Sexual Skills & Pleasure

Afraid of Attraction or Arousal? We’re Not In 7th Grade Anymore!

Are you afraid of other people’s attraction? Or your own arousal? Most of us can actually control ourselves. You can upgrade your beliefs and feel more confident with yourself and others. Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and approaches to help you appreciate your pre-frontal cortex! Cathy: Are you still […]

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Talking About Masturbation

Most people don’t talk about masturbation, and that can leave people feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … […]

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Trouble Orgasming

Trouble Orgasming? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: A lot of women have trouble orgasming. Reid: What? That explains everything. Cathy: They may not be able to orgasm with a partner or by themselves or they may just be, it may take them a long time or it might be a struggle […]

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San Diego! Put More Pleasure Into Your Sex Positive Business THIS THURS FEB 26!

Learn How To Have Less Stress, More Fun, & Make Living as a Sex-Positive Professional If you’re tired of being the best kept secret in your field… Of struggling to make ends meet while your friends and family disapprove… Of worrying if it’s really worth sharing your gifts with the world and doubting if sex […]

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Polyamory and Non-Monogamy Resources

Resources! Resources! Rah! Rah! Rah! It’s hard enough to have a successful relationship with one person and you want to explore open relationships and non-monogamy?! You came to the right place! Congratulations on being the kind of person who’s smart enough and courageously curious enough to fortify themselves with resources on open relationships and non-monogamy! Let […]

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Sex Geek Summer Camp’s 2014 Sex Toy Review Video Contest!

The 1st Annual Sex Geek Summer Camp Sex Toy Review Video Contest is Underway! Which lucky camper will win?! We have all the videos submitted, and I’m eagerly watching every moment I get to choose a winner! (I’m traveling and teaching almost non-stop right now, so I have to watch in between lectures!) Contest Is […]

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How To Be a Great Kisser: From Awkward To Wow! [Video]

Improve your Kiss-Ability! Kissing is the Starting Line for most sexual interaction. When you’re confident and know how to use your body, how to listen to their body, and are able to tune into the mutual energy between you two, making out becomes it’s own exciting race track of sensuality! Reid shows you how to […]

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Confidence and Instinct In The Bedroom [Article]

Am I Good In Bed… Yes, I am! Or Am I? It’s an ironic truth that being confident often makes people appear much sexier… And yet, in most people’s minds there is the question, “Am I good in bed?” Confidence in bed can be very attractive… it can spark interest, ignite passion, and explode into […]

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Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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Wineglasses can make you a better lover… Really?

This is really cool and can take your physical intimacy to a whole new level! And you’ll never look at a wineglass the same way again! Play along and then try it out… I’d love to hear how it works for you! The Wine Glass Analogy: Imagine that you have a wineglass in front of you. Have you ever tried […]

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