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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)

These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!

JULY 2026 EVENTS

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JUL 8th-12th, NEW ORLEANS, LA — NAUGHTY N’AWLINS

Naughty N’awlins is sold out, but if you already have tickets, click the link below and see what FREE & PAID CLASSES Reid and Rina Star are teaching!!!!

Need a reason to join me and like-minded sex geeks in New Orleans for 5-days of debaucherous fun? Want to watch LIVE demos THEN try out your new moves?! Here. You. Go. — Up your bedroom skills to Jedi levels AND get your shenanigans on!

Dates: July 8th-12th
Location: New Orleans, Louisiana
GET YOUR REID WORKSHOP TICKETS HERE.

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JUL 24th-26th, COPENHAGEN, DENMARK — 4 CLASSES, 3 DAYS, 1 GREAT TIME

Event promotional image for Hookups Without Heartaches with Reid Mihalko, July 24, 19:00–22:00. Background photo shows a close-up of hands against pink mesh fabric and black harness straps in warm pink lighting. Bold yellow and white text overlaid on the image.

JUL 24th, COPENHAGEN, DENMARK- HOOKUPS WITHOUT HEARTACHES – HOSTED BY HOUSE OF PLAY

When your heart says “fun” but your hookups leave you tangled, it’s time to upgrade your slut skills! Join Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for a laughter-filled, real-talk kind of workshop where he’ll walk you through his Casual Sex Protocols Checklist—aka, the “how to keep it hot without getting hurt” roadmap.

In this live Experience you’ll learn what makes hookups go sideways, how your brain wires sex and attachment (it’s wild), and what to say so your partners feel sexy and seen. If you’re ready to slut smarter—not harder—and turn your Slut Era into something that feels just as good the next day, this is your starting line. 🥳

House of Play is a membership community. Please consider becoming a member so you can attend Reid’s workshops!

Date and time
Fri, Jul 24th, 19:00 – 22:00
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
Invite your friends on Facebook HERE
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE

Event promotional image for The Art of Pressure Play with Reid Mihalko, July 25, 13:00–17:00. Background photo shows multiple people engaged in playful physical contact on a mat, with one woman smiling and laughing. Bold yellow and white text overlaid on the image.

JUL 25th, COPENHAGEN, DENMARK- THE ART OF PRESSURE PLAY – HOSTED BY HOUSE OF PLAY

Ever wonder why being pinned down, squeezed tight, or playfully wrestled can feel so surprisingly good… even with your clothes on? There’s actually a nerdy, body-based reason for that—and once you understand it, you can start using it on purpose. 😏

In this playful, hands-on workshop, I’ll show you how to use pressure, leverage, and simple positioning to unlock new levels of sensation, connection, and arousal—for you and your partners. You’ll learn how to safely push, pull, squish, and support each other in ways that feel amazing, build confidence, and turn everyday moments into opportunities for more pleasure and curiosity.

House of Play is a membership community. Please consider becoming a member so you can attend Reid’s workshops!

Date and time
Sat, Jul 25th, 13:00 – 17:00
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
Invite your friends on Facebook HERE
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE

Event promotional image for Sex Education with Live Demos with Reid Mihalko, July 24, 19:00–22:00. Background photo shows a woman with white hair lying back with red-nailed hands cradling her head, against a dark background. Bold yellow and white text overlaid on the image.

JUL 25th, COPENHAGEN, DENMARK- SEX EDUCATION W. LIVE DEMOS – HOSTED BY HOUSE OF PLAY

Ever wonder what it actually looks like when a skilled lover adjusts, pivots, and makes everything feel extraordinary? Not in theory — but live, in real time, right in front of you? That’s exactly what this evening is. Reid Mihalko will teach, answer questions, and demonstrate explicit techniques LIVE with enthusiastically consenting demo partners — while you sit back, stay fully clothed, and soak it all in. 👀

This is playful, practical, shame-free adult education at its most honest. Whether you’re an adventurous beginner or a seasoned explorer, you’ll walk away with clearer skills, better language, and a lot fewer “wait… am I doing this right?” moments. All genders, orientations, and experience levels welcome. 😄

House of Play is a membership community. Please consider becoming a member so you can attend Reid’s workshops!

Date and time
Sat, Jul 25th, 19:00 – 22:00
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
Invite your friends on Facebook HERE
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE

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JUL 26th, COPENHAGEN, DENMARK — ORAL PLEASURE MASTERY WITH SPECIAL GUEST REID MIHALKO

Do you worry that you’re not “great” when it comes to giving oral pleasure? Do you wish you could receive MORE pleasure? Are you a visual learner and wish someone could answer your nagging questions by SHOWING YOU the answers?  👀 💦 👅

‍ ‍Now’s your opportunity!

‍It’s time to build real confidence, learn advanced skills, and discover how much more fun oral pleasure can be when you understand bodies, communication, and advanced techniques.‍ ‍If you want to take your oral skills to the next level… If you’re curious about the questions people are often too shy to ask out loud… If you’re ready to give—and receive!—mouth play that leaves everyone saying, “Wait… how did you do THAT?!”‍ ‍Oral Pleasure Mastery is a 3-hour Show ’N Tell workshop with explicit LIVE demos, clear teaching, lots of laughter, and plenty of time for questions. This is not a hands-on practice class. You get to relax, watch, learn, laugh, take notes, and leave with more ideas than you may know what to do with.

Date and Time: Sun, Jul 26th, 18:00 – 21:00
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
Invite your friends on Facebook HERE

AUGUST 2026 EVENTS

EVENTS IN LONDON COMING SOON!

London, UK — July 31-Aug 2nd

More details to come soon! 
Want to be the first to know before tickets sell out? 
1) Reid will announce details and ticket links first via his emails, which you can sign up for HERE
2) Follow Reid on Instagram and Facebook to increase your odds that you’re in the know!

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AUG 5th-9th, The Netherlands — AWAKEN AS LOVE TANTRA FESTIVAL

Who wants to join Reid in The Netherlands this summer?!

Imagine yourself in a place surrounded by beautiful nature, tasty organic food and some of the best international & national facilitators who would be there to support you in creating more intimacy in yourself, with life and in your relationships. Having a more vibrant and exciting life away from the normal constraints of our lives and minds. Meaningful and truthful, loving and bliss and connection to others.

Dates: August 5th-9th
Location: Kasteel de Berckt, Netherlands 🇳🇱
Use REID10 at checkout to save 10% off registration!!!
LEARN MORE and GET YOUR TICKETS HERE.

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AUG 13th, STOCKHOLM, SWEDEN — WHAT SEX EDUCATORS ACTUALLY DO IN BED | A SHOW ‘N TELL EVENING with REID MIHALKO AND LORE BLANCKE

Ever wondered what sex educators actually do in bed? For one evening, Reid Mihalko and intimacy educator Lore Blancke are lifting the covers — literally. This is a live show-and-tell where two very opinionated intimacy nerds take the stage to demonstrate their favorite bedroom practices, share stories from their own lives, compare notes, and probably disagree on a few things. No slideshows. No vague metaphors. Just real skills, real laughter, and real tools you can bring home.

Here’s the thing: most of us are expected to know how to touch, communicate, flirt, initiate, and pleasure — without ever having watched someone do it well. This event changes that. You’ll see live demonstrations of bedroom skills, erotic techniques, and connection practices. You can ask questions, make requests, and soak it all in. You won’t be put on the spot or asked to participate. Just come as you are, settle in, and enjoy the show. Bring your curiosity, a friend, and a notebook.

Date/Time: Thu 13 Aug 2026 6:30 PM – 9:30 PM
Tickets: Register and find out more about the event HERE.
Share with your friends on FACEBOOK HERE.

SEPTEMBER 2026 EVENTS

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SEP 19th-20th, RALEIGH, NC —
LEARN WITH REID AT THE BLISS BOOGIE!

SAVE THE DATE: Bliss Boogie brought to you by Unbound

Bliss Boogie invites you to it’s, eco-friendly, sober, educational festival celebrating the joy of creativity, connection, and community with live music, art installations, and transformative workshops. This unique event welcomes everyone, proudly embracing LGBTQIA+ individuals and people of all races and backgrounds. Join a vibrant community that values diversity, creativity, and living life at the highest vibration. Don’t miss this unforgettable experience designed to spark joy and celebrate bliss! Let’s boogie!!!!

A full day of learning, connecting, and playing—choose-your-own-adventure style. Mixers running ALL DAY — drop in whenever you feel like it. Connection in a core part of the experience. Tapas-style kink in the evening: Explore new experiences with locals who love sharing their passion. Or, just get to it in our sex-positive play space with friends and partners new and old. A space for the kinky, the sex-positive, and the spiritual to gather in the sunshine and find their people. More details dropping soon!

Register and find out more about the event HERE

Invite your friends on FetLife HERE

OCTOBER 2026 EVENTS

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REID & MONIQUE DARLING’S TWO CITIES TOUR…

OCTOBER 9-10th — PHOENIX!

OCTOBER 16-18th — LAS VEGAS!

More details to come soon! 
Want to be the first to know before tickets sell out? 
1) Reid will announce details and ticket links first via his emails, which you can sign up for HERE
2) Follow Reid on Instagram and Facebook to increase your odds that you’re in the know!

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OCT 18th, LAS VEGAS, NV – MOUTH PLEASURE MASTERY

Want more confidence giving pleasure, but wish someone would just show you how it’s done instead of explaining it in the abstract? This four-hour, in-person workshop is built for visual learners. I’ll walk you through real anatomy, pacing, communication, and mouth-based technique using live demonstrations by consenting adult models — so you’re watching skill in action, not just hearing about it. This isn’t about performing perfectly. It’s about getting curious, building confidence, and learning to talk about pleasure without the awkwardness.
This is a Show ‘N Tell class — there’s no hands-on practice, no attendee touching, and everyone stays fully clothed the whole time. You’re welcome to come solo, with a date, with friends, or with your favorite unicorn 🦄 — no experience or partner required. Bring a notebook, your questions, and your sense of humor.

Date and time
Sun, Oct 18, 2026, 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM

Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE


FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)

These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!


ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…

These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join me by visiting my online store!

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MORE than 20 classes and courses waiting for you NOW!
See all of Reid’s Amazing, Learn-at-your-Own-Pace Classes HERE.

Reid’s spicy 🌶️ classes await you!
Check them out NOW – Click HERE. 👀

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Link to grab your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map

ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!

Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!

Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map

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DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?

Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…

Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!

From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:

  • Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
  • Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
  • Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
  • Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
  • Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!

Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!

Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197 or watch the 2-hour intro class for $47!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.

Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.


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Sarah schwab October 10, 2012 at 12:45 pm

Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.

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Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:13 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex

Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.

Yours in sex geekery,
REiD

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Lucien Vattel December 28, 2012 at 12:47 am

Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.

lucien

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Dorothy January 2, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.

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Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:07 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex

Hope to meet you one day!

Hugs,
REiD

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Miriam December 13, 2013 at 3:28 am

Reid,

I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”

Hugs!

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Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD

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bea of san luis obispo December 18, 2013 at 2:36 am

Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea

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Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm

The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!

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Bridget May 28, 2014 at 4:51 am

Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget

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Reid August 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂

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Laurence McGrath May 11, 2019 at 10:36 pm

So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!

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Heather July 25, 2019 at 10:14 am

Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?

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Reid October 4, 2019 at 11:19 am

Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!

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