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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
NOVEMBER 2026 EVENTS
WED, NOV 11th, On ZOOM — Building Your Spicy Bucket List!
[Replay Available for 7 Days]
Ready to add some creativity and spice to your bucket list?! Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko on Zoom for a live, laughter-filled workshop designed to help YOU create a juicy list of romantic and juicy experiences that feel fun, doable, and 100% you.
This isn’t about chasing trends or adding pressure—it’s about uncovering what really lights you up and building a bucket list worth blushing over. Whether you’re flying solo or playing with partners, you’ll walk away with clarity, confidence, and a bunch of ideas that’ll leave you smiling (and maybe squirming) all the way to your next adventure!
Date: Wed, Nov 11th, 2026; 4-6pm PACIFIC/7-9pm EASTERN
Register NOW!
Invite your friends on FetLife – HERE.
🇳🇱 SOLD OUT — AMSTERDAM NOV 19-22nd 😭😭😭
TICKETS STILL AVAILABLE for:
🇩🇰 Copenhagen,
🇧🇪 Ghent,
🇩🇪 Berlin!
🎟️ Get Your Tickets While They Last… Scroll down…
NOV 25th, COPENHAGEN, DENMARK – THREESOMES, FOURSOMES, AND MOREsomes – HOSTED BY HOUSE OF PLAY
More bodies, more hands, more mouths, more possibility — and yes, more logistics too. Group sex isn’t just “regular sex with extra people,” and this playful, explicit, LIVE-demo workshop is here to help you navigate it with more skill, more humor, and way less awkward elbow-placement. 😄 Reid Mihalko will teach, demo, and answer your questions with enthusiastically consenting partners — and afterward, you’re invited (never obligated) into optional hands-on practice.
Whether you’ve had more threesomes than you can count or you’re just starting to imagine what three-in-a-bed might feel like, this one’s for you. All genders, orientations, bodies, and relationship styles welcome. 💜
House of Play is a membership community. Please consider becoming a member so you can attend Reid’s workshops!
Date and time
Wednesday, 25 November 2026 at 19.00-22.00
🎟️ Tickets: Learn More and Register HERE!
Invite your friends on Facebook HERE.
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE.
NOV 26th, COPENHAGEN, DENMARK – ENERGETIC SEX FOR PRAGMATISTS (with LIVE DEMOS and HANDS-ON PRACTICE TIME!)
Explore Kundalini, the “Tantric Twitchies” and Vibrational Luvin’ Without the Woo-Woo! (with LIVE demos AND time to explore and practice with your willing friends, too)
If you or a lover have ever experienced post-orgasmic spasms or “twitches” after lovemaking, or feelings of heat and tension in your lower back, hands, neck or throat… You might be more energetic in your sex life than you think! And if you’ve never experienced those things but would like to, you might be pleasantly surprised how easily energetic sex is to grasp and play with.
Regardless of your tolerance for words like “chakras” and “yoni”… Or if phrases like sacred masculine and sacred feminine seem too restrictive… There is a non-New Agey way to understand and incorporate ecstatic experiences into your bedroom routine regardless of who you sleep with or how you identify. And guess what? It’s surprisingly fun, easy, and explosive!
Join us. This workshop is fully clothed. You don’t need a partner. And you do not have to participate in any of the exercises unless you’d like to. Voyeurism and taking notes is participation. 👍
Date and time
Thursday, 26 November 2026 at 19.00-22.00
🎟️ Tickets: Learn More and Register HERE.
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE.
REID RETURNS TO GHENT, BRUSSELS!
FRI, NOV 27th-SUN, NOV 29th
Weekend Workshop Buffett with ReidAboutSex and Intimate-Breath.com’s Lore Blancke!
- Friday, Nov 27th — What Sex Educators Actually Do In Bed (with LIVE Demos!)
- Saturday Day, Nov 28th — More Than Two: Making 3somes, Foursomes, and Group Play Work!
- Saturday Night, Nov 28th — Red Play Party
- Sunday, Nov 29th — Full-Body Erotic Massage for Duos
🎟️ Get Your Tickets To One or ALL Events: Click HERE.
Invite your friends on Facebook:
Friday – What Sex Educators Actually Do In Bed
Sat Day – More Than Two
Sat Night – Red Play Party
Sunday – Erotic Massage
Invite your friends on FetLife:
Friday – What Sex Educators Actually Do In Bed
Sat Day – More Than Two
Sat Night – Red Play Party
Sunday – Erotic Massage
DECEMBER 2026 EVENTS
FRI EVENING, DEC 4th, BERLIN —
SEX EDUCATION With LIVE DEMOS 💦
Ever wonder what actual sex educators do in bed when they’re not teaching? Good!
🍒 Watch and Learn What REAL Sex Educators Actually Do in Bed... 👀
Real Sex Educators. Real Techniques. Real-Time Demos.
PLUS: You get to ask questions and make requests for what you’d like to see & learn!
Date and Time: Fri, 4th Dec at 19:30-22:30 Berlin Time
Where: Soma House, Berlin-Bezirk Friedrichshain-Kreuzberg, Germany
Cost: €35-€80 — Early-bird tickets available while they last!
🎟️ Register to Secure Your Seat NOW! – Get Your Tickets HERE
Invite your friends to the Facebook Event – HERE.
Invite your friends on FetLife – HERE.
SATURDAY DAY, DEC 5th, BERLIN —
THE ART OF PRESSURE PLAY
Squish, Squeeze, Push, Pull Your Lovers To Ecstasy!
Discover the erotic art of weight, leverage, and being deliciously pinned…
Being held down can feel calming. Being squeezed can feel grounding. Being pinned can feel exciting. Being playfully wrestled can wake up parts of the body that everyday touch never reaches.
And sometimes, with the right pressure in the right place at the right moment, bodies melt. They sigh. They squirm. They open and ask for more. 🔥
There’s a reason for this. Our bodies are full of fascinating connections: muscles, fascia, nerves, breath, pelvis, pelvic floor, all talking to each other in ways most of us were never taught. Pressure in one place can spark sensation somewhere else. A small change of angle can change everything.
Would you like to learn how to give AND receive MORE PLEASURE? And would you like to have time and space to practice these things with like-minded, amazing humans? Please join us…
Date and Time: Fri, 4th Dec at 19:30-22:30 Berlin Time
Where: Soma House, Berlin-Bezirk Friedrichshain-Kreuzberg, Germany
Cost: €39
🎟️ Register and secure your seat NOW! – Get your tickets HERE.
Invite your friends via the Facebook event – HERE.
Invite your friends on FetLife – HERE.
SAT EVENING, DEC 5th, BERLIN —
WORKSHOP + PLAY TEMPLE
Taking your temple experiences to the next level!
What’s a “Play Temple”? It’s where Temple meets Play Party!!!
Workshop first so YOU can practice shifting from shy to flirting to asking for what you really want… Then we celebrate with plenty of time for you to practice at Reid’s Temple Party Meets Play Party experience!
Date and Time: Sat, 5th Dec at 11:30-15:00 Berlin Time
Where: Soma House, Berlin-Bezirk Friedrichshain-Kreuzberg, Germany
Cost: €25-€150
🎟️ Register and secure your seat NOW! – Get your tickets HERE.
Invite your friends to the Facebook Event – HERE.
Invite your friends on FetLife – HERE.
SUNDAY DAY, DEC 6th, BERLIN —
EROTIC FULL-BODY MASSAGE PRACTICUM
GREAT erotic massage is not about memorizing a sequence of fancy moves.
It’s about listening AND responding to another person’s body and arousal THROUGH your hands and body.
This is a full-day, hands-on practicum in two parts (with a meal break) where the group will have the opportunity to explore giving and receiving restorative touch to sensual touch, and – if you choose – erotic touch and expansive pleasure. We will practice principles & approaches rather than routines, with the intention of becoming better listeners and receivers of erotic experiences — givers and receivers who are more present, intuitive, and responsive. Beginners as well as those with experience are welcome. Leave with skills you can apply as soon as you get home.
Date and Time: Sun, 6th Dec at 11:00-18:00 Berlin Time
Where: Soma House, Berlin-Bezirk Friedrichshain-Kreuzberg, Germany
Cost: €75-€105 — Early-bird tickets available while they last!
🎟️ Register to Secure Your Seat NOW! – Get Your Tickets HERE
Invite your friend to the Facebook event – HERE.
Invite your friends on FetLife – HERE.
2027 CALENDAR
FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
MAY 2027 EVENTS
MAY 28-31st, UPPER LAKE, CA — PLAY: THE BONOBO NETWORK FESTIVAL
400 new friends • 9 shared meals • 4 days • 3 nights •
4 sexy play spaces • 1 hell of a good time
Sensual Playshops • Pool Parties • EPIC ENTERTAINMENT • Pure Magic
Do you need a place to unplug and restore yourself? Are you looking for a weekend of music, learning, all sorts of fun, organized, sex-positive activities, and PLAY? Join Reid at Play: The Bonobo Network Festival, several days built on the ideas of High Possibility, Low Expectation, Trust and Trustworthiness, Consent, Support, Contribution, and Inclusion.
This weekend is about you. It’s about us. It’s about connecting – deeply – with our amazing community of people with shared, sex-positive and consent-forward values and a common sense of possibility. It’s about rebuilding your personal reserves so that you can return to the world stronger, braver, sexier, better-connected, and well-loved.
Dates: May 28-31, 2027
Location: Upper Lake, CA
How To Register: CLICK HERE or head to BonoboFest.com to learn more and find out how YOU can be part of this Community.
JUNE 2027 EVENTS
🌞SUMMER SOLSTICE WEEKEND!!!🌞
JUN 10th-14th, CAMP TIMBER TRAILS, MA – JOIN REID AT THE DIVINE REBELLION TANTRA FESTIVAL
What if joy, connection, and being fully yourself weren’t just nice-to-haves… but powerful acts of rebellion?
Divine Rebellion is a multi-day gathering for curious, courageous humans who want to explore authentic connection, embodied play, and community that actually feels good to be in. Rooted in the rebellious spirit of Tantra, this festival invites you to show up as your whole self—messy, magical, learning, growing—and meet others with openness, honesty, and care. Expect workshops, movement, music, and meaningful connection in a space that celebrates diversity, accountability, and the kind of joy that helps you refill your cup and reconnect to what matters most.
Come as you are. Leave more connected, more resourced, and maybe a little more rebellious in all the right ways.
Dates: June 16-20, 2027
Location: Camp Timber Falls, MA
Learn More and Get Your Tickets Here.
Use REID10 to get 10% off your registration! <3
JULY 2027 EVENTS
JULY 7-11, NEW ORLEANS — NAUGHTY N’AWLINS
Join Reid for 5 days of playful fun, salacious thrills, and sex geeky workshops in the heart of New Orlean’s Bourbon Street!
Naughty N’awlins is the largest lifestyle convention for Lifestyle, poly, and kinky couples in the world. In 2026, they had 3,000 people attend!
You must register to get into the hotels and attend the workshops & private parties during the convention. They will also have 3 and 4-day passes available, but Reid recommends coming for the entire event so you can attend any or all of his free and paid classes, plus check out the other amazing educators and events!
When: July 7-11th
Where: New Orleans, Louisiana
🎟️ Get Your Tickets Now – Click HERE!
ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join me by visiting my online store!
See all of Reid’s Amazing, Learn-at-your-Own-Pace Classes HERE.
Reid’s spicy 🌶️ classes await you!
Check them out NOW – Click HERE. 👀
ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197 or watch the 2-hour intro class for $47!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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