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On this page, you’ll find the following:
- Upcoming Events In Chronological Order
- ICYMI – In Case You Missed It Items and Events of Interest!
- Far-In-Advance Events
(See event listings for anything booked more than +6 months to a year out) - Past Events That Have Been Recorded (and are available for purchase!)
NOTE: Events marked with (2) asterisks** are professional development events designed for sex educators and sex-positive professionals (and may be useful for all entrepreneurs).
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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
APR 2nd, VIRTUAL – BATTLING THE EIGHT-ARMED OCTOPUS OF JEALOUSY hosted by PLURA
When it comes to jealousy, many of us feel like superstitious sailors who whisper of an almighty leviathan that will inevitably come for us. And when the Green-Eyed Monster rises from our emotional depths, we usually find ourselves powerless to stop its many arms from tearing our relationship-world apart. Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this workshop on how you can kick jealousy in the ass before it kicks you!
In this unique workshop, you will learn…
- Where your jealousy (or another’s) comes from your unique set of Jealousy “Triggers” like Envy, Possessiveness, Fair Vs Equal, Rejection, and the four other arms of the “octopus” of Jealousy
- Valuable tools for dealing with and mitigating your triggers so jealousy doesn’t take over
- How to dramatically decrease your feelings of dread and anxiety around jealousy, and lessen Jealousy’s grip on those you care about
- Ways to communicate to your loved ones how they can make your world a less jealous one
- Boundary and negotiation skills for improving your relationships no matter what emotions you’re experiencing! And more!
If you’d given up on dealing with jealousy or resigned yourself to a life of powerlessness… If you love someone who battles with jealousy and is always on the losing end… Please join us for what is sure to be an insightful and extremely useful journey into the uncharted seas of being empowered around Jealousy!
There’s More! Check the link below to find out about a more in-depth 4-week deep-dive call series on Jealousy!
Date and time
Wed, Apr 2, 2025, 5-7 PM Pacific / 8-10 PM Eastern
APRIL 3rd, PORTLAND, OR – NEGOTIATING SUCCESSFUL THREESOMES
Double your pleasure without destroying your relationships…
The ménage à trois is a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure potential, but navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night) can be tricky. Join world-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this humorous, R-rated, fun-filled workshop…
Not only will you get a chance to ask questions in this workshop, but we’ll cover:
- What are the best techniques to satisfy two lovers at once?
- Ways to overcome fears and concerns – Yours AND your partner’s!
- The most common threesome mistakes (and how to avoid them!)
- How to negotiate boundaries and safer sex protocols to make your next ménage à trois tré bien!
Whether you’ve had more threesomes than the artist formerly known as Prince or are just beginning to consider three-in-a-bed might be something you’d like to explore, this workshop will give you plenty of tools, tricks, perspectives and laughs to enhance your love life and strengthen your relationships! Bring your loved ones, bring your friends, and enjoy an educational and entertaining evening on how to successfully navigate one of the most common sexual fantasies: the threesome!
Even if you would NEVER be interested in a 3-way, this fun-filled class will give you lots of ways to talk to your loved ones about the things you DO WANT in the bedroom – no matter how tame or outrageous!
Date and time
Thu, Apr 3, 2025, 9:30 PM-12:00
APRIL 17th, PORTLAND, OR — BAWDY STORYTELLING’S “KINK!”
Bawdy Storytelling got snowed out in February but rescheduled! Get ready Portland! And Reid and Allison Moon are BOTH going to be telling stories!!!!
Join Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour & hand-picked Rockstars as they share their own stories of Love, Lust, and Sex Geekery…. New to Bawdy? Check out the podcast!
Bawdy Storytelling (‘The Moth for Pervs” – LA Weekly) features True Tales of Carnal Wins & Epic Fails with No Scripts, No Nets, and No Holds Barred. These folks aren’t reading from cue cards: this is honest-to-badness story time with real live sexcapades and poignant, transformational tales at each and every show. Sexual Folklorist Dixie De La Tour has been bringing the Nation’s Perverrati together on the Bawdy Storytelling stage for almost 18 Years, to tell their own infamously true tales of lust, love, k!nky collisions, gender redefinition, sexual identity, life-changing hook-ups, educational one-night stands & everything in between.
Hey, you may even go home with a few new tricks for your boudoir arsenal!
P.S. We’re always the Best Date in Town, but you don’t need a date to be part of this. Our community of Weirdos (the good kind) are welcoming and inclusive…you may not know it yet, but you’re already #OneOfUs
Learn More and Get Your Tickets Here!
APR 22nd, VIRTUAL — PUTTING THE “US” IN UNICORNS: COUPLES SEEKING THREESOMES AND BECOMING THE UNICORN WHISPERERS YOU WERE MEANT TO BE!
What if, instead of chasing unicorns, you became the kind of couple that unicorns flock to?
Putting the “Us” in Unicorns is your chance to learn directly from Reid Mihalko and Rina Star—two experienced (and hilarious) unicorns who’ve clocked over 500 threesomes and are ready to spill the glittery tea on how to attract, delight, and honor unicorns the right way. If you want to be the kind of couple that unicorns want to jump into bed with—and keep coming back to—this workshop is for you.
We’ll cover everything from where to meet unicorns (online and IRL), to crafting juicy, ethical invitations, to what kind of aftercare makes your new friends feel like magical royalty. Plus, you’ll get tips on communication, common dealbreakers to avoid, and the secret ingredients that make for playful, connected, and unforgettable threeways.
Whether you’re new to group dynamics or already exploring, Reid and Rina will help you feel more confident, grounded, and skilled at navigating these juicy adventures.
Date and time
Wed, Apr 22, 2025, 5-7 PM Pacific / 8-10 PM Eastern
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
MAY 7th-14th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO – AWAKEN AS EROS AN EROTIC LABORATORY W/ MONIQUE DARLING AND REID MIHALKO
Join Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling for a transformative weeklong retreat, “Awaken as Eros,” where you’ll break free from societal constraints and explore your deepest desires in a safe, curated environment. This experience is crafted to help you express your Eros with confidence, diving into everything from sensual anatomy and erotic demos to the art of overcoming sxxual shame. With a focus on integrity, communication, and trauma-informed care, you’ll learn to ask for what you want and embrace the pleasure your body is capable of.
During this immersive week, we’ll guide you through powerful rituals, partner practices, and self-discovery exercises that will unravel old belief systems and help you create a menu of desires you never knew existed. You’ll explore pressure play, enhance your bedroom skills, and learn how to navigate the complexities of intimacy with grace and humor. This retreat is your chance to replace shame with unbridled aliveness and to connect deeply with yourself and others in a way that feels authentic and liberating.
Whether you’re just beginning your journey into sxxual exploration or looking to deepen your connection to your desires, “Awaken as Eros” is a unique opportunity to step into your erotic power. With expert guidance and a supportive community, you’ll leave this retreat with a newfound confidence, ready to embrace your Eros and bring more pleasure and passion into your life.
Date and time
May 7, 2025, – May 14, 2025
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
MAY 23rd-26th, LAKE COUNTY, CA — PLAY: THE BONOBO NETWORK RETREAT
Restore • Connect • Play
Are you looking to be part of a members-only retreat where participants are working towards living up to the same values as you? Do you need a place to unplug and restore yourself? Are you looking for a weekend of music, learning, all sorts of fun organized activities, and PLAY? Join Reid at Play: The Bonobo Network Retreat, several days built on the ideas of High Possibility, Low Expectation, Trust and Trustworthiness, Consent, Support, Contribution, and Inclusion.
Take a break. Unplug from social media. This weekend is about you. It’s about us. It’s about connecting – deeply – with our amazing community of people with shared values and a common sense of possibility. It’s about rebuilding your personal reserves so that you can return to the world stronger, braver, better connected, and well-loved.
For this weekend, your life can be filled with unadulterated PLAY.
400 new friends • 12 shared meals • 4 days • 3 nights • 3 sexy play spaces • 1 hell of a good time
Sexual Skills Workshops • Nature Hikes • Pool Parties • Movement Classes • DJs • Pure Magic
CLICK HERE or head to BonoboRetreat.com to learn more and find out how YOU can be part of this Community.
MAY 29th-JUNE 1st, RALEIGH, NC —
LEARN WITH REID AT THE BLISS BOOGIE!
Bliss Boogie is an annual eco-friendly, sober, educational festival that celebrates creativity, community, the human interconnected experience, sexuality, and the joy of music, dance, and a celebration of being.
Bliss Boogie invites you to it’s annual, 3-day, eco-friendly, sober, educational festival celebrating the joy of creativity, connection, and community with live music, art installations, and transformative workshops. Set on 75 beautiful wooded acres in Central North Carolina, this unique event welcomes everyone, proudly embracing LGBTQIA+ individuals and people of all races and backgrounds. Join a vibrant community that values diversity, creativity, and living life at the highest vibration. Don’t miss this unforgettable experience designed to spark joy and celebrate bliss! Let’s boogie!!!!
Reid Will Be Teaching:
- Oral Sex Grad School
- How To NOT Fall In Love at This Festival Unless You REALLY Want To (and Then How To Do THAT Better!)
- Push, Pull, Squeeze: Harnessing Your Pelvic Floor for Greater Health, Pleasure, and Bedroom Prowess! (part 1) – with April Curtis
- Push, Pull, Squeeze & Squirt: Welcome to Splooshville (part 2) – with April Curtis
Date and Time: Thurs, May 29 – Sun, June 1, 2025
Location: Lakeside Retreats, 4521 Mial Plantation Road, Raleigh, NC
Register via Reid’s affiliate link and find out more about Bliss Boogie HERE
JUNE 12th-15th, COBB, CA — SOULPLAY
Dance. Connection. Nature.
Are you looking for a place to experience learning and growth, while having a lot of fun and making great connections in the process? Do you want to be able to practice being present while connect with a community? And do you want to be able to do all that knowing that you and all the people around you are sober? Then this is the event for you…
Join Reid at SoulPlay – The premier, sober festival in the US! Where he’ll be teaching two of his popular workshops – Pressure Play and The 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy.
SoulPlay is a 4-day immersive experience filled with transformational workshops, celebration, dancing, connection, and play. This is not your typical festival. It is an experience designed to facilitate learning and growth, while having a lot of fun and making great connections in the process. Whether this is your first time stepping into an experience like this or you’ve been walking the embodiment path for a while, SoulPlay meets you where you are.
SoulPlay strives to create a container through which we can all be our fully expressed selves. The depth, joy and playfulness we dream of is only realized if we are all included, welcomed and celebrated. We are continually working as an organization and as a community to support this vision.
CLICK HERE to learn more AND receive $20 Off because you used Reid’s special ReidAboutSex coupon to get your tickets before SoulPlay sells out!
JUL 9th-13th, NEW ORLEANS, LA — NAUGHTY N’AWLINS
Up your bedroom skills to Jedi levels by attending Reid’s many Naughty N’awlins classes THIS July!
Bookmark this page ’cause I’ll be posting my free and paid classes there once they get approved by the Naughty Powers That Be!
Need a reason to join me and like-minded sex geeks in New Orleans for 5-days of debaucherous fun? Here. You. Go.
Visit Naughty N’awlins’ website and book your ticket to get naughty with me and my friends ASAP!!!!
Aug 2nd-9th. SPLIT, CROATIA — TANTRIC LUXURY YACHT RETREAT!
“Set sail, shed inhibitions, and dive into deep connection on the stunning Adriatic.”
Monique Darling and Peter Petersen are offering us a once-in-a-lifetime chance: a special discount for a week-long yacht retreat along the beautiful Croatian coast, from August 2-9, 2025. Instead of the usual $5000 per person, it’s just $3800! Will you join us?!
This retreat takes Tantra & Energy Sex beyond a single place. With their Soulful Seas Croatia Yacht Retreat, we’ll get to practice in multiple stunning locations, each offering its own magic. Imagine joining Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, and yours truly aboard a luxurious yacht as we explore hidden bays, intimate island ports, and the captivating Croatian coastline.
CLICK HERE to learn all the details and payment options! Hurry! The yacht is almost sold out. <3
Aug 15-20th. MOLKOM, SWEDEN — THE FIELD FESTIVAL!
Created by Rachel Rickards, The Field Festival is the first large-scale gathering dedicated to exploring and amplifying our innate capacity for coherent, connected presence. Imagine a festival (or even a world) where we come together, not as isolated individuals, but as one unified organism.
And Reid’s gonna be teaching there, too. Join us!
When: Aug 15-20th, 2025
Where: Ängsbacka Retreat Center, Molkom, Sweden
More Info and Registration HERE
SAVE THE DATES…
I don’t have links for these events yet, but wanted to give you a heads up so you can block out the dates on your calendar…
- Belgium — September 19-21st, 2025
- Berlin, Germany — September 18-21st, 2025
- Stockholm, Sweden — October 3-5th, 2025
- Amsterdam, Netherlands — Dec 18-21st, 2025
FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
Stay tuned for waaaaay in advance events popping up here soon…
**NOV 1st-8th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — THE 11TH ANNUAL TRANSFORMATIONAL INTENSIVE FOR EXTRAORDINARY FACILITATORS W/ MONIQUE, PETER AND FRIENDS
Eight Days, Ten Instructors! — Join Reid, Monique Darling, Peter Peterson and a host of their favorite teachers for a weeklong deep dive into taking your teaching and facilitation abilities to the next level!
It’s our tenth year, and each one gets better and better!!
This year its in a little slice of heaven, Cabo San Lucas… Beach view Accommodations plus a rooftop with stunning 360 view! It is 8 days, with 10 extraordinary facilitators, and we are opening registration for just 18 attendees. Every year we have sold out!!!
This is the greatest creative inspiration Peter and Monique have ever created. It’s a culmination of their life’s work thus far.
We have spent the last 10 years now traveling the world learning and practicing these tools and now I want to share them with you. So many of you have asked for the steps, for a training to be able to do what we do, well I’m going to offer you one better…. we are going to offer you an intensive, a “Monique & Peter Boot Camp” if you will, with myself and some other extraordinary facilitators, to help you find out what’s in the way of you being able to offer your greatest gift to the world, to your clients, workshop attendees, partners, and every aspect of your life. Always remember YOU! You are the gift!!
Read the more about fabulous event and which teachers will be teaching via either link below…
Ticket & Registration Info HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE.
ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…
ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? 
And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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