Nonmonogamy & Group Dynamics

You And You Partner Interested In The Same Person? And They Beat You To The Punch?

Some people are more extraverted than others, what if your partner beats you to the punch flirting with someone you like? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: What happens when you and your partner are interested in the same person and they start flirting with them first? Beating […]

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What Can You Do If Your Partner Is Afraid You’ll Cheat… But You Aren’t Thinking Of It?

Keep getting accused of being a cheater, but not even considering it? What’s going on? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said “My partner thinks I’m going to cheat in the future and he’s spending a lot of time talking about it. But the […]

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He Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With You? What Can You Do?

Does he enjoy sex with other people… But now with you? That can really hurt! What can you do? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: So we had a writer, write in. We’re not going to read it, but it was lengthy, in a good way. We love […]

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Are You Poly or Monogamous In Your Business Relationship…

How do you do sex-positive business? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Are you poly or monogamous in your business relationships? Reid: What? Business conversation. Sex Geek Summer Camp T-shirt means business conversations for sex educators. This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from […]

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Reid & Allison Are Bringing Poly-Curious 101 Back To LA! Just in Time for Valentine’s!

Don’t know what to get your sweetie this Valentine’s? How about a Reid & Allison 3-Way? Curious about this new “lovestyle” you’re hearing a lot about called polyamory? Maybe you’ve read all the books but want to talk to folks actually living and loving the poly lifestyle… Whatever your reason or level of experience, join […]

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Is Polyamory Only For The Affluent And Privilege?

Does poly belong only to the wealthy and well educated? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   In regards to the interview you did with Diane Adams, which was really good- Reid:     Thank you. Cathy:   About polyamory, someone said, “Would these academic people think differently if they lost their […]

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How Do You Negotiate With Your Partner Around Their Overnight Dates?…

Dealing with new relationships in your relationship can be challenging… Listen to Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com disagree on what’s reasonable and draw your own conclusion! Leave comments below. Cathy:   Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my […]

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How Do You Transition Your Poly Relationships?

A lot of poly relationships don’t so much end they transition… how do you do that well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In poly relationships, you don’t so much break up always as transition. Reid:    Those relationships never end, do they? Cathy: Some of them don’t. Reid:    They’re like […]

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How Can You Handle Fluid Bonding in Poly and Open Relationships?

If you’re fluid bonded and one of your partners partners is not playing safe with others, what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my husband and I are fluid bonded with another couple, but they’re more active in the scene and engage […]

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What Do You Do When In a “Monogamous” Situation and Someone Hits on Your Partner?

If you’re not in a poly party, what do you do if someone flirts with your boyfriend in front of you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com reading one of our amazing watcher/listener’s comments while I spit everywhere. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “Hi Cathy, I’ve been […]

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