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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)

These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!

JUNE 2025 EVENTS

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**JUNE 27th-JULY 4th — REID’S FACILITATORS MASTERCLASS RETREAT
(7-Night/8-Day, In-Person Retreat)

Attn: Facilitators, teachers, workshop leaders, therapists, coaches, etc…

ANCHOR THE SKILLS TO BECOME A MASTERFUL FACILITATOR
(By Practicing The Teacher’s Trilogy Approach In Person & In Real Time!)

The 7-night/8-day, In-Person, Masterclass Retreat: Dive deep into The Teacher’s Trinity and anchor the skills by applying them in real time, in front of your peers, with support and cheerleading in a deep-dive experience limited to 20 people!

Walk away with a new, 90-minute workshop encompassing all the principles of masterful facilitation, savvy workshop design, and powerful, confident public speaking skills! Become the facilitator/teacher you are destined to be…

Whether you want to uplevel your in-person facilitation, be able to give a kick-ass TED Talk, deliver engaging Zoom classes, or build a reputation that gets you invited to teach at festivals across the globe, this masterclass retreat guarantees that Reid won’t waste your time!

Comes with Reid’s “I Won’t Waste Your Time” Money-Back Guarantee If, at the end of the retreat, you attended all of it, and you authentically feel that you have learned nothing and that Reid has wasted your time, email Reid at Support@ReidAboutSex.com and say, “You wasted my time and I’d like my money back,” and Reid will be happy to refund you your ticket price minus processing fees. How’s THAT for a guarantee?!

Where: Portland, Oregon – 27 minutes East of Downtown Portland. Exact address upon registration.
When: June 27th-July 4th, 10am-6pm Pacific
Tickets & Info: Bit.ly/facilitators-masterclass

JULY 2025 EVENTS

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JUL 9th-13th, NEW ORLEANS, LA — NAUGHTY N’AWLINS

Need a reason to join me and like-minded sex geeks in New Orleans for 5-days of debaucherous fun? Want to watch LIVE demos THEN try out your new moves?! Here. You. Go. — Up your bedroom skills to Jedi levels AND get your shenanigans on!

Reid is teaching sooooo many workshops…

  • Rough Sex for Nice Folks
  • Blowjob Grad School
  • From Flirting To Fucking
  • Threesome, Foursome, Moresome! (with LIVE Demos)
  • The Ins and Outs of Hand Sex
  • Naughty Simon Says with Reid and Rina
  • Squirting Grad School
  • Less Jealous, More Secure (Hotter Sex!)
  • Strap-On Grad School

GET YOUR REID WORKSHOP TICKETS HERE.

AUGUST 2025 EVENTS

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Aug 2nd-9th. SPLIT, CROATIA — TANTRIC LUXURY YACHT RETREAT! 

“Set sail, shed inhibitions, and dive into deep connection on the stunning Adriatic.”

Monique Darling and Peter Petersen are offering us a once-in-a-lifetime chance: a special discount for a week-long yacht retreat along the beautiful Croatian coast, from August 2-9, 2025. Instead of the usual $5000 per person, it’s just $3800! Will you join us?!

This retreat takes Tantra & Energy Sex beyond a single place. With their Soulful Seas Croatia Yacht Retreat, we’ll get to practice in multiple stunning locations, each offering its own magic. Imagine joining Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, and yours truly aboard a luxurious yacht as we explore hidden bays, intimate island ports, and the captivating Croatian coastline.

CLICK HERE to learn all the details and payment options! Hurry! The yacht is almost sold out. <3

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Aug 15-20th. MOLKOM, SWEDEN — THE FIELD FESTIVAL!

Created by Rachel Rickards, The Field Festival is the first large-scale gathering dedicated to exploring and amplifying our innate capacity for coherent, connected presence. Imagine a festival (or even a world) where we come together, not as isolated individuals, but as one unified organism.

And Reid’s gonna be teaching there, teaching:

  • Dating Your Species Instead of Your Soulmate
  • Unlocking Shame For Deeper Connection
  • Facilitating Explicit Show ‘N Tell Then Try Workshops

When: Aug 15-20th, 2025
Where: Ängsbacka Retreat Center, Molkom, Sweden
More Info and Registration HERE

SEPTEMBER 2025 EVENTS

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SEPT 11-14th. BERLIN, GERMANY — SAVE THE DATES!!!

JOIN REID IN EUROPE THIS SUMMER/FALL… MORE INFO AND TICKETS LINKS COMING SOON!!

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SEP 18th-21st, REID GOES TO ּBELGIUM! WORKSHOP EXTRAVAGANZA WITH LORE BLANCKE & REID MIHALKO

Reid will be joining Lore Blanke for a special workshop weekend in Belgium! Together, they’ve crafted a delicious array of offerings blending their teachings for an enriching experience. You can experience 5 of Reid’s popular workshops to choose. Feel free to pick and choose the sessions that resonate with you, or better yet, join us for the entire weekend to get the full immersive experience! Here’s the full rundown of weekend’s workshops:

Thursday 18/09, 18.30 – 21.00: Tease ‘N’ Tell: A Playful Night of Desires & Secrets ✨

Friday 19/09, 18.30 – 21.30: Show ‘N Tell Bedroom Favorites (with LIVE Demos) ✨

Saturday 20/09, 9.30 – 12.00 and 13:00 – 15:30: Rough S❤️‍ For Nice Folks ✨

Saturday 20/09, 16.30 – 18.30 and 19.30 – 22.30: Sen$ual Play Party (with Intro Workshop) ✨

Sunday 21/09, 10:00 – 13:00 and 14:00 – 17:00: Oral S❤️‍ Grad School ✨

Tickets: Learn More and Get Your Tickets HERE.
Spread the word on Facebook HERE

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**SEPT 23-28th. BERLIN, GERMANY — 6-DAY RETREAT FOR WORKSHOP FACILIATORS & TEACHERS… SAVE THE DATES!!!

JOIN REID IN EUROPE THIS SUMMER/FALL… MORE INFO AND TICKETS LINKS COMING SOON!!

OCTOBER 2025 EVENTS

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OCT 2nd-5th, REID GOES TO STOCKHOLM! WORKSHOP EXTRAVAGANZA WITH LORE BLANCKE & REID MIHALKO

Reid will be joining Lore Blanke for a special workshop weekend in Stockholm! Together, they’ve crafted a delicious array of offerings blending their teachings for an enriching experience. You can experience 5 of Reid’s popular workshops to choose. Feel free to pick and choose the sessions that resonate with you, or better yet, join us for the entire weekend to get the full immersive experience! Here’s the full rundown of weekend’s workshops:

Thursday 2/10 18.30 – 21.00: Tease ‘N’ Tell: A Playful Night of Desires & Secrets ✨

Friday 3/10 18.30 – 21.30: Show ‘N Tell Bedroom Favorites (with LIVE Demos) ✨

Saturday 4/10 9.30 – 12.00 and 13:00 – 15:30: Rough S❤️‍ For Nice Folks ✨

Saturday 4/10 16.30 – 18.30 and 19.30 – 22.30: Sen$ual Play Party (with Intro Workshop) ✨

Sunday 5/10 10:00 – 13:00 and 14:00 – 17:00: Oral S❤️‍ Grad School ✨

Tickets: Learn More and Get Your Tickets HERE.
Spread the word on Facebook HERE

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OCTOBER 9-12th, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — REID’S TEAMING UP WITH WILRIEKE SOPHIA AGAIN… SAVE THE DATES!!!

JOIN REID IN EUROPE THIS SUMMER/FALL… MORE INFO AND TICKETS LINKS COMING SOON!!

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A montage of diverse pictures of happy, connected, loving people of all ages, ethnicities, and orientations in pairs, threes, fours, and larger groups surrounding the rectangular promotional image in the center. The center image is of a woman lying down wearing sexy lingerie with several men and women's hands carressing her while she smiles flirtatiously at the camera with the text, "From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure" across the image plus the photo credit, Red Temple Photography

6-Week Course: OCT 15th Thru NOV 19th — Virtual, 6-Week Deep Dive —
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?

Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships? Or push new relationships away too fast?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure…

Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and like-minded humans for a 6-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series with LIVE coaching calls exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!

Over 200+ amazing humans have already taken this class and raved about it… And Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!

From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure‘s 6 LIVE Q&A/Coaching Calls begin Wed, Oct 15-Nov 19th, 2025, 6-8pm PACIFIC.
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.

Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.

NOVEMBER 2025 EVENTS

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**NOV 1st-8th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — THE 11TH ANNUAL TRANSFORMATIONAL INTENSIVE FOR EXTRAORDINARY FACILITATORS W/ MONIQUE, PETER AND FRIENDS

Eight Days, Ten Instructors! — Join Reid, Monique Darling, Peter Peterson and a host of their favorite teachers for a weeklong deep dive into taking your teaching and facilitation abilities to the next level!

It’s our tenth year, and each one gets better and better!!
This year its in a little slice of heaven, Cabo San Lucas… Beach view Accommodations plus a rooftop with stunning 360 view! It is 8 days, with 10 extraordinary facilitators, and we are opening registration for just 18 attendees. Every year we have sold out!!!
This is the greatest creative inspiration Peter and Monique have ever created. It’s a culmination of their life’s work thus far.
We have spent the last 10 years now traveling the world learning and practicing these tools and now I want to share them with you. So many of you have asked for the steps, for a training to be able to do what we do, well I’m going to offer you one better…. we are going to offer you an intensive, a “Monique & Peter Boot Camp” if you will, with myself and some other extraordinary facilitators, to help you find out what’s in the way of you being able to offer your greatest gift to the world, to your clients, workshop attendees, partners, and every aspect of your life. Always remember YOU! You are the gift!!

Read the more about fabulous event and which teachers will be teaching via either link below…

Ticket & Registration Info HERE
Spread the word oFacebook HERE.


SAVE THE DATES…

I don’t have links for these events yet, but wanted to give you a heads up so you can block out the dates on your calendar…

  • Berlin, Germany — September 11-14th, 2025
  • Amsterdam, Netherlands — October, 9-12th 2025
  • Interfusion Festival, Arlington VA — Jan 12-15th, 2026

FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)

These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!

Stay tuned for waaaaay in advance events popping up here soon…


ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…

These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…

Banner. Which of the 8 arms of jealousy kicks your ass the most?
Link to grab your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map

ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!

Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? 🐙 And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!

Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map

A montage of diverse pictures of happy, connected, loving people of all ages, ethnicities, and orientations in pairs, threes, fours, and larger groups surrounding the rectangular promotional image in the center. The center image is of a woman lying down wearing sexy lingerie with several men and women's hands carressing her while she smiles flirtatiously at the camera with the text, "From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure" across the image plus the photo credit, Red Temple Photography

DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?

Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…

Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!

From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:

  • Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
  • Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
  • Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
  • Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
  • Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!

Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!

Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.

Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.


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Sarah schwab October 10, 2012 at 12:45 pm

Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.

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Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:13 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex

Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.

Yours in sex geekery,
REiD

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Lucien Vattel December 28, 2012 at 12:47 am

Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.

lucien

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Dorothy January 2, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.

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Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:07 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex

Hope to meet you one day!

Hugs,
REiD

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Miriam December 13, 2013 at 3:28 am

Reid,

I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”

Hugs!

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Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD

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bea of san luis obispo December 18, 2013 at 2:36 am

Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea

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Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm

The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!

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Bridget May 28, 2014 at 4:51 am

Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget

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Reid August 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂

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Laurence McGrath May 11, 2019 at 10:36 pm

So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!

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Heather July 25, 2019 at 10:14 am

Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?

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Reid October 4, 2019 at 11:19 am

Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!

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