Consent, Boundaries, Ethics

If Someone Talks Over You, What Do you Do?

If Someone Talks Over You, What Do You Do? Cathy: So, what if you just met someone and they’re talking over you and kind of controlling your interactions and even when you try to do boundaries you’re not really, Reid: They keep talking over you? Cathy: Yes. Reid: Even when you’re sharing? Cathy: They are not […]

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When Your Enthusiasm Overpower Someone’s Consent….

When Your Enthusiasm Overpower Someone’s Consent… Find out more now with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Alright there we go. Ah! Cathy: Are we live? Reid: I think we’re live. Cathy: Does anyone see anything? Reid: This is real life. I don’t know. Cathy: Hopefully not. Reid: Hello everyone it’s […]

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Having Strong Personal Boundaries About The Time You Spend With Others | Facebook Live With Reid

Having Strong Personal Boundaries About The Time You Spend With Others | Facebook Live With Reid         Reid: Hello Facebook and YouTube and everyplace else this video will eventually be. It’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ coming to you from the hot tub and we have a really great question that just came […]

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Privacy When Poly…How Do I Set Boundaries With Other Partners?

Privacy When Poly…How Do I Set Boundaries With Other Partners?           Find out more with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Do you have any tips for handling scheduling and maintaining privacy of dates and avoiding anxious jealous interrogation from other partners? […]

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I Had Sex Before The Age of Consent… How Do I Reconcile Shame?

I Had Sex Before The Age of Consent… How Do I Reconcile Shame?           Find out more with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Hey Reid, I’ve been following you for several months now and I think your outlook on sex […]

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Mistakes People Make Around Consent | Facebook Walk With Reid And Allison

Mistakes People Make Around Consent | Facebook Walk With Reid And Allison           Reid: Hello Facebook! It’s Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Allison: And ah! Reid: Today, today is a sexy day ‘coz we’ve got Girl Sex 101’s Allison Moon guest starring today. Do you want to say…you can say anything you […]

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Should I Be Angry If I Caught Him Sleeping With Someone Even though We Had An Unfinished Agreement?

Should I Be Angry If I Caught Him Sleeping With Someone Even though We Had An Unfinished Agreement?         Reid: Hello! This is Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I am with Cathy Vartuli of http://theintimacydojo.com/.  Cathy, what is today’s question? Cathy: Today’s question is someone wrote in and said “my partner and […]

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What Should I Do If Someone Drinks My Beer Other Than My Partner?

What Should I Do If Someone Drinks My Beer Other Than My Partner?           Reid: Alright. We’re broadcasting from the beach with our windsock on our mic. Hopefully the sound is great. Cathy: Yes, hopefully. So, someone wrote in and said that they’re in a poly relationship and one of the […]

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I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?

I Want To Have Sex With Both Men and Women, How Do I Do It Ethically?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’m a guy who has had sex with women for my entire life but I think I’m gay or bi. How do I ethically have sex with both men and […]

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How Do You Navigate Consent Violations In The Community?

How Do You Navigate Consent Violations In The Community?       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do I navigate consent violations on a group and what about accusations for spaces where I might be in a facilitation role or even brave enough to step into one when no one else can or […]

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