Reid Takes Calgary, Dec 2015

by Erin Tillman on October 11, 2014

ReidMoniqueLawrenceCalgaryDec2014Reid takes Calgary!

Come join me and the amazing Monique Darling and Lawrence Lanoff in Calgary, Alberta Canada, this December for several days exploring sexuality, vulnerability, and self-acceptance! Check out the events below and sign up for one or ALL OF THEM! Either way, YOU ARE A WINNER!

Let us show you ways to simplify your life, lessen emotional paperwork, and face your fears with humor and confidence. 

Reality hacker Lawrence Lanoff will help you break down the belief patterns you may not even know you have and open you to an immense playground of possibilities you had not dared to consider. 

Monique Darling, mistress of the weave, will bring together the juiciest morsels of various teachers to help you internalize the lessons to your depths, and to help you find the greatest love of your life. Yourself.

Seldom do circumstances allow the three of us to be in the same place at the same time, and we are super excited to spend a weekend geeking out together. 

Come and benefit from the blending of our unique experiences, approaches, and insights regarding skillful communication to get to your no without fear to uncover your yes, releasing your armor and becoming more vulnerable to discover an inner strength you did not know you have, and the ability to laugh in the face of your greatest fears.

WHEN: Telesminar Oct 29 and In-Person Workshops Dec 3-8, 2014
WHERE: Calgary, Alberta Canada
WHO: Reid Mihalko, Monique Darling, Lawrence Lanoff, and YOU!

Reid’s schedule of events!


WED, OCT 29th, 2014

8:30pm-9:30pm – Fearless Relating By Destroying Myths Teleconference Call


Are you ready to dive into a call of FEARLESS RELATING with three of the most dynamic relationship geeks on the planet today? Come blow your mind and open your heart with vulnerability diva Monique Darling, reality hacker Lawrence Lanoff and sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko. If you could have anything, do anything, what would you choose? What do you really want? What is keeping you from having it? 

Life is actually fairly simple – lies, beliefs and bulllshit make it complicated – because they confuse reality.
Freedom comes from seeing reality clearly. Reality is ecstasy because it’s all about dropping myths.
Right now you may be living life chasing windmills that you believe are GIANTS -There are giants all right – giant piles of BS and because we are spinning our wheels in giant piles of BS (belief systems) that are completely out of touch with reality.

But reality is out there. It’s possible to come in contact with, and when you do, it’s life changing.
And part of waking up is really about stepping out of the womb of myth and stories.

“A myth is a fixed way of looking at the world which cannot be destroyed because, looked at through the myth, all evidence supports that myth”~Edward Bono

During this hour call, Reid MihalkoMonique Darling, and Lawrence Lanoffwill each share their top myth busting piece around fearless relating, take a few of your deepest relationship questions, and tell you about a weekend of events that could alter your way of relating with everyone in your life beginning with YOU!!

This free amazing call will take place Wed Oct 29 from 8:30-9:30 PM MST
It will be recorded if you can’t make it live, But you must sign up through eventbrite to get the call in information


WED, DEC 3rd, 2014

7:00-11:00pm – All Ages Enchantment Ceremony with a (Pre) Meet and Greet Feast with Monique Darling

COST: $40 a person/$60 per couple in advance
$50 per person on the door if tickets are still available

TICKETS: Purchase your ticket today on Eventbrite to secure your spot for this incredible afternoon:

  • Step into a world of acceptance and sensation where all of you is welcome. Each person is invited into magical connections to expand your experience of giving and receiving. The ritual begins the moment you enter as you are celebrated, seen and adored for ALL you are. 
  • Be completely held in your deepest humanity and greatest Divinity as you dance into sweet union. The greatest gift from the Enchantment Ceremony is the beauty of surrender and the willingness to offer all of yourself in this unforgettable evening.
  • In this profound experience you are invited to show your adoration with rituals such as washing and adorning the feet, offering elements of silence, chocolate, witnessing tears, or showering roses.
  • We welcome you to reclaim your space and powerful place in the world as we unveil your deepest core. You will leave enchanted having fallen more deeply in love with YOU.
  • Come dressed in your fanciest dress, ready to be adored. With open hearts and deep connection you will be “rebirthed” from a place of complete vulnerability and fullness as you choose to wake up to YOU!
  • This is a non-sexual experience and welcomes people of all ages (including children) and is LGBTQ friendly.


THURS, DEC 4th, 2014

7:00pm-10:00pm The Art of Radical Self-Acceptance by Lawrence Lanoff

COST: $40 a person, $70 a pair or $50 at the door

Are you living a life that is in tune with your Authentic Sexually Expressed Self (maximizing who you can be) or your fictional, limited self, violent thinking self (who your parents want you to be)? Here is a glimpse of what will be covered…

  • Learning Is About Tangibly Changing Your Behaviors, Thoughts And Actions for EXPANDING Radical Self Acceptanceâ„¢ PLEASURE and FREEDOM. 
  • Dismantle the Beliefs That Keep Your Imprisioned Sexually, Psychologically, and Financially.
  • Learn The Power of Cultivating Pleasure – Your KEY to Happiness.
  • Unleash the Power of A Focused Mind and an Awakened Body.
  • Discover and Experience How Living In Radical Self Acceptanceâ„¢ Transforms Every Area Of Life 


FRI, DEC 5th, 2014-SUN DEC 7th, 2017

Fearless Relating Playshop Weekend

COST: before Oct 31, Only $497!!! 597 after Oct 31

Package deal for all 4 events: $569 – by Halloween (October 31), $669 after
Please RSVP online as we often sell out!

TICKETS:  or send paypal or e-transfer to

Are you ready to take an intensive weekend of FEARLESS RELATING with three of the most dynamic relationship geeks on the planet today? Come blow your mind and open your heart with vulnerability diva Monique Darling, reality hacker Lawrence Lanoff and sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko.

If you could have anything, do anything, what would you choose? What do you really want? What is keeping you from having it? Is someone else better qualified? better looking? more financially stable? Do you have “problems”? What if every limit you have, every chain that binds you, is only there because you believe it is? What if the limits disappear, the chains dissolve?. Your life is alive with an abundance of possibilities, opportunities, and potential all you have to do is be willing to say “yes”.

So much of the fear and hesitation in life comes not from the self, but from fretting about what others may think,or what they will say or whom they might share it with afterwards rather than being able to enjoy the moment. Another set of fears come from passed-down beliefs that we accept without questioning them. 

What if you could make decisions and follow your heart…follow your body and your desires without worrying about what others thought? What if you were fearless in relating — first, to yourself and then, to others? 

We all have feelings of ferocity and tenderness, but we must feel safe in order to be vulnerable and intimate with another. Part of that safety is being confident in our own ability to say ‘NO’ and take a stand for our boundaries. Only then can we play in the realm of our true ‘HELL YES!’

Come join us for a unique weekend of exploration around such topics as:

  • How do we establish boundaries and create safe space for ourselves to explore with others? 
  • Shifting paradigms from blame, shame, guilt & judgement, to love, acceptance, understanding and presence.
  • Factors that promote or inhibit intimacy
  • The power of no and boundary (understand why your “no” says more about you than your “yes”)

In this workshop you will learn, play, and practice: 

  • To ask for what you want, skillfully, without attachment to the response.
  • To honor, respect, and be grateful for the answer “no”, and still be hopeful for the answer “yes”.
  • To be honest and vulnerable about your wants and desires without shame, without deflection, without armor.
  • To hold space for someone who has not yet learned these skills.
  • To own your fears, instead of them owning you.
  • To not be afraid to be the one who loves the most
  • To learn to be even more vulnerable when you want to isolate or close down.
  • Release shame and haunting memories
  • Modalities of communication: verbal and non verbal

You will gain tools and leave with the ability to relate with everyone in your life with more ease, grace, and blissful contentment from your own center.

Are you confused about dating, mating, and relating in the 21st Century? Dating, marriage and the reasons we stay in relationships have changed a lot since the days of our great grandparents. Join us for this humorous, frank and informative, intensive workshop where sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko boils down over 150,000 conversations he’s had about sex and relationships and walks us through his best thinking and advice on making sex, dating, relationships and mating work!
Participants will leave this interactive workshop experience discovering:

  • Tools to determine if someone is a good or horrible fit for you…
  • Communication Skills to ask for what they want and how to avoid past relationship mistakes…
  • A few of Reid’s, Monique’s and Lawrence’s “black belt” relationship tips and tricks!

Then, let Monique Darling, Consent Geek Extraordinaire, lead you through all of the tools, tips, tricks and how to uplevel the questions you are asking yourself and others to truly be able to find and live from your own “Hell Yes”!! Monique has been leading Cuddle Parties (just facilitated her 336th) all over the country, which are 3 1/2 hours of practicing this concept.

How amazing would it be to live life offering every “no” without apology and every “yes” without being ashamed? Learn that it really isn’t about anyone else, it’s about tuning in and taking care of you, and then you can relate with ease and joy with others, wherever they are at.

And Radical Self Acceptance Master Mind Lawrence Lanoff will, bring his own unique perspective from years of teaching inner inquiry, experiential exploration, and infinite curiosity into just how GOOD we can feel in our body. Lawrence will relate how the underlying framework of belief is a major influence of our ability to experience pleasure.

Learning better sexual technique will boost your sexual self-confidence, raise your self-esteem, and make you more confident and competent in sex and love! Being THAT kind of person is attractive in AND out of the bedroom! Part of the weekend will cover how to increase your sexual self-confidence ten-fold and start becoming a more attractive, self-expressed and fearless person in all your relationships!

Through no nudity, interactive, hilariously “edutaining” demonstrations, you will learn:

  • How to use fantasy to turbo-charge a lover’s orgasm…
  • How to listen to your partner’s body in bed…
  • How to create your own “sexual positions decoder ring” so you naturally “think” about lovemaking in an exciting, Kama Sutra way!
  • How to slow down sexual experience for greater pleasure learning to STOP judging ourselves and our partners
  • Understanding how to expand our own sexual energy and our PLEASURE Body
  • Opening to Full Body Energy Orgasms
  • Learning how to clear and tap into the central core meridians of the body
  • The different stories you and others are telling about your sexual identity
  • Developing Emotional and Sexual Safety for Intimacy
  • 5 tips that will give you oral sex super powers!
  • 3 Powerful Perspectives that will help you understand pleasure and orgasm, and how to give and receive both!
  • 3 ways to use your hands sexually that will drive your partner wild AND leave you feeling more confident as a lover!
  • 2 BIG differences between penises and vulvas, and 1 thing that’s the same that will make you 10-times better in bed…
  • And still more!

If you ever begin to understand who you are, you could not possibly ever compare yourself to another, to envy, wish to impress, to BE different than you are. For in the beauty, wonder, and awe at discovering how magnificent “your” puzzle pieces fit together, at the ever changing infinite ways YOU shift, dance, and weave together, each one so unique, so extraordinary, it would take an entire lifetime to only just begin to discover. Yet so often we abandon the quest of self discovery, to follow another, or to invest in relationships, doing what we have been told is the “right” way to be. The greatest freedom that we could ever express or imagine, is by simply giving ourselves permission to gently keep returning to us and we can transform the world by simply being 100% ourselves.

Come with an open heart and a willingness, a longing, to bring your stories into the light, so that they can stop you running away from your shadow.

There will be times, over the weekend, when the atmosphere will be sensual and energetically sexual. All activities and exercises will be guided and are always optional. You can participate in the workshop solo, with a partner and in small groups. All participants are asked to practice with each other, or by oneself, in whatever manner supports you best. Many options will be offered to support each individual experience.

This could be the last time these three fearless, relating mentors get together for a while, so set your sights on registering for this breakthrough weekend, and get a three for the price of one deal by paying only what it ordinarily cost to learn from just one of these facilitators.

So say ‘HELL YES’ to discovering ‘YOU’


MON, DEC 8th, 2014

7:00pm-10:00pm – Put More Pleasure Into Your Business

COST: $40 a person prepaid, $50 at the door

Whether you are a wellness or lifestyle coach, a personal or fitness trainer, an energetic healer, a tantra and relationship counsellor or anything in between, you are a lifestyle professional.

Being a lifestyle professionals and making a decent living can seem at odds. Too many amazing lifestyle professionals are on the verge of financial and emotional collapse from the worry, burnout, and frustration of trying to make ends meet while sharing their calling with the world. What if you could change lives AND get paid decently for it? What if there were ways to reach more people with your message using less effort? And what if there was a learnable approach to the business of being a lifestyle professional that would augment your strengths, make you more prolific with less stress, inspire your fans and clients, free up more time for you to relax and recharge, and help you make money without feeling “salesy,” pushy, or creepy?

The good news: This is all possible, and you can do it, too! Join sex, relationship and business geek, Reid Mihalko for an informative and humorous evening where he’ll show you 3 crushing mistakes most lifestyle professionals are making that leave them frustrated, burnout and broke, and the successful business models and practices that will help you turn your calling into a life-long, successful career.


Sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of posing for a group photo with University of Tennessee students after their 2nd annual Sex Week in Knoxville, TN, 2014ABOUT REID: Reid Mihalko of helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (Cuddle Party, Speed-Flirting) to the rated-R (Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, Show-N-Tell sex education workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes, and ask questions), Reid’s workshops have been attended by close to 30,000 individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and health for adults in and out of the bedroom.

Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.

Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Follow Reid twittering as @ReidAboutSex.

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