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On this page, you’ll find the following:
- Upcoming Events In Chronological Order
- ICYMI – In Case You Missed It Items and Events of Interest!
- Far-In-Advance Events
(See event listings for anything booked more than +6 months to a year out) - Past Events That Have Been Recorded (and are available for purchase!)
NOTE: Events marked with (2) asterisks** are professional development events designed for sex educators and sex-positive professionals (and may be useful for all entrepreneurs).
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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!
AUGUST 2026 EVENT
AUG 5th-9th, The Netherlands — AWAKEN AS LOVE TANTRA FESTIVAL
Who wants to join Reid in The Netherlands this summer?!
Imagine yourself in a place surrounded by beautiful nature, tasty organic food and some of the best international & national facilitators who would be there to support you in creating more intimacy in yourself, with life and in your relationships. Having a more vibrant and exciting life away from the normal constraints of our lives and minds. Meaningful and truthful, loving and bliss and connection to others.
Dates: August 5th-9th
Location: Kasteel de Berckt, Netherlands 🇳🇱
Use REID10 at checkout to save 10% off registration!!!
LEARN MORE and GET YOUR TICKETS HERE.
AUG 13th, STOCKHOLM, SWEDEN — WHAT SEX EDUCATORS ACTUALLY DO IN BED | A SHOW ‘N TELL EVENING with REID MIHALKO AND LORE BLANCKE
Ever wondered what sex educators actually do in bed? For one evening, Reid Mihalko and intimacy educator Lore Blancke are lifting the covers — literally. This is a live show-and-tell where two very opinionated intimacy nerds take the stage to demonstrate their favorite bedroom practices, share stories from their own lives, compare notes, and probably disagree on a few things. No slideshows. No vague metaphors. Just real skills, real laughter, and real tools you can bring home.
Here’s the thing: most of us are expected to know how to touch, communicate, flirt, initiate, and pleasure — without ever having watched someone do it well. This event changes that. You’ll see live demonstrations of bedroom skills, erotic techniques, and connection practices. You can ask questions, make requests, and soak it all in. You won’t be put on the spot or asked to participate. Just come as you are, settle in, and enjoy the show. Bring your curiosity, a friend, and a notebook.
Date/Time: Thu 13 Aug 2026 6:30 PM – 9:30 PM
Tickets: Register and find out more about the event HERE.
Share with your friends on FACEBOOK HERE.
SEPTEMBER 2026 EVENTS
SEP 18th-19th, RALEIGH, NC —
LEARN WITH REID AT THE BLISS BOOGIE!
SAVE THE DATE: Bliss Boogie brought to you by Unbound
Bliss Boogie invites you to it’s, eco-friendly, sober, educational festival celebrating the joy of creativity, connection, and community with live music, art installations, and transformative workshops. This unique event welcomes everyone, proudly embracing LGBTQIA+ individuals and people of all races and backgrounds. Join a vibrant community that values diversity, creativity, and living life at the highest vibration. Don’t miss this unforgettable experience designed to spark joy and celebrate bliss! Let’s boogie!!!!
A full day of learning, connecting, and playing—choose-your-own-adventure style. Mixers running ALL DAY — drop in whenever you feel like it. Connection in a core part of the experience. Tapas-style kink in the evening: Explore new experiences with locals who love sharing their passion. Or, just get to it in our sex-positive play space with friends and partners new and old. A space for the kinky, the sex-positive, and the spiritual to gather in the sunshine and find their people. More details dropping soon!
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE
OCTOBER 2026 EVENTS
OCT 9th, PHOENIX, AZ —
SPEED FLIRTING AND A PARTY?!? OH MY!
Speed Flirting & All Gender Temple Party w/Reid & Monique
We are starting out our temple party a little different this time, the first 45 mins will be for speed flirting, make sure you arrive by 7:30 to participate…
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
These events always sell out, so grab your spot now…
Date and time
Fri, OCT 9, 2026, 7:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Where: Phoenix, AZ
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
OCT 10th, PHOENIX, AZ —
NAVIGATING SUCCESSFUL THREESOMES w/ a (clothed) LABORATORY
Three doesn’t necessarily have to be a crowd…
The ménage à trois is a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure potential, but navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night) can be tricky. Join world-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this humorous, R-rated, fun-filled workshop… (which will be recorded and the replay available for 7-days to all ticket holders, so get your tickets now!)
Not only will you get a chance to ask questions in this workshop, but we’ll cover:
- What are the best techniques to satisfy two lovers at once?
- Ways to overcome fears and concerns – Yours AND your partner’s!
- The most common threesome mistakes (and how to avoid them!)
- How to negotiate boundaries and safer sex protocols to make your next ménage à trois tré bien!
Whether you’ve had more threesomes than the artist formerly known as Prince or are just beginning to consider three-in-a-bed might be something you’d like to explore, this workshop will give you plenty of tools, tricks, perspectives and laughs to enhance your love life and strengthen your relationships! Bring your loved ones, bring your friends, and enjoy an educational and entertaining evening on how to successfully navigate one of the most common sexual fantasies: the threesome!
Even if you would NEVER be interested in a 3-way, this fun-filled class will give you lots of ways to talk to your loved ones about the things you DO WANT in the bedroom – no matter how tame or outrageous!
Date and time
Sat, Oct 10th, 2026, 1:00-5:00PM
🎟️ Ticket & Registration Info HERE 🎟️
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
OCT 10th, PHOENIX, AZ —
A SATURDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY? I’M IN!
All Gender Temple Party w/ a touch of Kink w/ Reid, Monique, & Peter
Do you come to Temple/Play Parties and wonder how people learned to play well together? Reid Mihalko will start our temple party with an introduction to Navigating Group Play. Knowing where to draw the line together and how to talk about it can save you both a ton of headache the next day! With the dizzying array of options available to people who’ve decided to explore open relationships…
- How do you and your loved ones figure out what options and actions will leave everyone involved feeling honored and respected?
- What does one do to help reduce the risk of catastrophe and increase the odds that exploring group play is filled with fun and pleasure?
- What do you do when the inevitable challenges arise or when someone makes a bad call?
Navigating group juicy dynamics in any relationship takes skill, patience and a little bit of luck. If “luck” is where opportunity and preparation meet, then learning how to negotiate sound relationship boundaries and agreements is a sure-fire way to make the two or three, or four of you the luckiest people on Earth!
Monique and Reid Mihalko are pleased to invite you back to the ever popular All Gender Temple/Play Party. A place of fearless play, a live laboratory to learn to ask for what you want and dare to say no, unapologetically for everything else!
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
Date and time
Sat, Oct 10, 2026, 7:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
OCT 11th, PHOENIX, AZ — POLY-CURIOUS 101: UNDERSTANDING NON-MONOGAMY
Curious about polyamory and consensual non-monogamy? Maybe you’ve read all the books but want to talk to folks actually living and loving the polyam lifestyle. Opening up any relationship takes skill, patience and perseverance. Mistakes will be made. But why make any more than you have to? Whatever your reason or level of experience, join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for an interactive workshop full of tips and tricks and Q&A!
In this fun, informative, and easy-to-understand primer on polyamory and open relationships, we will cover definitions and different ways to construct non-monogamous relationships, the elements that make polyamory workable, the most common pitfalls of open relationships and how to avoid them, the secret key to turning jealousy into a blessing, how to figure out and negotiate your boundaries and agreements so everyone feels safe, and more!
Show up with your questions and leave with newfound confidence and self-esteem for your relationships and sex life!
Date and time
Sun, Oct 11, 2026, 1:00 PM – 5:00 PM
SAT, OCT 17th, LAS VEGAS, NV —
NAVIGATING SUCCESSFUL THREESOMES w/ a (clothed) LABORATORY
Three doesn’t necessarily have to be a crowd…
The ménage à trois is a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure potential, but navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night) can be tricky. Join world-renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for this humorous, R-rated, fun-filled workshop… (which will be recorded and the replay available for 7-days to all ticket holders, so get your tickets now!)
Not only will you get a chance to ask questions in this workshop, but we’ll cover:
- What are the best techniques to satisfy two lovers at once?
- Ways to overcome fears and concerns – Yours AND your partner’s!
- The most common threesome mistakes (and how to avoid them!)
- How to negotiate boundaries and safer sex protocols to make your next ménage à trois tré bien!
Whether you’ve had more threesomes than the artist formerly known as Prince or are just beginning to consider three-in-a-bed might be something you’d like to explore, this workshop will give you plenty of tools, tricks, perspectives and laughs to enhance your love life and strengthen your relationships! Bring your loved ones, bring your friends, and enjoy an educational and entertaining evening on how to successfully navigate one of the most common sexual fantasies: the threesome!
Even if you would NEVER be interested in a 3-way, this fun-filled class will give you lots of ways to talk to your loved ones about the things you DO WANT in the bedroom – no matter how tame or outrageous!
Date and time
Sat, Oct 17th, 2026, 1:00-5:00PM
OCT 17th, LAS VEGAS, NV —
A SATURDAY NIGHT PLAY PARTY? I’M IN!
All Gender Temple Party w/ a touch of Kink w/ Reid, Monique, & Peter
Do you come to Temple/Play Parties and wonder how people learned to play well together? Reid Mihalko will start our temple party with an introduction to Navigating Group Play. Knowing where to draw the line together and how to talk about it can save you both a ton of headache the next day! With the dizzying array of options available to people who’ve decided to explore open relationships…
- How do you and your loved ones figure out what options and actions will leave everyone involved feeling honored and respected?
- What does one do to help reduce the risk of catastrophe and increase the odds that exploring group play is filled with fun and pleasure?
- What do you do when the inevitable challenges arise or when someone makes a bad call?
Navigating group juicy dynamics in any relationship takes skill, patience and a little bit of luck. If “luck” is where opportunity and preparation meet, then learning how to negotiate sound relationship boundaries and agreements is a sure-fire way to make the two or three, or four of you the luckiest people on Earth!
Monique and Reid Mihalko are pleased to invite you back to the ever popular All Gender Temple/Play Party. A place of fearless play, a live laboratory to learn to ask for what you want and dare to say no, unapologetically for everything else!
This is an experiential party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes ALL and is very gender friendly. This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to one before. We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy.
Date and time
Sat, Oct 10, 2026, 7:00 PM – 11:30 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
OCT 18th, LAS VEGAS, NV – MOUTH PLEASURE MASTERY
Want more confidence giving pleasure, but wish someone would just show you how it’s done instead of explaining it in the abstract? This four-hour, in-person workshop is built for visual learners. I’ll walk you through real anatomy, pacing, communication, and mouth-based technique using live demonstrations by consenting adult models — so you’re watching skill in action, not just hearing about it. This isn’t about performing perfectly. It’s about getting curious, building confidence, and learning to talk about pleasure without the awkwardness.
This is a Show ‘N Tell class — there’s no hands-on practice, no attendee touching, and everyone stays fully clothed the whole time. You’re welcome to come solo, with a date, with friends, or with your favorite unicorn 🦄 — no experience or partner required. Bring a notebook, your questions, and your sense of humor.
Date and time
Sun, Oct 18, 2026, 1:00 PM – 5:30 PM
Register and find out more about the event HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE
NOVEMBER 2026 EVENTS
NOV 19th, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — PLAY WELL W OTHERS: EXPLORE SEX & DATING THOUGHTFULLY
When exploring sex with multiple people, the exciting questions get most of the attention: Who might we meet? What might we try? Will this be hot? Fair enough. But some deeper questions make the experience better for everyone: What do I actually want? What am I available for: emotionally, practically, sexually? What are my boundaries, and what agreements do I need with existing partners? What happens if someone gets hurt, jealous, or confused and how do we repair when we didn’t know what we didn’t know?
This workshop builds the skills to answer those questions with more confidence and care.
Date and time
Thursday, November 19, 2026 | 19:00 to 21:30
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE.
NOV 20th, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — THE ART OF PRESSURE PLAY AND PINK PLAY PARTY
This is an XL event from 11 AM – 10 PM combining a Pink Play Party with a workshop afternoon. The perfect play party when this is new for you and you are curious, or whether you are a true connoisseur of slow, deep connections. This edition begins with a workshop on pressure play by Reid Mihalko.
Pressure is one of the most overlooked tools for creating amazing pleasure. Whether you’re giving a massage, cuddling on the couch, making out, enjoying kinky play, having sex, or simply holding someone you love, knowing how to use pressure can completely transform the experience.
This is a playful, hands-on workshop where you’ll discover how pressure, pushing, pulling, squeezing, body weight, breath, and positioning can unlock entirely new kinds of sensation, connection, and pleasure.
Through demonstrations, guided exercises, and partner practice, Reid and Wilrieke will help you become more creative, confident, and skillful with one of the most powerful tools everybody already has: touch.
You’ll leave with more confidence in your hands and body, better communication through touch, and practical skills that improve massage, cuddling, intimacy, kink, and sex. Incredible touch isn’t about memorizing techniques – it’s about awareness.
Date and time
Friday, November 20, 2026 | 11:00 to 22:00
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE.
NOV 21st, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — SHOW ‘N TELL SEX ED & PLAY PARTY
This is an advanced XL event, 11.00-22.00h, combining a Red Play Party with a workshop (MIND THE PREREQUISITES!). Thé perfect play party when you feel adventurous and want to meet people to play with, alone or with others. Experience sex education like you never had before – live demos on live bodies, followed by the well-known juicy free-flow.
ABOUT THE WORKSHOP: SHOW ‘N TELL SEX ED
Chasing the next exciting thing – a new toy, position, technique, bigger scene – is easy, and it can be incredible. But it’s just as easy to skip the simple skills that make every intimate experience better: small adjustments in touch, pressure, rhythm, breath, attention, and positioning – the stuff that makes a lover ask “how did you do that?” These foundations aren’t boring, they’re where the magic lives.
This is a full-day, clothing-optional pleasure practicum where education comes first. You watch demonstrations, ask questions, and – if you choose – practice with others while Reid and Wilrieke coach (watching is perfectly valid participation).
Reid and Wilrieke give live, explicit demonstrations with consenting demo partners – real bodies, real communication, real problem-solving. Ask anything: how experienced lovers adjust when something isn’t working, ask for feedback, or transform an experience with a small change in angle, rhythm, pressure, or breath.
Afterward, the room becomes a practice space. Explore what you’ve learned with your own partner(s) while Reid and Wilrieke circulate to coach. Nothing is required – practice, watch, take notes, practice solo, pause, or simply observe. Consent, communication, curiosity, and respect are the foundation of everything.
Date and time
Saturday, November 21, 2026 | 11:00 to 22:00
Register and find out more about the event HERE!
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE.
SOLD OUT 😭 — NOV 22nd, AMSTERDAM, NETHERLANDS — EROTIC MASSAGE PRACTICUM (sold out)
This is a full-day, hands-on practicum: from restorative touch to sensual touch, and – if you choose – erotic touch and expanded pleasure. Principles, not routines, so you become more present, intuitive, and responsive. Beginner or experienced, you leave with skills you can use right away.
Massage starts as a way to relax. It can also become a doorway to deeper trust, intimacy, and pleasure – for giver and receiver both. That’s today.
Gain more confidence touching and being touched. A deeper connection with your own body. Trust to communicate desires and boundaries. More presence during intimacy. Better body awareness. Comfort letting pleasure unfold without rushing.
Date and time
Sunday, November 22, 2026 | 11:00 to 18:00
SOLD OUT 😭 — Register and find out more about the event HERE!
Invite your friends on FetLife HERE.
Nov 25th & 26th — COPENHAGEN, DENMARK
Reid will be teaching again at Copenhagen’s House of Play… More info on exactly what, along with ticket links, are coming soon! Please stay tuned.
FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!
ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…
These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join me by visiting my online store!
See all of Reid’s Amazing, Learn-at-your-Own-Pace Classes HERE.
Reid’s spicy 🌶️ classes await you!
Check them out NOW – Click HERE. 👀
ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!
Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!
Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map
DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?
Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…
Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!
From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:
- Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
- Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
- Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
- Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
- Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!
Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!
Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197 or watch the 2-hour intro class for $47!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.
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Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.
Yours in sex geekery,
REiD
Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.
lucien
Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.
The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex
Hope to meet you one day!
Hugs,
REiD
Reid,
I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”
Hugs!
Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD
Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea
The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!
Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget
Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂
So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!
Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?
Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!
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