Nonmonogamy & Group Dynamics

What Snacks Would You Want at Your Play Party?

Do you know what the best snack foods are for play parties? Well, I have answers for you. Read on… What Snacks Go Best at a Play Party? My friends and followers have shared which favorite play party snacks get them in the mood… And I’m curious what foods do it for you? Feel free to leave […]

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Reid’s New Year’s Eve Challenge

• ONLY FOR THE BRAVE (That’s YOU!) •Consider Making THIS New Year’s Unforgettable… The holidaze are upon us so I’ll keep this short! I waited until after Black Friday because I know how bananas the holiday shopping rush can be after the food coma wears off. So now that you’ve escaped family obligations, the stores, […]

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How To Throw a Successful, Kick-Ass Play Party for Your Friends, the online course

Imagine you have a special birthday or holiday coming up, and you want to throw a play party for your friends but you’re worried it won’t go well… Maybe you’ve already been to or hosted play parties and all you see is that they cause MORE drama and upset than fun and orgasms…  It’s true that […]

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The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important?

What Is The Venn Diagram of Compatability and Why Is It Important? The Venn Diagram of Compatability (A.K.A. The Venn Diagram of “Is This Even a Good Idea?”) consists of four circles that Misha Bonaventura and I created. We suggest folks seeking to date or hook up take a peek at the four circles BEFORE […]

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I’m Socially Shy But Sexually Adventuresome… Is That Normal?

I’m Socially Shy But Sexually Adventuresome… Is That Normal? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Typical normies believe in a truly shy person will find themselves in a fucking orgy of all places. Please make a helpful video for those who actually need advice.” This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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Transitioning From A Polyamorous Lifestyle To A Monogamous Relationship

Transitioning From A Polyamorous Lifestyle To A Monogamous Relationship               Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I would love to hear Reid’s thoughts about transitioning from a poly lifestyle to entering a monogamous relationship.” This is Reid Mihalko from https://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and hear […]

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How Do I Transition from A Polygamous to A Monogamous Relationship?

How Do I Transition from A Polygamous to A Monogamous Relationship? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I would love to hear Reid’s thoughts about transitioning from a poly lifestyle to entering a monogamous relationship. This is Reid Mihalko from https://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and hear my thoughts. Can you hear […]

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How Do You Come Out To You’re Family That Your Non-monogamous? | Facebook Live With Reid

How Do You Come Out To You’re Family That Your Non-monogamous? | Facebook Live With Reid         Reid: Hello Facebook, hello YouTube, hello internets and the world, good morning! We are broadcasting from Portland. We are in the hot tub. I’m back from my road trip…I think I’m sporting maybe not spectacular […]

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Somebody Said, “It’s Okay To Fall In Love With My Partner”…How Can I Prove That It’s True?

Somebody Said, “It’s Okay To Fall In Love With My Partner”…How Can I Prove That It’s True?         Reid: Hello everyone it’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and you get in the bed head this morning. This is the first dunk in the hot tub and we have a…a…somebody wrote in with an […]

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Privacy When Poly…How Do I Set Boundaries With Other Partners?

Privacy When Poly…How Do I Set Boundaries With Other Partners?           Find out more with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Do you have any tips for handling scheduling and maintaining privacy of dates and avoiding anxious jealous interrogation from other partners? […]

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