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On this page, you’ll find the following:
- Upcoming Events In Chronological Order
- ICYMI – In Case You Missed It Items and Events of Interest!
- Far-In-Advance Events
(See event listings for anything booked more than +6 months to a year out) - Past Events That Have Been Recorded (and are available for purchase!)
NOTE: Events marked with (2) asterisks** are professional development events designed for sex educators and sex-positive professionals (and may be useful for all entrepreneurs).
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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
MAY 2026 EVENTS
MAY 6th, VIRTUAL – CUNNILINGUS GRAD SCHOOL
You’ve learned the basics in other workshops. Now it’s time to get your master’s in advanced vulva pleasure tricks and leave with your PhD in cunnilingus confidence. 🎓💦
In this playful, no-shame, all-levels welcome virtual workshop, Reid Mihalko guides you through advanced techniques for vulva pleasure—helping you build confidence, improve your pacing, and turn what you already know into something a whole lot more connected, responsive, and fun. Expect laughs, real talk, and plenty of “ohhh… THAT’S what I’ve been missing” moments.
This is a live (and recorded) Zoom class with demos using props, plus optional at-home practice with fruit, toys, or just your imagination. Come curious, bring your questions, and get ready to upgrade your skills in a way that feels practical, empowering, and anything but awkward.
In this workshop, you’ll learn:
- How to leverage the pleasure anatomy of the clitoris, clitoral legs, pelvic floor, and MORE
- Reid’s best tips for helping a vulva owner drop into their body and open up to receive more pleasure
- How to warm up the whole vulva instead of rushing straight to the clit like a sugar-crazed raccoon on espresso ☕🦝
- Ways to use your mouth, tongue, face, fingers, and toys together so you’re not asking your tongue to do all the heavy lifting
- How to “stack the deck in your favor” so the vulva you’re playing with WANTS more than just an eager mouth
- Reid’s easy-to-learn Top Gun face-humping technique
- The famous Raspberry Trombone technique
- The Bratty Vampire fingering move
- And more graduate-level sexy secrets that will leave you feeling inspired, confident, and a little smug in the best possible way
Watch, Practice, and Let Reid Give YOU Your New Favorite Homework 😍
Date and time
Wed, May 6, 2026, 5:30 PM – 7:30 PM PDT/8:30 PM – 10:30 PM PDT
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE.
2hr Mini-Class: MAY 13th — Virtual, Slut Secure: Growing Out of Premature Attachment
Do YOU Fall In Love Too Fast? Getting Tangled Up In Your Attachment Issues When Trying to Keep Things Casual? Master becoming a Slut Secure! Let the 2H intro class with Reid and Misha change your summer!
If you or a loved one falls in love too fast, and/or pushes love away when it does come knocking… Join Misha and I as we dive into Attachment Styles. This class will give you an understanding of how attachment styles often sneak into and f*ck with your dating and relating life… And we’ll give you an overview of how YOU can go from insecure to #SlutSecure!
This is the intro class to the life-changing 6-week course From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure. The class that was described as “a loving-slut intervention [designed] to teach you to stop hurting yourself and those you love and start living fully expressed.”
This is about creating secure connections in all your relationships no matter how short or long.
Date and time
Wed, May 13, 2026, 5:30 PM – 7:30 PM PDT/8:30 PM – 10:30 PM PDT
To register for the special 2 hour event click here.
THURS, MAY 14th, OAKLAND, CA — IN-PERSON WORKSHOP! COME PRACTICE IN-REAL-LIFE ICE BREAKER EXERCISES & CONFIDENCE BUILDERS!
Join Reid Mihalko in Oakland for an evening practicing the skills to help YOU feel more confident and successful at play parties!
When: Thursday, May 14th, 7-9:30pm
Where: Oakland, CA — Exact event location upon registration
RSVP:
Eventbrite Tickets HERE.
Plura Tickets HERE.
MAY 15th, SAN FRANCISCO, CA — BAWDY STORYTELLING’S “LUST OR BUST!”
Join Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour & hand-picked Rockstars as they share their own stories of Love, Lust, and Sex Geekery!
Bawdy Storytelling (‘The Moth for Pervs” – LA Weekly) features True Tales of Carnal Wins & Epic Fails with No Scripts, No Nets, and No Holds Barred. These folks aren’t reading from cue cards: this is honest-to-badness story time with real live sexcapades and poignant, transformational tales at each and every show. Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour has been bringing the Nation’s Perverrati together on the Bawdy Storytelling stage for almost 18 Years, to tell their own infamously true tales of lust, love, k!nky collisions, gender redefinition, sexual identity, life-changing hook-ups, educational one-night stands & everything in between.
Hey, you may even go home with a few new tricks for your boudoir arsenal!
P.S. We’re always the Best Date in Town, but you don’t need a date to be part of this. Our community of Weirdos (the good kind) are welcoming and inclusive…you may not know it yet, but you’re already #OneOfUs
Date and Time:
Sat, May 15, 2026, 8:00 PM – 10:30 PM PT
Location: San Francisco’s Verdi Club
Learn More and Get Your Tickets Here!
MAY 16th, OAKLAND, CA – PRESSURE PLAY!
4-Hour, In-Person, Show ‘N Tell Then Try Workshop…
Ever wonder why being pinned down, squeezed tight, or playfully wrestled can feel so surprisingly good… even with your clothes on? There’s actually a nerdy, body-based reason for that—and once you understand it, you can start using it on purpose. 😏
In this playful, hands-on workshop, I’ll show you how to use pressure, leverage, and simple positioning to unlock new levels of sensation, connection, and arousal—for you and your partners. You’ll learn how to safely push, pull, squish, and support each other in ways that feel amazing, build confidence, and turn everyday moments into opportunities for more pleasure and curiosity.
Date and Time:
Sat, May 16, 2026, 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM PT
Location: East Bay Community Space, Oakland CA
RSVP via Eventbrite – https://Bit.ly/pressure-play
RSVP via Plura – HERE
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MAY 17th, SAN FRAN CA – DOUBLE-HEADER SUNDAY: WORKSHOP + PLAY PARTY (WORKSHOP: ROUGH SEX FOR NICE FOLKS)
Join us Sunday afternoon at the sexy & swanky Kink Store for a DOUBLE-HEADER: Workshop + a Play Party, hosted by ReidAboutSex.com’s Reid Mihalko
The workshop… Rough Sex for Nice Folks!
Followed by a conscious play party!!
You must attend the workshop to attend the play party. Must be 21+. Get your tickets soon. Limited to 30 tickets. See the link below for more information.
MORE ABOUT THE WORKSHOP…
If you’re a lover, not a fighter, but you or your lover like it a little rough, let sex and relationship educator (and double black belt, former fight choreographer for indie films), Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, show you how you can safely be a badass in bed.
From wrestling to rough sex to advanced ergonomic techniques, join us for this humorous and informative workshop (with LIVE demos & time to practice!) where you’ll learn how to unleash your inner Bruce Lee of the bedroom and how to ask for the rough sex you REALLY want!
In this edutaining, Show ‘N Tell Then TRY class for all genders, we’ll cover:
- Rough sex for nice guys, gals, and folks of all genders and orientations!
- The difference between “thuddy” and “stingy,” and why you should care…
- The best sex positions, proper body positioning, and ergonomics for harder, stronger, longer sex
- Why and how wrestling can be a turn-on
- Hair-pulling 101
- Spanking basics made easy
- How to bite (and how not to!)
- How to move your partner’s body around the bed with more ease
- And much more!
No matter your experience level, orientation, or relationship status, this class is going to be educational, fun, and give you some delicious bedroom kung-fu. Sit and watch as Reid demonstrates how easy it is to be a black belt at sex, then practice your moves! We’ll even have plenty of room for your questions! Join us! Bring friends! Bring a notebook!
And then, after the workshop, the event turns into a play party!
Lots more details on the party in the link below.
When: Sunday, May 17th, 2026, NOON-5:00pm PST (No Late Arrivals)
Where: San Francisco’s Kink Store,
Price: $100 per person for the entire 5-hour event!
RSVP:
Eventbrite Ticket & Registration Info HERE
Tickets via Plura
Invite your friends via FetLife
MAY 22nd-25th, TUOLUMNE, CA — PLAY: THE BONOBO NETWORK FESTIVAL
Restore • Connect • Play
Are you looking to be part of a members-only retreat where participants are working towards living up to the same values as you? Do you need a place to unplug and restore yourself? Are you looking for a weekend of music, learning, all sorts of fun organized activities, and PLAY? Join Reid at Play: The Bonobo Network Festival, several days built on the ideas of High Possibility, Low Expectation, Trust and Trustworthiness, Consent, Support, Contribution, and Inclusion.
Take a break. Unplug from social media. This weekend is about you. It’s about us. It’s about connecting – deeply – with our amazing community of people with shared values and a common sense of possibility. It’s about rebuilding your personal reserves so that you can return to the world stronger, braver, better connected, and well-loved.
For this weekend, your life can be filled with unadulterated PLAY.
400 new friends • 9 shared meals • 4 days • 3 nights •
4 sexy play spaces • 1 hell of a good time
Sensual Playshops • Pool Parties • EPIC ENTERTAINMENT • Pure Magic
Dates: May 22-25, 2026
Location: Tuolumne, CA
How To Register: CLICK HERE or head to BonoboFest.com to learn more and find out how YOU can be part of this Community.
JUNE 2026 EVENTS
JUNE 7th, BROOKLYN, NY – TANTRA MADE SIMPLE, Hosted by SHAG, 5-Hour, Immersive Tantra Deep Dive…
Join Reid Mihalko and SHAG for this practical deep dive to help you unlock more sensation, connection, and full-body pleasure.
In this 5-hour immersive Tantra Deep Dive Intensive, sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com takes the mystery out of Tantra and breaks it down into clear, practical, try-this-tonight tools you can use to expand pleasure, build connection, feel more at home in your body, and unleash your tantric superpowers.
Through guided exercises, live demonstrations, and interactive learning, you’ll explore how to:
• Use simple breathing techniques to increase arousal, stamina, and body awareness• Turn kissing, touch, and presence into full-body experiences• Understand what “energetic sex” actually is—without needing to believe in anything mystical• Recognize and work with sensations like pleasure waves, heat, and post-pleasure “twitches”• Expand your capacity for connection and sensation, solo or with partners• Communicate more clearly to create safer, more satisfying intimate experiences• Access deeper states of pleasure using grounded, easy-to-learn techniques
Date and Time:
Sun, June 7, 2026, 1:00 PM – 6:00 PM
JUN 10th-14th, CAMP TIMBER TRAILS, MA – JOIN REID AT THE DIVINE REBELLION TANTRA FESTIVAL
What if joy, connection, and being fully yourself weren’t just nice-to-haves… but powerful acts of rebellion?
Divine Rebellion is a multi-day gathering for curious, courageous humans who want to explore authentic connection, embodied play, and community that actually feels good to be in. Rooted in the rebellious spirit of Tantra, this festival invites you to show up as your whole self—messy, magical, learning, growing—and meet others with openness, honesty, and care. Expect workshops, movement, music, and meaningful connection in a space that celebrates diversity, accountability, and the kind of joy that helps you refill your cup and reconnect to what matters most.
Come as you are. Leave more connected, more resourced, and maybe a little more rebellious in all the right ways.
Dates: June 10-14, 2026
Location: Camp Timber Falls, MA
Learn More and Get Your Tickets Here.
JUN 23rd-29th, MARYLAND – JOIN REID AND GIRLSEX101’s ALLISON MOON AT DARK ODYSSEY
Sex + Kink + Spirit: Dark Odyssey: Fusion brings together kinksters, queers, swingers, spiritualists, the adventurous & the perverted for an intense weekend that fuses Sex, Kink, & Spirit. There will be a thousand fellow erotic explorers achieving ecstatic states of passion, desire, and transformation. All happening at the same magical retreat in Northern Maryland that has served as Dark Odyssey’s Summer home for years.
Join Reid and Allison and others as they combine sexuality, spirituality, education and play in an immersive environment where fantasy becomes reality.
Reid & Allison’s Workshops: (TBA)
Dates: June 23-29, 2026
Location: Northern Maryland
Learn More and Get Your Tickets Here.
JULY 2026 EVENTS
JUL 8th-12th, NEW ORLEANS, LA — NAUGHTY N’AWLINS
Need a reason to join me and like-minded sex geeks in New Orleans for 5-days of debaucherous fun? Want to watch LIVE demos THEN try out your new moves?! Here. You. Go. — Up your bedroom skills to Jedi levels AND get your shenanigans on!
Dates: July 8th-12th
Location: New Orleans, Louisiana
GET YOUR REID WORKSHOP TICKETS HERE.
AUGUST 2026 EVENTS
AUG 5th-9th, The Netherlands — AWAKEN AS LOVE TANTRA FESTIVAL
Who wants to join Reid in The Netherlands this summer?!
Imagine yourself in a place surrounded by beautiful nature, tasty organic food and some of the best international & national facilitators who would be there to support you in creating more intimacy in yourself, with life and in your relationships. Having a more vibrant and exciting life away from the normal constraints of our lives and minds. Meaningful and truthful, loving and bliss and connection to others.
Dates: August 5th-9th
Location: Kasteel de Berckt, Netherlands 🇳🇱
LEARN MORE and GET YOUR TICKETS HERE.
AUG 18th-23rd, SKEPPSUDDEN, SWEDEN — THE FIELD FESTIVAL!
Created by Rachel Rickards, The Field Festival is the first large-scale gathering dedicated to exploring and amplifying our innate capacity for coherent, connected presence. Imagine a festival (or even a world) where we come together, not as isolated individuals, but as one unified organism.
And Reid and Allison Moon are gonna be teaching there…
Details coming soon…
When: AUG 18-23, 2026
Where: Skeppsudden, Sweden 🇸🇪
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OCTOBER 2026 EVENTS
OCTOBER EVENTS IN LAS VEGAS AND PHOENIX!
More details to come soon!
Want to be the first to know before tickets sell out?
1) Reid will announce details and ticket links first via his emails, which you can sign up for HERE.
2) Follow Reid on Instagram and Facebook to increase your odds that you’re in the know!
FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join me by visiting my online store!
See all of Reid’s Amazing, Learn-at-your-Own-Pace Classes HERE.
Reid’s spicy 🌶️ classes await you!
Check them out NOW – Click HERE. 👀
ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197 or watch the 2-hour intro class for $47!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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