COVID-19 News: As new information comes in and we all figure out how to navigate today’s constantly shifting landscape around COVID-19 [Some useful resources HERE], please continue to check back here for updates on events being re-designed to happen virtually, being postponed, or reschedule. For events happening several months into the future, while there may be no change in status; I am considering all options (and informing myself of better options). I will update ticket holders when there is more to know. Thank you for your patience. Questions? Email me at

Looking to support the Portland Protests? I’ve collected some links that I found helpful for me in understanding the situation around the Portland Protests and ways I can support the PDX protesters… Before you support Portland, take a second to research what’s happening around you locally and how you can show up for your community. What’s happening in PDX isn’t only happening here. I’ll try to update with new links as I have time. Hope these links help.

Looking for Anti-Racism Resources? Just in case you’re looking for resources that might help you and your loved ones around unlearning and learning around systemic oppression, police violence, and anti-racism work here are three links I found invaluable for my journey. Please share, and deep gratitude to all the people who contributed to the making of these resources… Scaffolded Anti-Racist Resources, National Resource List, and the Social Justice Love Languages.

Are you voting by mail in the U.S. election? The election is approaching FAST… Have you registered to vote by mail if that’s available to you? PLEASE DON’T WAIT ’til the last minute in case the postal service gets overwhelmed. Regardless of your party affiliation, make sure YOUR vote counts! Info and more ways to support MORE people voting…

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These upcoming, virtual workshops & events will happen LIVE on Zoom. Some will be recorded. Some not. Some have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please see the registration page for info!

Sept 26th, 8pm ’til the wee hours—Virtual Space BLAST OFF!

Who needs some nerdy, sci-fi fantastical, pervy fun tomorrow night? Join Kinky Salon, beaming up from their secret bunker somewhere in the desert in Nevada! Join alien life-forms from the farthest reaches of the universe who’re here to meet, mingle and explore inter-species sexytimes. Will the Men In Black show up and ruin all the fun? Will the inter-galactic alien mating rituals contest even be allowed to take place? With an engine room powered by sexual energy, there’s only one way to keep this party alive…

Fun starts at 8pm PST, Saturday, Sept 26th! Click HERE for more info!

Reid’s workshop—How To Anally Probe Your Humaniod (with LIVE Demos) starts at 9pm PST. Special intergalatic guest star: Girl Sex 101’s Allison Moon
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Sept 24-27—Bring Your Shadows Out Into the Light!

So much of the focus in healing is on where we want to go… The abundance and the light. However, until we can acknowledge and release the unconscious and hidden fears that hold us back and haunt our subconscious, we will never be free from the friction we cause within ourselves.

All the mantras, positive affirmations and focusing on the positive outcomes in the world will not “release the parking brakes” we put on ourselves. We’ll never get to where we want to go if our subconscious is constantly fighting us.

Join me and a smörgåsbord of amazing teachers, all sharing their unique perspectives and approaches on bringing your shadows into the light! Which teacher or teachers will resonate the most powerfully for YOU and help UNLOCK your parking brake? Use my affiliate link to get all the info & register if you’re called to it — HERE.

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Oct 8th, 7-8pm PACIFIC (8-9 Mountain Time)—
FREE Virtual Play Party Orientation

Curious about how a virtual play party works? Looking to attend Crista and Reid’s upcoming Very Real Virtual Play Party? Join play party facilitators Crista Reid and Reid Mihalko for a FREE 25min orientation + 20mins for Q&A!

In 25 minutes, you will take away:

⭐ How to feel more confident engaging during a virtual play party
⭐ How to functionally use the tech and get your groove on in front of the webcam
⭐ A feel for the cultural design of this space and our consent culture system
⭐ Lots of tidbits on being a good, giving, and game virtual play party goer
⭐ A spot on the invite list for future Very Real Virtual Play Community events, including our upcoming party on August 6th

An additional 20 minutes will be saved for Q&A.
(This orientation will be recorded for internal use only)

Register for your Zoom Link reminder—HERE.
Invite your curious friends and loved ones via Facebook Event HERE.

Oct 13th thru Nov 19th—
Sex Geek Conservatory

6-Weeks to overcome your fear of Zoom, public speaking, and teaching virtually so that YOU can kick-ass this winter running classes and teaching at online festivals and retreats!

Online classes meet twice a week, Oct 13 thru Nov 19th, 2020, so we can actually practice, anchor, and hone our new skills! 

Sex Geek Conservatory—Online facilitation & virtual public speaking skills for sex educators!


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Aug 5th thru Sept 23rd—
Have a Date with Reid and Monique Darling EVERY WEEK!

We just finished 8 weeks of our first fun-filled, juicy Date Night Series with 60+ amazing participants who asked us to DO IT AGAIN! And we are! In these chaotic times, MORE FUN and CONNECTION sounds perfect… Will you join our friendly and fantabulous Date Night Alumni and add your unique personality and energy to our awesome sauce? We hope so!

Ask yourself…

  • Need a weekly dose of fun, silliness, and games to make you laugh?
  • Does engaging your heart and mind while deepening your abilities to tap into pleasure and feel more confident spark your interests?
  • Would you like to connect with amazing, heart-opened, friendly human faces and feed your soul?

Receive Lifetime Access to all the Date Night recordings so you can experience them whenever you want over and over!

Tiered ticket pricing* to help everyone join us + you can encourage your shy friends to “test-drive” our Date Nights to see if they are a GREAT fit with our 30-day money-back guarantee! TICKETS & Info HERE

*Tiered Pricing includes access to the Date Night members portal so you can watch August 1st’s Pleasure & Flirt Lab Orientation (before you join us for our Wed nights together! Why? So you’re up to speed with the rest of the group even if you missed previous Date Nights)!

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Test-Drive working with Reid every month (PLUS, get immediate accessing to over $197-worth of relationship and sexual self-confidence building training videos) for Reid’s special $1 Trial Offer!

That Have Been Recorded…

Just because you missed it, doesn’t mean you can’t participate! Purchase access to the recordings and bonuses NOW…

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Get lifetime access to Dating Your Species for just $47. Watch the videos, do the worksheets, learn how to avoid the Venn Diagram of Misery and start Dating Your Species!
CLICK HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

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Blowjob Grad School, the workshop

Get lifetime access to Bj Grad School—the videos, the handout, etc—for just $47!
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Sarah schwab October 10, 2012 at 12:45 pm

Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.


Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:13 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements ( and to follow my FB Fan Page – – and my Twitter account –

Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.

Yours in sex geekery,


Lucien Vattel December 28, 2012 at 12:47 am

Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.



Dorothy January 2, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.


Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:07 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements ( and to follow my FB Fan Page – – and my Twitter account –

Hope to meet you one day!



Miriam December 13, 2013 at 3:28 am


I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”



Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD


bea of san luis obispo December 18, 2013 at 2:36 am

Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea


Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm

The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!


Bridget May 28, 2014 at 4:51 am

I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!


Reid August 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: – let me know how I can help! 🙂


Laurence McGrath May 11, 2019 at 10:36 pm

So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!


Heather July 25, 2019 at 10:14 am

Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?


Reid October 4, 2019 at 11:19 am

Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!


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