Calendar
On this page, you’ll find the following:
- Upcoming Events In Chronological Order
- ICYMI – In Case You Missed It Items and Events of Interest!
- Far-In-Advance Events
(See event listings for anything booked more than +6 months to a year out) - Past Events That Have Been Recorded (and are available for purchase!)
NOTE: Events marked with (2) asterisks** are professional development events designed for sex educators and sex-positive professionals (and may be useful for all entrepreneurs).
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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
APRIL 2026 EVENTS
APR 3rd, PHOENIX, AZ —
A FRIDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY? I’M IN!
All Gender Temple Party w/ a touch of Kink w/ Reid, Monique, & Peter
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
Date and time
Fri, Apr 3, 2026, 7:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
APR 4th, PHOENIX, AZ — THE IN’S AND OUT’S OF ENERGY INTERPLAY W/REID & MONIQUE
Get ready to embark on a thrilling adventure into the realm of energy interplay with Reid Mihalko, Monique and Peter! If you’ve ever felt like life’s a wild ride, labeled as “too much,” or “high maintenance,” fear not, you’re among friends. Join us as we uncover the hidden tribe of energy-sensitive souls, eagerly awaiting to connect and revel in the magic of our innate abilities.
Throughout our journey, we’ve traversed the boundless landscapes of energetic intimacy, and now, dear friend, it’s your turn to join the dance. Discover the ecstasy of your being by embracing every emotion, letting life-force energy flow freely through your veins. This weekend promises an exhilarating voyage of self-discovery, where you’ll unlock your innate powers, deepen your connection to your energetic essence, and reclaim your divine right to pleasure and passion. So, buckle up and get ready to transform your life into a playground of cosmic delight, surrounded by our vibrant community of kindred spirits!
Date and time
Sat, Apr 4, 2026, 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
APR 4th, PHOENIX, AZ – ORAL SEX GRAD SCHOOL & TEMPLE PARTY
One Night. Two Back-to-Back Events!
Oral Sex Grad School: You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Oral Sex!
Would you like to take your current craft & skills to Jedi levels? Want to ask those nagging questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks? Looking for an “excuse” to give (or receive) oral that leaves your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”
Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your PhD in oral so YOU can give and/or receive mind-blowing blowjobs, cunnilingus, analingus that leaves YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!
The Temple Party Experience
After the class, we transition into a Temple Party, an experiential gathering for the sensually curious and adventurous that warmly welcomes all genders, bodies, and orientations.
This is an invitation to explore connection in a grounded, feeling-full environment that balances electricity with ease. The space is designed to feel expansive yet safe, playful yet respectful.
Monique and Reid guide the group through a Welcome Circle, where strangers arrive together, share agreements, name boundaries, and slowly land on the same page. This helps create a room where people can be seen, heard, and understood before any exploration begins.
Date and time
Sat, Apr 4, 2026, 7:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
APR 8th, VIRTUAL — HOW TO DISCLOSE A POSITIVE STI TEST OR EXPOSURE
Getting news about an STI test result or possible exposure can send people into a tailspin fast.
- WHO do I tell? 👀
- HOW MUCH do I share? 😬
- What if they FREAK OUT? 😬😬
- What if they JUDGE ME? 😬😬😬
- What if they STOP TALKING TO ME? What if they STOP SLEEPING WITH ME? 😬😬😬😬
- What if I say it badly and MAKE EVERYTHING WORSE? 😬🤬😭😡😱
Most of us were never taught how to have these conversations well.
So people panic-text. Over-explain. Under-explain. Freeze. Avoid. Or accidentally deliver the news in a way that makes everything feel even scarier.
This workshop is here to help.
In this 2-hour class, Reid will teach you how to share STI-related news with more clarity, steadiness, and care… and how to respond better when someone discloses to you, too.
We’ll cover how to:
- Disclose with less panic
- Share the info that helps (without fear soup)
- Regulate yourself before, during, and after
- Reduce shame without minimizing risk
- Handle awkwardness, blame, silence, or big reactions
- Support lovers, partners, polycules, and community with more skill and less stigma
This is not about pretending STI news is no big deal. It’s about learning how to handle it like a grown-up—with honesty, kindness, and skill.
Let Reid help YOU bring a little less “Reefer Madness” energy and a lot more grounded, Mister Rogers-style calm to one of the most emotionally loaded conversations many people ever have. 
When: Wednesday, April 8th; 5:30-7:30pm PACIFIC/8:30-10:3-pm EASTERN
Where: On Zoom, and Replay available for 7 days after the call
Cost: $10-$69 (Low-cost tickets limited)
Register for the call & replay HERE – https://Bit.ly/test-result-talk
Invite Your FetLife friends HERE.
Share with your Facebook friends HERE.
APR 28th, VIRTUAL – BLOWJOB GRAD SCHOOL
You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Fellatio!
- Would you like to take your current skills and craft to Jedi levels?
- Want to ask those nagging questions and get advanced-level tips and tricks?
- Wish you could leave your loved ones stammering, “h-h-How did you do THAT?!”
Let sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com be your Head Dean (see what he did there?!) and give you your PhD in oral sex so YOU can give and/or receive mind-blowing blowjobs that leave YOU and your lovers feeling satisfied, confident, and glowing with appreciation!
Regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, level of experience, relationship status, or what you’re packing beneath your clothes, this class will cover how to show yourself and your lovers how to give and receive more pleasure.
In this advanced tips and tricks class with plenty of room for Q&A, you will learn:
- How to leverage the pleasure anatomy of the penis and pelvis from tip to taint!
- Reid’s best tips and tricks for helping your penis owner not cum too quickly from your amazing skills…
- How to “stack the deck in your favor” so the penis you’re playing with cums when you would like it to…
- Advanced skills to combine with Reid’s easy-to-learn deep throating technique…
- Reid’s famous “Flying Squirrel” technique, PLUS how to do a Double Blowjob…
- Plus a few other graduate level, sexy secrets that will leave you feeling inspired and confident!
If you’ve been waiting to go back to school, look no further than this humorous and informative workshop that you’re guaranteed never to fail out of! If you would like an ASL interpreter, please reach out to Reid or the venue organizers so we can try to arrange it!
Date and time
Tue, April 28, 2026, 6:30 PM – 8:30 PM PDT/9:30 PM – 11:30 PM PDT
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE
MAY 2026 EVENTS
MAY 22nd-25th, TUOLUMNE, CA — PLAY: THE BONOBO NETWORK FESTIVAL
Restore • Connect • Play
Are you looking to be part of a members-only retreat where participants are working towards living up to the same values as you? Do you need a place to unplug and restore yourself? Are you looking for a weekend of music, learning, all sorts of fun organized activities, and PLAY? Join Reid at Play: The Bonobo Network Retreat, several days built on the ideas of High Possibility, Low Expectation, Trust and Trustworthiness, Consent, Support, Contribution, and Inclusion.
Take a break. Unplug from social media. This weekend is about you. It’s about us. It’s about connecting – deeply – with our amazing community of people with shared values and a common sense of possibility. It’s about rebuilding your personal reserves so that you can return to the world stronger, braver, better connected, and well-loved.
For this weekend, your life can be filled with unadulterated PLAY.
400 new friends • 9 shared meals • 4 days • 3 nights •
4 sexy play spaces • 1 hell of a good time
Sensual Playshops • Pool Parties • EPIC ENTERTAINMENT • Pure Magic
CLICK HERE or head to BonoboFest.com to learn more and find out how YOU can be part of this Community.
JUNE 2026 EVENTS
TBA Soon!
FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
AUG 18th-23rd, SKEPPSUDDEN, SWEDEN — THE FIELD FESTIVAL!
Created by Rachel Rickards, The Field Festival is the first large-scale gathering dedicated to exploring and amplifying our innate capacity for coherent, connected presence. Imagine a festival (or even a world) where we come together, not as isolated individuals, but as one unified organism.
And Reid’s gonna be teaching there…
Details coming soon…
When: AUG 18-23, 2026
Where: Skeppsudden, Sweden
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ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join me by visiting my online store!
See all of Reid’s Amazing, Learn-at-your-Own-Pace Classes HERE.
Reid’s spicy 🌶️ classes await you!
Check them out NOW – Click HERE. 👀
ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197 or watch the 2-hour intro class for $47!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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