Dating

How Do You Deal With The Grief of Disappointment?

When your expectations aren’t met, you may have a lot of grief because of the disappointment. How can you release that grief and move on? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Dealing with the grief of disappointment. How do you do it? This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This […]

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Expectations and Disappointment

When your expectations aren’t met you may be hit with disappointment. What can you do to deal with that? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Video number two on expectations.  Cathy: Dealing with disappointment, because they go often hand in hand.  Reid: Yes, I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. This is […]

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Can Disappointment Be A Sign That You Have Unmet Expectations?

What if disappointment were a powerful indicator that you have unspoken expectations? Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So Reid, you’ve shared with me that you think that, are you going to pick on me now? That people can most determine when they have expectations because they experience […]

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Is It Normal To Have Pain In Certain Sexual Positions?

Does everyone have pain in some sexual positions? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’m wondering if it’s normal to have pain during certain sexual positions. I noticed that when riding my boyfriend or being in the doggy position, my lower back really hurts or […]

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How Do You Deal With Envy When You Can’t Get A Need Met?

Envy can be tough, and it can be even harder when you have no way to get that need met. What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid being helpful.  Reid: This is a very important question and I’m feeling intimidated.  Cathy: Someone asked:  “How […]

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Only Able To Have Orgasms With A Vibrator? How Can You Have More Fun With Your Partner?

How can you talk to your partner about needing a vibrator to have an orgasm? And have more fun with and without one? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: A reader wrote in and said, “I can only have orgasms with a vibrator and I haven’t really talked […]

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Playing Games Around Sex? Using Old Paradigms Around Relationships?

How can you step out of the old games about withholding sex or not contacting the other person “too soon”? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I recently had sexual encounter with a new man. I know we really like each other […]

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You And You Partner Interested In The Same Person? And They Beat You To The Punch?

Some people are more extraverted than others, what if your partner beats you to the punch flirting with someone you like? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: What happens when you and your partner are interested in the same person and they start flirting with them first? Beating […]

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Are There Non-Monogamy Focused Dating Sites?

What sites are non-monogamy focused? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, are there non-monogamy specific dating sites?  Reid: It’s called Tinder. Oh, burn. Swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe, swipe.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Yes, […]

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Hiding Your Vibrator From Your Partner? How Can You Share?

Sneaking around to have orgasms and afraid to tell your partner about your vibrator? What can you do? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: One our readers wrote in and said, “I’m 71 years old and I’ve never had an orgasm without a vibrator. I’m really embarrassed about […]

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