Cathy Vartuli

How Can Asking For Payments Be Easier?

Asking for money can be tough. How can you make it easier, and more comfortable? If you could ask for money easily, what would that do for your business? Your life? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do I ask for payments […]

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Privacy vs Transparency in Sex Positive Businesses

Sharing your passion and experiences can help you touch people’s lives and help them feel safe with you. How much do you share about your private life when you run a sex-positive business? What should you keep private and where are you transparent? And how will it effect your loved ones? With Reid Mihalko from […]

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Can G-Spot Stimulation Bruise The Urethra Or Cause UTIs?

G-spot play can be really fun. Can it cause problems? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers in Germany wrote in and said “Hey there guys.”  Reid: Germany?  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Hello Germany.  Cathy: It’s great to see you. “Hey there guys. I hope it’s okay to […]

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Dealing With Shaming Comments About Herpes

How can you deal with hurtful, shaming comments around STIs? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hate mail, hate mail, whatcha gonna do? Whatcha gonna do when the haters come for you? Okay, so this really isn’t necessarily hate mail …  Cathy: Well, calling us “fucking wackos” is a little […]

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How Do You Deal With Envy When You Can’t Get A Need Met?

Envy can be tough, and it can be even harder when you have no way to get that need met. What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid being helpful.  Reid: This is a very important question and I’m feeling intimidated.  Cathy: Someone asked:  “How […]

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Only Able To Have Orgasms With A Vibrator? How Can You Have More Fun With Your Partner?

How can you talk to your partner about needing a vibrator to have an orgasm? And have more fun with and without one? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: A reader wrote in and said, “I can only have orgasms with a vibrator and I haven’t really talked […]

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Playing Games Around Sex? Using Old Paradigms Around Relationships?

How can you step out of the old games about withholding sex or not contacting the other person “too soon”? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I recently had sexual encounter with a new man. I know we really like each other […]

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How Do I Nationalize My Brand And Take My Show On The Road?

Want to reach more people and be a nationally known speaker or teacher? How do you do that? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do I nationalize my brand and take the show on the road, so that I can reach more […]

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Not Sure Where To Start With Your First Vibrator?

Want to try a vibrator but not sure where to start? What is a good first vibrator? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I’m an older woman, and I’ve never had a vibrator, and I’d really like to have one, […]

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You And You Partner Interested In The Same Person? And They Beat You To The Punch?

Some people are more extraverted than others, what if your partner beats you to the punch flirting with someone you like? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: What happens when you and your partner are interested in the same person and they start flirting with them first? Beating […]

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