Sex Geek Conservatory – 3 Day Presentation Skills Immersion for Sex Educators

Sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of about to lecture to 500 college students on rape culture, consent, and healthy sexual relationships at Brock University

Are You Ready To Rock From Stage?

Overcome your “stage fright” and tap into your authentic teaching style to become a more engaging, charismatic, trustworthy presenter and public speaker!

Feel more self-confident teaching in front of small and large groups… On camera or Skype… Giving 1-on-1 interviews and leading coaching sessions…

And earn the respect of your peers by learning how to weave advanced teaching techniques with powerful performance skills… Increase your professionalism, prowess, and potential as a sex educator!

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As Seen on Netfilix’ “Chelsea Does…” with Chelsea Handler…
Join Reid Mihalko for 3 Days Designed to Transform Your Teaching Game

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Sex Geek Conservatory is for YOU if you’re ready to:

  • Be a thrilling presenter and sex educator from stage, in a room, during an interview, or on camera.
  • To be able to inspire an audience, a group, or a single client, and…
  • Change their perspectives, their relationships, and their lives!
  • Feel authentic, self-expressed, and downright GREAT whenever you teach!

Being a mesmerizing and engaging teacher who has great advice is one of the easiest ways to build a “word of mouth” reputation where people naturally want to share, post, Like, and tell others about your work. It’s the sex educators and speakers who have “word of mouth” reputations turbo charging their careers that get invited to speak, get hired, and are in demand.

And here’s the best part…
YOU can build a “word of mouth” reputation, too!

Despite what you may think, nearly all of these speakers weren’t born with charisma, charm, and inspiring swagger they exhibit on stage… They had to tap into it, hone and craft it, and exercise their “speaking muscles” until it became second nature…

While I was always this “dorky,” I wasn’t always this confident and self-possessed on stage. In fact, I was the fat, awkward 7th grader who wore the rainbow, Mork And Mindy suspenders and thought “Do you want to play Connect Four?” was an adequate pickup line. And today, I have the great honor of having had over 50,000 men and women attend my workshops and lectures. I get invited to speak on college campuses, teach at international retreats, share my wisdom at professional conferences. My YouTube channel has nearly 2million views and , and I’ve appeared on television shows, radio, and podcasts in nearly every continent on the planet.

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Emmy nominated journalist Lisa Ling interviewing Reid 1-on-1 for Oprah’s “Our America” on OWN.

I went from clumsy 7th grader to “America’s favorite sex geek,” and I believe you can create your own version of this journey for your career. In fact, I’m so certain of it, I’m willing to guarantee it.

Being an engaging speaker is simpler than you think. In fact, it’s shockingly within your grasp… Yes, it will take work and won’t happen overnight, but YOU can tap into powers of presentation and teaching that you may not think you possess! And YOU can learn to do it in a way that is authentic and true to who YOU are so you can bring it forth easily over and over again. I can’t wait!

In this 3-day intensive, I’ll be teaching you the 5 Secrets To Being In Demand, how to discover and unleash your personal voice and authentic expression so that, whenever you teach, you leave an impression that touches, connects, and moves your audiences and helps them anchor your teachings and transform their lives.

This exclusive, small group, 3-Day, interactive, “feet-on-the-stage” and “mic-in-your-hand” deep immersion is like nothing you’ve experienced before.

As far as I know, nothing like this exists in the sex educator community.

I’m not going to teach you a bunch of public speaking mannerisms and cookie cutter vocal technique approaches. Those just leave people yawning, bored, and looking at their iPhones. This also isn’t an NLP course or “train the trainer” program where you’ll learn a bunch of tactics and strategies that ultimately leave your participants feelings manipulated, distrusting of you, and ruin your reputation.

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I’m talking about tapping into your authentic self-expression as a teacher, plugging it into your passionate purpose, and combining it with your expertise so you can harness all of who you are when you speak.

This approach will allow you to overcome “stage fright” and the fear of public speaking while simultaneously building trust and connection with your audiences.

This 3-day intensive isn’t for slackers. Only apply if you’re serious about empowering others and making the world a more pleasure-positive place.

We’ll be digging deep within your being and who YOU are as a teacher and a human being to find the gold that leaps out of you and touches people’s hearts. And then I’ll show you how to deliver that gold in a self-expressed and congruent way that will naturally give you confidence, charisma, and have your audiences inspired to take action.

You’ll learn, anchor, and integrate teaching and performance skills that will catapult your speaking skills and stage presence to the next level!

AND I’ll be inviting you to some “pre-work” webinars and short videos before Conservatory even happens to prime the pump and get things percolating, so when you come to Conservatory, the information and our time together will unfold powerfully!

I’m so excited to help you with this.

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Envision yourself on stage, people leaping to their feet, cheering you on as your words and mannerisms convey your message and deliver the impact and the difference your followers have been craving for all their lives!

You can be THAT kind of educator.

Imagine the respect your family, peers, and loved ones will have for you when they witness and interact with you from your place of authentic expression that fuels your calling and career…

How would THAT feel, waking up every day with that kind of ease, alignment, and presence?

You deserve this, your career deserves this, and the world desperately needs your voice!

I’ve helped people go from wall-flowers who could barely say hi to getting multiple standing ovations in front of 700 people. Imagine what I can help YOU do with your passion and your voice!

Wherever you are, whether you want to stop dreading talking in front of a group or raise an auditorium of people to their feet, cheering, I’m going to tune you in and turn you on!

Access the latest recordings from Sex Geek Conservatory so you can start upping your game today, AND secure your seat to the next scheduled Conservatory (limited to the first 20 people). Start today and discover the skills and ability to unleash yourself in a way that opens hearts, inspires growth, builds a bankable reputation, and brings the crowds to their feet.

What Sex Geek Conservatory Alumni are Saying…

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Jimanekia Eborn, creator of TraumaQueen.Love podcast

“As someone that was newly budding into a new career and getting over the ever-present impostor syndrome, Sex Geek Conservatory came at the right time in my life. I was able to walk away with skills and confidence that I do not know I would have gotten if I had done it another way. The pushing and support (in a loving way) was what I needed. As someone whom people assume is an extrovert who is TOTALLY NOT! This was a great way for me to practice how to give talks, how to create pitches, and how to just talk in front of strangers without wanting to run away.

Since doing Conservatory I have created my own podcast series, I have spoken at numerous colleges, I have keynoted conferences and spoken at some of the best of them. Overall Conservatory was uber helpful in getting my skill set together to be able to do all the things.”

~Jimanekia Eborn
Consultant, Host of Trauma Queen podcast and
Director of Education for More than “No”

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“I’ve always been super shy. Insomnia for nights before a presentation in front of 5 people, and my hand shaking so badly the laser pointer made people nauseous level of scared. I tried Xanax, positive self-talk, and therapy. Nothing helped the raw panic and anxiety I experienced when I spoke publicly. The study that said people would rather face divorce or death than public speaking could have been about me!

Working with Reid helped me get in touch with being in service when I shared, and the message meaning more to me than my fear. He also guided me into connecting my body and energy to my voice so my words had more impact and power.

Being part of Sex Geek Conservatory, and seeing that other people struggled too, and learning skills to improve the way we reached people made a huge difference for me. I’ve had standing ovations in front of 700 people, and at 4 Bawdy Storytelling Shows. I know my words are able to reach people more deeply and hopefully inspire them at a more profound level, whether I’m sharing ideas at Sex Geek Summer Camp or at a workshop. Conservatory is amazing. The people, the skills, and Reid’s unique approach to finding each individual’s power center made a tremendous difference that will last the rest of my life.”

~ Cathy from

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“Sex Geek Conservatory helped me identify the areas of public speaking where I needed some attention and improvement. It also gave me several opportunities to workshop those skills and get better. I noticed a significant increase in positive feedback from my public speaking & teaching gigs after participating in Conservatory. Now I get regular comments of people saying that my teaching & speaking style is engaging, effective and leaves them feeling comfortable participating in my workshops & events.”

~Hunter Riley, Director of Education & Outreach 
Self Serve Sexuality Resource Center
Albuquerque, NM


Conservatory Comes with Reid’s

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Guarantee: You have my personal, Reid’s Double-Tap guarantee!

My Standard 30-day Money Back Guarantee: Purchase access to the recordings and get 30 days to check ’em out. If you’re not satisfied, just ask for a refund within 30 days and it’ll be my pleasure to refund you 100%. If we have spots left for our next scheduled LIVE Conservatory event and you purchase your recordings and ticket less than 30-days from the start of the actual event, there will be no refunds.

What happens if I’m not one of the first 30 people, Reid? Great question! Once our next LIVE Conservatory fills up, purchasers will be put on a waitlist and notified if a slot opens up.

AND my Special “Reid Won’t Waste My Time” Satisfaction Guarantee: I know your time and focus is valuable! I promise not to waste your time at my LIVE Sex Geek Conservatory and am prepared to back it up! How? If you attend and participate in all three days of Sex Geek Conservatory and you feel that you’ve learned nothing and that I’ve wasted your time, let me or my staff know with integrity at the end of the event, “Reid, you wasted my time and I didn’t learn anything. I’d like a refund,” and we’ll refund your ticket price IN FULL!

That’s how much I believe in Sex Geek Conservatory, and I believe in YOU!

The skills, understandings, and experience you’ll gain in these 3 days will last a lifetime, positively affect your career as a sex educator, and flow into every encounter you have after.

What is the cost of this transformation? Priceless. You bring your courage, your passion, and your drive to make a difference, and I’ll help you unleash that power! I guarantee it.

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Over 3 days, I’ll guide you to discovering that inner power and expression and help you bring it out where it can make a difference.

BONUS: You’ll get access to the “What Next?” group call recording that happened after Conservatory to help you tune into your next best steps. The call will give you a chance to listen in on the mentoring and advice on what to do next (and, if you’re like me, hearing the advice and brainstorming for others’ situations often helps me see – and seize! – opportunities that I couldn’t spot on my own!). This valuable post-Conservatory call recording lasted as long as everyone had questions! You will have lifetime access to the recording so you can pour over the geekery again and again.

SECOND BONUS: Finally, you’ll also be invited to my exclusive Getting Started Speaking And Getting Booked webinar showing you how to get started speaking in front of groups and getting gigs!

THIRD BONUS (to the first 20 people who register): Be one of the first 20 people registered to attend the LIVE Sex Geek Conservatory event, and get a video recording of your “formal practice run” on stage at Sex Geek Conservatory, which will include the live feedback and suggestions! This is a priceless way to see yourself from the outside and clarify your message and your self-expression to make the biggest impact.

If you’re ready and passionate about your speaking skills, let’s do this now!

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Frequently Asked Questions:

When is the next Sex Geek Conservatory: Nov 18-20, 2022.

Where is Sex Geek Conservatory: Gresham, Oregon — Just 30-mins from Downtown Portland and 27-mins from PDX International Airport. Exact address will be sent to you after registering.

What Should I wear? Comfortable clothes, we’ll be doing movement exercises, and we want you to be comfortable. You may choose to bring an outfit that you would wear on stage to use for your “formal practice run” since people are contextual learners. And bring a sweater and fuzzy socks if you get cold easily!

Is food and lodging included? No. You are responsible for your own travel, meals, and lodging. Feel free to bring snacks and beverages to consume during classes and lunch. The venue has an extra fridge just for workshop attendees. You’re welcome to bring your own food and eat lunch at the venue or head to one of Gresham’s many nearby restaurants.

Where should I stay? The event is being held in a private residence. I recommend asking other attendees, whom you’ll be introduced to after registering, if they’d like to share an AirBnB, or reaching out to any local Sex Geeks you might know on Facebook for a possible futon to crash on. And there’s or regular hotels and nearby motels, too, if tha’s your thang.

Where do I eat? We’ll give you a link to nearby restaurants on registration FAQ, which has more details.

What is Conservatory’s service animals policy? Animals that fall under the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) definition of a service animal are allowed at this year’s Conservatory venue. We endeavor to make Conservatory as inclusive and accessible as possible. Please let us know in advance so we can properly plan. In general, for all of the events I personally organize and run, depending on the policies of the venue and the needs of attendees, when and if I can, there may be service animals at my events. If there are allergies that can’t be dealt with by taking allergy medicine, or other issues or concerns, please contact me at Here is Camp’s Accessibility Policy (which I am applying to Conservatory).

What will you cover? I’ll be teaching you proven methods to authentically find your core passion and share it dynamically and in self-expressed ways from stage. You won’t be a cookie-cutter version of me or anyone else.

Will I be on stage at the event? Yes. And it will be far easier and more fun than you’ve ever imagined it could be. We’ll do baby steps to gradually anchor your confidence and your congruent expression that will leave you feeling empowered and amazing!

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You said I’d be videotaped on stage? Who will see it? After Conservatory, you’ll be given a video recording of your “informal practice run” and if useful, possibly some earlier practice runs. These will be delivered digitally to you and are for your own use. You can post them, share them, or just watch them yourself for insight into how you move, speak, and how you deliver information and your energy. The event will also be video recorded, and footage may be used by Reid and ReidAboutSex for advertising and products.

What’s The Schedule for The Evenings? After class “let’s out”,dinner and your evenings are entirely up to you! Portland is only 30-mins away and has a vibrant Sex Geek and kink/BDSM nightlife scene, as well as kick-ass food and drink, etc. Portland, believe it or not, even has a vegan strip-club! Do some research and make the most of your time in Portlandia!

What’s the guarantee? There are two guarantees for this. My standard 30-day money back guarantee (valid up until 30 days before Conservatory. No refunds within 30 days of the start of the event). AND my special satisfaction guarantee: if you attend and participate in all three days and don’t feel that you’ve learned anything, let me or my staff know, and we’ll refund your ticket price.

What if I find out I can’t attend? Tickets are transferable once (1x) with no penalty, up to the week before the event to give everyone time for the transferee to fill-out their training application and it must be accepted. Transfers after that will incur a $35 transfer fee. There are no refunds after the 30-day guarantee window, or within 30 days of the event. You are also allowed to roll-over your ticket to the next training at Reid’s discretion. In cases of documented medical emergencies, contact and we’ll see what options we can co-create.

Are you promising I can make a living by being on stage? No. Just like anything, you’ll have to do the work to succeed. I can’t promise any particular financial return. I can promise that I’ll show you and help you integrate techniques that if you use them will boost your charisma and make your speaking style and energy far more effective and natural to who you are.

What if I’m terrified of speaking from stage? It is ok. I can help. One of my students (before I worked with her on this) spent 24-hours curled up in a fetal position before her first talk in front of 12 people, where she stuttered and had trouble meeting anyone’s eyes. She’s now spoken happily and enthusiastically in front of 700 people and got two standing ovations, and is regularly invited to speak at national conventions and meetings.

What if I’m already comfortable speaking in front of people? Great! Congratulations! Are you ready to dig deep and get more authentic and vulnerable? I promise I can challenge you as far as you want to go. Are you ready to touch people so deeply they jump to their feet and change their lives? I can take you there.

Isn’t that a lot to promise? Yes. And I’m committed to going as deep as you’re ready to. This is not your Mother’s Toastmasters or even the Toastmasters of today (Nothing against them, great organization). I’m going to have you delve into your soul and share the gems you normally hide there. We’re going to walk towards the gun, together, and start sharing the things you’ve never thought you could. All in a supportive and compassionate environment. Its a lot of work and a lot of courage, and infinitely worth the effort.

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I realize that classes end most nights at 6pm. Will there be any evening programming? Not exactly, meaning, I won’t be in charge of evening entertainment and activities. However, Portland has a thriving sex education and kink/BDSM scene, the amazing adult boutique SheBop, plus lots and lots of other awesome events going all the time, AND amazing food and drink! Feel free to take full advantage of everything Portland has to offer you while you’re here! And feel free to invite the other Conservatory attendees to join you!

Can’t wait to see you at Sex Geek Conservatory!


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