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On this page, you’ll find the following:
- Upcoming Events In Chronological Order
- ICYMI – In Case You Missed It Items and Events of Interest!
- Far-In-Advance Events
(See event listings for anything booked more than +6 months to a year out) - Past Events That Have Been Recorded (and are available for purchase!)
NOTE: Events marked with (2) asterisks** are professional development events designed for sex educators and sex-positive professionals (and may be useful for all entrepreneurs).
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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
SEPTEMBER 2025 EVENTS

🍒 REID’S FIRST TIME TEACHING IN BELGIUM!!! 🍒

SEP 18th-21st, REID GOES TO ּBELGIUM! WORKSHOP EXTRAVAGANZA WITH LORE BLANCKE & REID MIHALKO
Reid will be joining Lore Blanke for a special workshop weekend in Belgium! Together, they’ve crafted a delicious array of offerings blending their teachings for an enriching experience. You can experience 5 of Reid’s popular workshops to choose. Feel free to pick and choose the sessions that resonate with you, or better yet, join us for the entire weekend to get the full immersive experience! Here’s the full rundown of weekend’s workshops:
✨ Thursday 18/09, 18.30 – 21.00: The Struggles of Modern Dating & Becoming GREAT in Bed (Discussion Panel) ✨
✨ Friday 19/09, 18.30 – 21.30: Show ‘N Tell Bedroom Favorites (with LIVE Demos) ✨
✨ Saturday 20/09, 9.30 – 12.00 and 13:00 – 15:30: Rough S❤️ For Nice Folks ✨
✨ Saturday 20/09, 16.30 – 18.30 and 19.30 – 22.30: Sen$ual Play Party (with Intro Workshop) ✨
✨ Sunday 21/09, 10:00 – 13:00 and 14:00 – 17:00: Oral S❤️ Grad School ✨
Tickets: Learn More and Get Your Tickets HERE.
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SEP 23-28th, BERLIN, GERMANY — THE FIELD SEX POSITIVE FACILITATOR TRAINING**
Are you called to lead transformational group spaces where sex, intimacy, embodiment, and healing meet?
Join internationally acclaimed facilitators Rachel Rickards and Reid Mihalko for a weeklong deep dive into the art and integrity of s/x-positive, trauma-informed group facilitation.
Blending Rachel’s expertise in somatic group fieldwork and relational depth with Reid’s decades of s/x-positive education and practical ethics, this advanced training is designed to support both emerging and seasoned facilitators in creating powerful, ethical, and resilient containers for intimate work.
We’re not just teaching what to do… we’re training you in how to be the facilitator who can navigate the complexities of desire, projection, power, trauma, consent, and emergence with clarity, presence, and care.
Date and time
Tuesday – Sunday, September 23-28, 2025 | Daily Sessions: 10:00–18:00 (with optional evening explorations)
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
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SEP 24th, BERLIN, GERMANY — S🍑X EDUCATION (with LIVE Demos!)
What if you could actually watch sex educators share (and SHOW you!) what they teach… and how they do it themselves?
Welcome to S🍑x Education (with Live Demos), an evening of playful, educational, and lightly explicit storytelling and demonstration, designed to give you real, practical tools to use in your own intimate life.
Because, let’s face it: we don’t get to watch how s/x is done well. You can learn dance, cook, or play music by observing skilled people do their thing. But s/x? Not so much.
Until now.
Join internationally celebrated s/x educator, Reid Mihalko, joined and hosted by intimacy facilitator, Rachel Rickards, as they take the stage to reveal their favorite tips, techniques, and bedroom moves… with LIVE, nvde demos, real talk, and a whole lot of fun.
Date and time
Wednesday, September 24, 2025 | 19:30PM–23:00PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
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OCTOBER 2025 EVENTS


OCT 2nd-5th, REID GOES TO STOCKHOLM! WORKSHOP EXTRAVAGANZA WITH LORE BLANCKE & REID MIHALKO
Reid will be joining Lore Blanke for a special workshop weekend in Stockholm! Together, they’ve crafted a delicious array of offerings blending their teachings for an enriching experience. You can experience 5 of Reid’s popular workshops to choose. Feel free to pick and choose the sessions that resonate with you, or better yet, join us for the entire weekend to get the full immersive experience! Here’s the full rundown of weekend’s workshops:
✨ Thursday 2/10 18.30 – 21.00: Pleasure as Protest: How Pleasure Can Change Your Life in a Stressed-Out / Fast-Paced World (Discussion Panel) ✨
✨ Friday 3/10 18.30 – 21.30: Show ‘N Tell Bedroom Favorites (with LIVE Demos) ✨
✨ Saturday 4/10 9.30 – 12.00 and 13:00 – 15:30: Rough S❤️ For Nice Folks ✨
✨ Saturday 4/10 16.30 – 18.30 and 19.30 – 22.30: Sen$ual Play Party (with Intro Workshop) ✨
✨ Sunday 5/10 10:00 – 13:00 and 14:00 – 17:00: Oral S❤️ Grad School ✨
Tickets: Learn More and Get Your Tickets HERE.
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OCTOBER 9-12th, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — REID’S TEAMING UP WITH WILRIEKE SOPHIA AGAIN…

OCT 9th, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — LOVE, LUST & ATTACHMENT
Modern dating is full of sparkles and pitfalls—from casual hookups to wild crushes, from awkward attachment spirals to meeting your soulmate at a festival and moving to another country to be with them… Whether you’re looking for love, lust, or just some clarity in the chaos, join American sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for a playful, practical, and deeply human class on how to navigate dating, falling in love, and building healthy relationships when dealing with attachment styles, casual sex, technology, breakups, and the sneaky ways our past shows up in our present.
Whether you’re swiping, swooning, or slowly panicking because you caught feels, this class is your loving guide to navigating the modern dating jungle without ghosting yourself or others.
Date and time
Thursday, October 9, 2025 | 19:00 tot 21:30
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
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Invite your friends on Fetlife HERE

OCT 10-11th, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — SHOW ‘N TELL THEN TRY
Wouldn’t it be amazing if learning how to give and receive pleasure felt fun, relaxed, and pressure-free?
Wouldn’t it feel wonderful to finally ask those nagging, “I’ve always wondered…” questions, without shame? And wouldn’t it be helpful if you could watch and try techniques with your partner right then and there, with skilled support nearby? That’s what this 2 day-long Show ’N Tell Then Try workshop is all about!
This is an all-day, clothing-optional experience for adults of all experience levels who want to:
- Level up their sexual confidence and skills
- Learn techniques they can actually use (not just theory)
- Ask honest questions and get respectful answers
- Practice new things with support, at their own pace
- Feel more connected, playful, and seen by their partner
This is not about being “perfect in bed” — it’s about curiosity, courage, and care. Up your erotic touch & intimacy skills (giving AND receiving!) so you can say goodbye to bedroom insecurities and hello to a new YOU filled with self-confidence and Jedi-level abilities. This special workshop is for all genders, all experience levels and sexual orientations, and includes LIVE demonstrations and time for you to practice.
Date and time
Friday and Saturday, October 10-11, 2025
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
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Invite your friends on Fetlife HERE

OCT 10th, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — SEX TOYS EXPLAINED
Do you feel overwhelmed by how many vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, harnesses and restraints, paddles and floggers, and who-knows-what are out there in the world? When it comes to sex toys, which ones do which things, how do you use them safely, which ones will your body love (and which will you hate)? How to make sex toys your friend?
Let’s face it, most people want to feel confident in between the sheets and Culture does a horrible job educating us on being sexually savvy. Worse, when it does, sex education often feels like going to the dentist. That was, until now…
Join professional sex geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for an outrageously informative, irreverent and hilarious evening of adult education and LIVE demonstrations devoted to helping you learn how to think about sensation, get confident and creative with toys, and understand why a body might want them!
Date and time
Friday, October 10, 2025 | 19:00 tot 22:00
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
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Invite your friends on Fetlife HERE

OCT 12th, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — ROUGH SEX FOR NICE FOLKS + PLAY PARTY
This is a special edition of the Red Play Party you know from Wilrieke Sophia – this time with famous guest facilitator Reid Mihalko (USA). This is a Temple Night, or the Red Play Party as created by Exploring Deeper: a day of sensual, luscious exploration in an all-embracing environment of like-minded people, with an edutaining class on rough sex in the afternoon.
ABOUT THE MORNING WORKSHOP: ROUGH SEX FOR NICE FOLKS
When you or a lover likes it… Rough.
If you’re a lover, not a fighter, but you or your lover like it a little rough, let sex and relationship educator (and double black belt, former fight choreographer for indie films), Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, show you how you can safely be a badass in bed.
From wrestling to rough sex to advanced ergonomic techniques, join us for this humorous and informative workshop (with live demos!) on how to unleash your inner Bruce Lee of the bedroom.
Date and time
Sunday, October 12, 2025 | 11:00 to 19:00
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
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Invite your friends on Fetlife HERE

2hr Mini-Class: OCT 8th — Virtual, Slut Secure: Growing Out of Premature Attachment
Master becoming Slut Secure! Choose between a 2H intro class or a 6-week intensive with Reid and Misha (or join us for both!).
Plura will be hosting a special 2-hour intro class to the life-changing 6-week course From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure. The class that was described as “a loving-slut intervention [designed] to teach you to stop hurting yourself and those you love and start living fully expressed.”
This is about creating secure connections in all your relationships no matter how short or long.
More details about the 6-week course are below… Just scroll down!
To register for the special 2 hour event click here.

6-Week Course: OCT 15th Thru NOV 19th — Virtual, 6-Week Deep Dive —
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships? Or push new relationships away too fast?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and like-minded humans for a 6-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series with LIVE coaching calls exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
Over 200+ amazing humans have already taken this class and raved about it… And Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure‘s 6 LIVE Q&A/Coaching Calls begin Wed, Oct 15-Nov 19th, 2025, 6-8pm PACIFIC.
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
NOVEMBER 2025 EVENTS
More events coming soon!

FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!



Jan 12-15th, 2026 ARLINGTON, VA— INTERFUSION FESTIVAL
2025 was my first time at Interfusion and the Powers That Be have invited me back! Save the dates!!! Links and info when they’re available – Check out their website HERE.


Jul 26-31st, MOLKOM, SWEDEN — THE FIELD FESTIVAL!
Created by Rachel Rickards, The Field Festival is the first large-scale gathering dedicated to exploring and amplifying our innate capacity for coherent, connected presence. Imagine a festival (or even a world) where we come together, not as isolated individuals, but as one unified organism.
And Reid’s gonna be teaching there…
Details coming soon…
When: Jul 26-31st, 2026
Where: Ängsbacka Retreat Center, Molkom, Sweden
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ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…

ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map

DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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