Dating

How Do You Deal With Envy When You Can’t Get A Need Met?

Envy can be tough, and it can be even harder when you have no way to get that need met. What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid being helpful.  Reid: This is a very important question and I’m feeling intimidated.  Cathy: Someone asked:  “How […]

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Only Able To Have Orgasms With A Vibrator? How Can You Have More Fun With Your Partner?

How can you talk to your partner about needing a vibrator to have an orgasm? And have more fun with and without one? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: A reader wrote in and said, “I can only have orgasms with a vibrator and I haven’t really talked […]

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Playing Games Around Sex? Using Old Paradigms Around Relationships?

How can you step out of the old games about withholding sex or not contacting the other person “too soon”? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I recently had sexual encounter with a new man. I know we really like each other […]

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You And You Partner Interested In The Same Person? And They Beat You To The Punch?

Some people are more extraverted than others, what if your partner beats you to the punch flirting with someone you like? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: What happens when you and your partner are interested in the same person and they start flirting with them first? Beating […]

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Are There Non-Monogamy Focused Dating Sites?

What sites are non-monogamy focused? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, are there non-monogamy specific dating sites?  Reid: It’s called Tinder. Oh, burn. Swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Yes, […]

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Hiding Your Vibrator From Your Partner? How Can You Share?

Sneaking around to have orgasms and afraid to tell your partner about your vibrator? What can you do? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: One our readers wrote in and said, “I’m 71 years old and I’ve never had an orgasm without a vibrator. I’m really embarrassed about […]

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How Not To Fall In Love!

Want to NOT fall in love? How can you do that? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: What if you don’t want to like someone? What if you don’t want to fall in love? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Are […]

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What Can You Do If Your Partner Is Afraid You’ll Cheat… But You Aren’t Thinking Of It?

Keep getting accused of being a cheater, but not even considering it? What’s going on? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said “My partner thinks I’m going to cheat in the future and he’s spending a lot of time talking about it. But the […]

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He Doesn’t Want To Have Sex With You? What Can You Do?

Does he enjoy sex with other people… But now with you? That can really hurt! What can you do? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: So we had a writer, write in. We’re not going to read it, but it was lengthy, in a good way. We love […]

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Can You Really Design Happiness Into Your Relationships?

Don’t you have to take whatever you can get in dating? Can you really date your species? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Can you really design happiness into your relationships?  Reid: Hello, that’s bullshit. Do you ever listen to Reid Mihalko? Oh my lord!  Cathy: Reid Mihalko […]

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