to release those energies that hold you back from manifesting love and pleasure.
Come explore ways to experience more joy fully in your life, by exploring those taboo and naughty desires we all have.
This is the party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND this is the party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.
Register and find out more about the event HERE.
Spread the word on Facebook HERE.
APRIL 2026 EVENTS
APR 3rd, PHOENIX, AZ —
A FRIDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY? I’M IN!
All Gender Temple Party w/ a touch of Kink w/ Reid, Monique, & Peter
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
Date and time
Fri, Apr 3, 2026, 7:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
APR 4th, PHOENIX, AZ — THE IN’S AND OUT’S OF ENERGY INTERPLAY W/REID & MONIQUE
Get ready to embark on a thrilling adventure into the realm of energy interplay with Reid Mihalko, Monique and Peter! If you’ve ever felt like life’s a wild ride, labeled as “too much,” or “high maintenance,” fear not, you’re among friends. Join us as we uncover the hidden tribe of energy-sensitive souls, eagerly awaiting to connect and revel in the magic of our innate abilities.
Throughout our journey, we’ve traversed the boundless landscapes of energetic intimacy, and now, dear friend, it’s your turn to join the dance. Discover the ecstasy of your being by embracing every emotion, letting life-force energy flow freely through your veins. This weekend promises an exhilarating voyage of self-discovery, where you’ll unlock your innate powers, deepen your connection to your energetic essence, and reclaim your divine right to pleasure and passion. So, buckle up and get ready to transform your life into a playground of cosmic delight, surrounded by our vibrant community of kindred spirits!
Date and time
Sat, Apr 4, 2026, 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
APR 4th, PHOENIX, AZ – ORAL SEX GRAD SCHOOL & TEMPLE PARTY
One Night. Two Back-to-Back Events!
Oral Sex Grad School: You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Oral Sex!
Would you like to take your current craft & skills to Jedi levels? Want to ask those nagging questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks? Looking for an “excuse” to give (or receive) oral that leaves your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”
Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your PhD in oral so YOU can give and/or receive mind-blowing blowjobs, cunnilingus, analingus that leaves YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!
The Temple Party Experience
After the class, we transition into a Temple Party, an experiential gathering for the sensually curious and adventurous that warmly welcomes all genders, bodies, and orientations.
This is an invitation to explore connection in a grounded, feeling-full environment that balances electricity with ease. The space is designed to feel expansive yet safe, playful yet respectful.
Monique and Reid guide the group through a Welcome Circle, where strangers arrive together, share agreements, name boundaries, and slowly land on the same page. This helps create a room where people can be seen, heard, and understood before any exploration begins.
Date and time
Fri, Arp 4, 2026, 7:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
MAY 2026 EVENTS
MAY 22nd-25th, TUOLUMNE, CA — PLAY: THE BONOBO NETWORK FESTIVAL
Restore • Connect • Play
Are you looking to be part of a members-only retreat where participants are working towards living up to the same values as you? Do you need a place to unplug and restore yourself? Are you looking for a weekend of music, learning, all sorts of fun organized activities, and PLAY? Join Reid at Play: The Bonobo Network Retreat, several days built on the ideas of High Possibility, Low Expectation, Trust and Trustworthiness, Consent, Support, Contribution, and Inclusion.
Take a break. Unplug from social media. This weekend is about you. It’s about us. It’s about connecting – deeply – with our amazing community of people with shared values and a common sense of possibility. It’s about rebuilding your personal reserves so that you can return to the world stronger, braver, better connected, and well-loved.
For this weekend, your life can be filled with unadulterated PLAY.
400 new friends • 9 shared meals • 4 days • 3 nights •
4 sexy play spaces • 1 hell of a good time
Sensual Playshops • Pool Parties • EPIC ENTERTAINMENT • Pure Magic
CLICK HERE or head to BonoboFest.com to learn more and find out how YOU can be part of this Community.
JUNE 2026 EVENTS
JUNE 4th-7th, AHWAHNEE, CA — SOULPLAY FESTIVAL
Dance. Connection. Nature.
Are you looking for a place to experience learning and growth, while having a lot of fun and making great connections in the process? Do you want to be able to practice being present while connect with a community? And do you want to be able to do all that knowing that you and all the people around you are sober? Then this is the event for you…
Join Reid at SoulPlay – The premier, sober festival in the US!
SoulPlay is a 4-day immersive experience filled with transformational workshops, celebration, dancing, connection, and play. This is not your typical festival. It is an experience designed to facilitate learning and growth, while having a lot of fun and making great connections in the process. Whether this is your first time stepping into an experience like this or you’ve been walking the embodiment path for a while, SoulPlay meets you where you are.
SoulPlay strives to create a container through which we can all be our fully expressed selves. The depth, joy and playfulness we dream of is only realized if we are all included, welcomed and celebrated. We are continually working as an organization and as a community to support this vision.
CLICK HERE to learn more AND receive $50 Off because you used Reid’s special ReidAboutSex coupon to get your tickets before SoulPlay sells out!
FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
AUG 18th-23rd, SKEPPSUDDEN, SWEDEN — THE FIELD FESTIVAL!
Created by Rachel Rickards, The Field Festival is the first large-scale gathering dedicated to exploring and amplifying our innate capacity for coherent, connected presence. Imagine a festival (or even a world) where we come together, not as isolated individuals, but as one unified organism.
And Reid’s gonna be teaching there…
Details coming soon…
When: AUG 18-23, 2026
Where: Skeppsudden, Sweden
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ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…
ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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