Communication & Repair

How Do I Know When She’s Come

How Do I Know When She’s Come? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I […]

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Privacy and Snooping

Your Partner Is Going Through Your Stuff? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone else wrote in to us and said my boyfriend is going through my email and my phone.  He’s snooping.  What can I do, it makes me really uncomfortable? Reid: Shhh, he may be listening in right now. Cathy: That’s really […]

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Reframing Fighting

How Can You Reframe Fighting For A Better Outcome? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Hi, I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from the TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Yeah, and today we’re going to talk about reframing fighting. Cathy: It’s really powerful because in our society, we do have a tendency … […]

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Stuck in the Friend Zone

Stuck in the Friend Zone? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they’re interested with romantically. It doesn’t ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating.  What […]

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Does your family need a “Holiday Safeword”?

Do you and your family need a Holiday Safeword? Do you know what your “Chill Down Styles” are? As my holiday gift to you, here are some fun tips that might just help you get through the “holidaze” of friends and family with more grace and ease… First, I want to invite you, if you […]

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Sex Geek Summer Camp’s 2014 Sex Toy Review Video Contest!

The 1st Annual Sex Geek Summer Camp Sex Toy Review Video Contest is Underway! Which lucky camper will win?! We have all the videos submitted, and I’m eagerly watching every moment I get to choose a winner! (I’m traveling and teaching almost non-stop right now, so I have to watch in between lectures!) Contest Is […]

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Difficult Conversations [Video and Transcript]

Make Difficult Conversations Easier! Join Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com as he discusses Difficult Conversations with TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli! (Scroll down below the video for access to FREE Downloadable Worksheets, and the Video Transcript, too!) You can find the Difficult Conversations article here: reidaboutsex.com/difficult-conversation-formula/ (not safe for all work places, with lots of other juicy content) […]

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No Mind Reading Required… Conscious Romance 101

In my last article, I talked about Kissing in the rain isn’t romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter? In case you haven’t read the article, I shared that despite what media and culture tell us, if you cut through the BS and the music swelling/tear-jerking movie hype, romance just means leaving people feeling appreciated, significant, […]

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Sex Positive Professional 3.0: Upgrading Your Business and Community Pre-Conference Talk at AASECT’s 46th Annual Conference, June 4th

What if strengthening your peer community improved all of our businesses? I’m excited and honored to be asked to give a pre-conference talk at AASECT’s 46th Annual Conference this year in beautiful Monterey, California. Please join me for what is going to be some amazing brain-sex and sex geekery! From the AASECT’s website: Come renew and revitalize […]

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A Warm Connection, Part II: Training Your Hamsters

In the last article, we talked about one way to create warm connection quickly: Presence. Have you been practicing being present with people? Noticing when your brain goes off on it’s own, and bringing it back to the conversation? Noticing your toes, and the color of their eyes? Even a little bit of practice can […]

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