Why Some Positions Feel Better Than Others

Answered: Why some positions feel better than others… Have you ever heard me speak about Pressure Play? In case you didn’t know… 🤔 Our bodies are full of fascinating connections —muscles, fascia, ligaments, and nerves— all working together like a complex system of ropes and pulleys… And those ropes and pulleys all run to your pelvis and erectile tissue! […]

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Who is The Blowjob For?

Who is the Blowjob For? 🤔 One of the sneakiest, sexiest questions you can ask about a blowjob is: Who is this for? 👅 “Who is it for?” is a game-changing question that comes from Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent framework. Betty’s life’s work expands touch beyond the simple Giving/Receiving we were all raised with. It adds dimensions and considerations like Doing and Done To, which […]

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Attend Reid’s Naughty N’awlins 2026 Classes

Need a reason to join Reid in New Orleans for 5-days of debaucherous fun with like-minded sex geeks? This will be Reid and Rina’s THIRD YEAR coming to Nola! YOU should join us!!! Scroll down so you can join Reid and Rina for any of their FREE or PAID* classes happening at Naughty N’awlins this […]

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Join Reid In Phoenix, Arizona!

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Herpes scare? What do you say?

Herpes scare? What do you say? True story from a friend below…  👀 Has this ever happened to you??? Giving (or getting) news about an STI test result or possible exposure? Has it ever sent people into an emotional tailspin, or freaked yourself out? 😬 The worrying kicks into high gear… WHO do I tell? 👀 […]

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The Cost of Taking Casual Sex TOO Casually

What If Everyone Took Their Casual Sex MORE Seriously? Do you — or someone you know — take their casual sex TOO casually? Healthy, amazing, thriving relationships require strong communication skills, ample self-awareness, the courage to be honest with yourself and others, and emotional savvy. Full stop. And, believe it or not, these skills also […]

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How Medical Shame Is Like Vibrator Shame

New Hip, Who Dis? Content Warning: Slightly humorous and frank medical discussion about what my recent hip replacement surgery 🦴 has in common with using a vibrator to orgasm 💦… On Jan 28th, I celebrated my 58th birthday! (I’ll tell you about THOSE shenanigans another time! *blush*) 🥳🥳🥳 Seven days later, I left my friends […]

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Reid visits the Poly Tantra Kink Podcast to talk Play, Party Prep & Integration

Reid visits the Poly Tantra Kink Podcast to talk Play, Party Prep & Integration: Jedi Skills for Navigating Group Social Sexual Spaces I recently joined my friend Laurie Ellington on the Poly Tantra Kink Podcast for a playful, practical conversation about navigating play parties, temple nights, and group erotic spaces with more confidence, consent, and […]

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Being Spontaneous Vs. Regret — To Do It or Not To Do It…

Recently, I had the honor of teaching at the Interfusion Festival in Arlington, Virginia! Here’s a fun, slightly cheesy picture of yours truly with EverydayTantra.com’s Monique Darling & Peter Petersen. I was asked to facilitate a group conversation that would help attendees have a more powerful and positive festival experience… And the topic I chose […]

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Did you catch the other night’s “How is a wine glass Tantric? ” video?

Have you ever kissed a bad kisser? Do you know how a wine glass can help you become more Tantric? 💦 👀 This post is for YOU! I arrived in Conneticut the other night and Amanda Ananda of TheTantricMama.com and I did a LIVE to nerd out on bad kissers, how wine glasses can make […]

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