Calendar
On this page, you’ll find the following:
- Upcoming Events In Chronological Order
- ICYMI – In Case You Missed It Items and Events of Interest!
- Far-In-Advance Events
(See event listings for anything booked more than +6 months to a year out) - Past Events That Have Been Recorded (and are available for purchase!)
NOTE: Events marked with (2) asterisks** are professional development events designed for sex educators and sex-positive professionals (and may be useful for all entrepreneurs).
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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
DECEMBER 2025 EVENTS
Stay Tuned for Updates…
JANUARY 2026 EVENTS
Jan 15-19th, 2026 ARLINGTON, VA— INTERFUSION FESTIVAL
2025 was my first time at Interfusion and the Powers That Be have invited me back! Save the dates!!! Links and info when they’re available – Check out their website HERE.
JAN 19th, ALEXANDRIA, VA —
FOUR DAYS OF FESTIVAL NOT ENOUGH? CHECK THIS OUT!
Post Interfusion All Gender Temple Party w/ a Touch of Kink
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
Date and time
Mon, Jan 19, 2026, 7:30 PM – 11:45 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
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JAN 23rd, DURHAM, NC – DOUBLE FEATURE FRIDAY: SPEED-FLIRTING & HOW TO BE SUCCESSFUL AT PLAY PARTIES!
A Double-Feature Night of Playful Confidence, Consent Skills & Connection Games!
Ready to boost your confidence, sharpen your flirting skills, and feel more comfortable navigating play-party spaces? Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com in-person for a fun and informative two-workshop evening designed to help you create more ease, clarity, spark, and consent-savvy connection in your life.
This event is perfect for singles, couples, throuples, shy folks, bold folks, curious newbies, and seasoned community members. Come for one workshop or stay for both! Meet like-minded adults interested in nerding out and increasing their skills at breaking the ice, flirting, and exploring what they want to explore!
PART 1 — SPEED-FLIRTING
Creating playful connection doesn’t have to be hard… or creepy!
Speed-Flirting is a lively, clothes-stay-on, game-filled workshop that helps you break the ice, shake off awkwardness, and feel more confident meeting new people. We take flirting beyond the narrow “sxxual” meaning and turn it into a joyful tool for connection, friendship, and fun.
We’ll warm up, nerd out, and play simple partner & group games designed to help you feel more alive, grounded, and socially confident. Perfect for singles, couples, shy babes, bold babes, and everyone in between!
PART 2 — FROM FLIRTING TO FCKING
How To Be Successful at Play Parties (Even If You Never Get Naked!)
After we warm up your flirting muscles, we shift into a thoughtful, shame-free, clothes-stay-on workshop on navigating sxx-positive events with clarity, skill, and confidence.
Whether you’re curious about attending your first play party or you’ve been to dozens, this workshop gives you practical tools you can use right away to feel safer, more empowered, and more connected.
You’ll leave feeling more confident, more grounded, and more prepared for whatever play-party adventures feel right for you.
Join us for this playful, shame-free, skill-building double-feature!
Date and time
Fri, Jan 23, 2026, 7:00-11:00 PM Pacific
Learn More and Get Your Tickets Here!
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MARCH 2026 EVENTS
MAR 9th, VIRTUAL – BATTLING THE EIGHT-ARMED OCTOPUS OF JEALOUSY
When it comes to jealousy, many of us feel like superstitious sailors who whisper of an almighty leviathan that will inevitably come for us. And when the Green-Eyed Monster rises from our emotional depths, we usually find ourselves powerless to stop its many arms from tearing our relationship-world apart. Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this workshop on how you can kick jealousy in the ass before it kicks you!
In this unique workshop, you will learn…
- Where your jealousy (or another’s) comes from your unique set of Jealousy “Triggers” like Envy, Possessiveness, Fair Vs Equal, Rejection, and the four other arms of the “octopus” of Jealousy
- Valuable tools for dealing with and mitigating your triggers so jealousy doesn’t take over
- How to dramatically decrease your feelings of dread and anxiety around jealousy, and lessen Jealousy’s grip on those you care about
- Ways to communicate to your loved ones how they can make your world a less jealous one
- Boundary and negotiation skills for improving your relationships no matter what emotions you’re experiencing! And more!
If you’d given up on dealing with jealousy or resigned yourself to a life of powerlessness… If you love someone who battles with jealousy and is always on the losing end… Please join us for what is sure to be an insightful and extremely useful journey into the uncharted seas of being empowered around Jealousy!
Date and time
Mon, Mar 9, 2026, 6:30-8:30 PM Pacific
MAY 2026 EVENTS
MAY 22nd-25th, TUOLUMNE, CA — PLAY: THE BONOBO NETWORK FESTIVAL
Restore • Connect • Play
Are you looking to be part of a members-only retreat where participants are working towards living up to the same values as you? Do you need a place to unplug and restore yourself? Are you looking for a weekend of music, learning, all sorts of fun organized activities, and PLAY? Join Reid at Play: The Bonobo Network Retreat, several days built on the ideas of High Possibility, Low Expectation, Trust and Trustworthiness, Consent, Support, Contribution, and Inclusion.
Take a break. Unplug from social media. This weekend is about you. It’s about us. It’s about connecting – deeply – with our amazing community of people with shared values and a common sense of possibility. It’s about rebuilding your personal reserves so that you can return to the world stronger, braver, better connected, and well-loved.
For this weekend, your life can be filled with unadulterated PLAY.
400 new friends • 9 shared meals • 4 days • 3 nights •
4 sexy play spaces • 1 hell of a good time
Sensual Playshops • Pool Parties • EPIC ENTERTAINMENT • Pure Magic
CLICK HERE or head to BonoboFest.com to learn more and find out how YOU can be part of this Community.
FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
AUG 18th-23rd, SKEPPSUDDEN, SWEDEN — THE FIELD FESTIVAL!
Created by Rachel Rickards, The Field Festival is the first large-scale gathering dedicated to exploring and amplifying our innate capacity for coherent, connected presence. Imagine a festival (or even a world) where we come together, not as isolated individuals, but as one unified organism.
And Reid’s gonna be teaching there…
Details coming soon…
When: AUG 18-23, 2026
Where: Skeppsudden, Sweden
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ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…
ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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