COVID-19 News: As new information comes in and we all figure out how to navigate today’s constantly shifting landscape around COVID-19 [Some useful resources HERE], please continue to check back here for updates on events being re-designed to happen virtually, being postponed, or reschedule. For events happening several months into the future, while there may be no change in status; I am considering all options (and informing myself of better options). I will update ticket holders when there is more to know. Thank you for your patience. Questions? Email me at

Looking to support the Portland Protests? I’ve collected some links that I found helpful for me in understanding the situation around the Portland Protests and ways I can support the PDX protesters… Before you support Portland, take a second to research what’s happening around you locally and how you can show up for your community. What’s happening in PDX isn’t only happening here. I’ll try to update with new links as I have time. Hope these links help.

Looking for Anti-Racism Resources? Just in case you’re looking for resources that might help you and your loved ones around unlearning and learning around systemic oppression, police violence, and anti-racism work here are three links I found invaluable for my journey. Please share, and deep gratitude to all the people who contributed to the making of these resources… Scaffolded Anti-Racist Resources, National Resource List, and the Social Justice Love Languages.

Are you voting by mail in the U.S. election? The election is approaching FAST… Have you registered to vote by mail if that’s available to you? PLEASE DON’T WAIT ’til the last minute in case the postal service gets overwhelmed. Regardless of your party affiliation, make sure YOUR vote counts! Info and more ways to support MORE people voting…

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Suggested Cause To Support: Queer, Trans, and Woman-Owned businesses must not go extinct during this economic crisis, please help us save Freed Bodyworks. Small, inclusive businesses everywhere are struggling to survive. Freed Bodyworks’ mission prioritized serving and employing underserved and marginalized communities. Please support their GoFundMe to help this important group practice survive the pandemic.

If you can’t give financially, will you support their efforts by sharing this with your communities? Thanks in advance!

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These upcoming, virtual workshops & events will happen LIVE on Zoom. Some will be recorded. Some not. Some have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please see the registration page for info!

Nov 10th thru Dec 22nd**—
Attn: Educators! Take Your Online Teaching Skills To Jedi Levels!

6-Weeks to overcome your fear of Zoom, public speaking, and teaching virtually so that YOU can kick-ass this winter running classes and teaching at online festivals and retreats!

Online classes meet twice a week, Oct 13 thru Nov 19th, 2020, so we can actually practice, anchor, and hone our new skills! 

Sex Geek Conservatory—Online facilitation & virtual public speaking skills for sex educators!

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November 19th—
Virtual Play Party with Crista & Reid

Have you been looking for a virtual play party you or you and a loved one could experience? Join play party enthusiasts, Crista Reid & Reid Mihalko, along with up to 50 amazing, friendly-faced humans to explore erotic connection and play in the time of COVID.
When: Thursday, Nov 19th from 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM PACIFIC
Where: In the comfort of your own home!
Tickets: Sign-Up to attend our orientation HERE to be added to our Play Party Invite List.

Nov 21st—
Like Your Stories Dirty? Bawdy Storytelling Delivers!

If you enjoy dirty, salacious, outrageously true stories, Bawdy Storytelling —the award-winning podcast & Livestream show—has you covered! And Reid’s gonna telling a tale that’s gonna put a smile on your face and a tingle in your pants… IF you’re wearing pants that is!

Join us + tell your friends. It’s gonna be a hoot! — Get your BAWDY TICKETS HERE.

Nov 20th thru 27th—

If you’ve been yearning for a 24/7 online experience featuring teachers and workshops in every time zone from across the globe… 2020’s One World Tantra Festival has you covered! 24 hours of content per day for 7 days. No matter where you are living in the world, you will have access to top-quality live events, PLUS: Attendees will have access to the entire library for 30-days after the event wraps!
Reid will be teaching… TBA soon!
TICKETS & Info HERE Use coupon code SEXGEEK during registration to receive 25%-off attending the festival!
Invite your Facebook friends HERE.


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Want an Invite to Our Monthly Play Parties? —
Take the FREE Virtual Play Party Orientation to qualify…

Curious about how a virtual play party works? Looking to attend Crista and Reid’s upcoming Very Real Virtual Play Party? Join play party facilitators Crista Reid and Reid Mihalko for a FREE 25min orientation + 20mins for Q&A!

In 25 minutes, you will take away:

⭐ How to feel more confident engaging during a virtual play party
⭐ How to functionally use the tech and get your groove on in front of the webcam
⭐ A feel for the cultural design of this space and our consent culture system
⭐ Lots of tidbits on being a good, giving, and game virtual play party goer

An additional 20 minutes is devoted to Q&A.

Register for Orientation HERE so you can qualify to receive ticket links to our next event!

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Test-Drive working with Reid every month (PLUS, get immediate accessing to over $197-worth of relationship and sexual self-confidence building training videos) for Reid’s special $1 Trial Offer!

That Have Been Recorded…

Just because you missed it, doesn’t mean you can’t participate! Purchase access to the recordings and bonuses NOW…

Oct 24-26th**—
Attn: Educators! Reach More People and Set Yourself Up for the Holidays

Join Cathy of, Reid of, and some amazing sex educators for 2-days of creating (and actually implementing) your very own kick-ass freemium! Help those in need while you build your credibility as an educator and turn the curious into clients!

More info and tickets HERE >>
Sign-Up for the FREE training on How To Give Good Freemium HERE >>

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Get lifetime access to Dating Your Species for just $47. Watch the videos, do the worksheets, learn how to avoid the Venn Diagram of Misery and start Dating Your Species!
CLICK HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

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Blowjob Grad School, the workshop

Get lifetime access to Bj Grad School—the videos, the handout, etc—for just $47!
Click HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

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Sarah schwab October 10, 2012 at 12:45 pm

Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.


Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:13 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements ( and to follow my FB Fan Page – – and my Twitter account –

Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.

Yours in sex geekery,


Lucien Vattel December 28, 2012 at 12:47 am

Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.



Dorothy January 2, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.


Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:07 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements ( and to follow my FB Fan Page – – and my Twitter account –

Hope to meet you one day!



Miriam December 13, 2013 at 3:28 am


I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”



Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD


bea of san luis obispo December 18, 2013 at 2:36 am

Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea


Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm

The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!


Bridget May 28, 2014 at 4:51 am

I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!


Reid August 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: – let me know how I can help! 🙂


Laurence McGrath May 11, 2019 at 10:36 pm

So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!


Heather July 25, 2019 at 10:14 am

Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?


Reid October 4, 2019 at 11:19 am

Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!


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