Dating

Reid’s Poly Dating Tips – Poly Pride Day, Central Park, NYC, 10.10

On Oct 10, 2009, in Central Park, New York City, I was given 3-minutes to talk to a gathering of polyamorous peeps on relationship skill sets that would make multiple relationships work better… Let me know how you think I did!   Reid: Hello everyone! Hello everyone! Glad you did Cuddle Party for Deli but […]

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What Do You Do If You Have A Passive Aggressive Friend?

What do you do if you’re friend won’t talk to you directly about issues and won’t ask for what he wants… And instead is passive aggressive about things? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little […]

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Is Sexual Freedom About “Whoring” Around?

Do you have to have a lot of sex to have sexual freedom?     With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that freedom wasn’t about whoring around and they felt kinda offended that we’re talking about people having.. Reid: Ethical monogamy? Which to them is […]

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Are There People Who Are Undateable?

What makes a person undateable? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Is there anyone undateable? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vatuli from the http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And BBC did a documentary called the Undateables, people that no ones dating and the person wrote in just find that people […]

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Kinky and In An Open Relationship, But Don’t Know How To Talk To Your Partner?

Kinky and In An Open Relationship, But Don’t Know How To Talk To Your Partner? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Dr. Liz Power from SexPositivePsych.com Reid: Are you kinky in open relationship and somehow your relationships aren’t quite working or you don’t know what to say to your partner? My name is Reid Mihalko, […]

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You’re Partner’s Sex Drive On Again, Off Again? What Can You Do?

How can you take care of yourself when you’re partners sexual connection is on-again, off-again? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -“  Reid: Is it “we have had” or “I have […]

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He’s Just Not Interested In Sex With Me… What Do I Do?

What can you do when your partner doesn’t want to have sex with you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer […]

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Lying and The Three Strikes Rule… What Is It And How Do You Use It?

How does the 3 Strikes Rule apply to lying? Does changing your mind count as a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cathy promised me that was the last video but now we have to shoot another one.  Cathy: Actually I-  Reid: You lied to me!  Cathy: No, you […]

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Is The A Difference Between Telling A Lie And Changing Your Mind?

When does not keeping your word mean you’re telling a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We’ve talked about before about what to do if you’re caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, “My boyfriend has lied to me […]

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Can The Marriage Be Saved If One Partner Doesn’t Want Sex?

Tried everything but sex is off the table? Is the marriage over? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn’t want to sleep with me, we’ve had a lot of people writing in about this. It’s a great question. This woman wrote in […]

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