Cathy Vartuli

If I Need Lube For Sex, Does That Mean I’m Not Turned On?

Does needing lube mean there’s anything wrong? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.comand Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share.   Cathy: We had someone write to us about needing lube for sex. She had thought originally because she needed lube, her partner thought that that meant she wasn’t turned on. What do you think about that […]

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Talking About Masturbation

Most people don’t talk about masturbation, and that can leave people feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … […]

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I’m Afraid I’m Losing My Partner

What can you do when it feels like someone is moving away from you and your relationship? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share.   Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing […]

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Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

If you’re curious about anal play and want to bring it up with your partner, how can you start? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you […]

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Being Attracted to Unavailable and Distant People

Being Attracted to Unavailable and Distant People? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Do you ever find that you’re getting attracted, you find yourself attracted to people that are distant or emotionally unavailable? That can be a pattern that some people can fond to. And if you can just hit […]

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Cheated On In Relationship

What do you do when your partner cheats on you? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do when your partner cheats on you? Reid: I get angry, that’s what I do. Cathy: Thank you, that was so helpful Reid Mihalko from Reidaboutsex.com. Reid: Awesome. You’re welcome Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. […]

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Cheating

Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, she said she’s interested in a married man and she doesn’t know what to do. Reid: Mmmhmmmm … Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from … Reid: I’m going to assume that that man’s not married to her. Cathy: No, he’s not. Reid: Mmmhmmm … Cathy: This […]

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Digging Deeping in Your Relationships

With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: Have you found that your relationship might be a little stagnant? Or that you’re not growing as fast as you would like? Reid: What? I thought everything was fine. What are you telling me? Cathy: Actually, digging into some of the deeper stuff in your relationship, […]

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Does He Love Me

Does he love me? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Does he love me? How can I tell? Someone wrote in and asked us that question the other day. It’s a great question. And this is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and apparently, we’ve killed […]

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Doing Things In Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don’t really know they want to try. They’re not really sure and … Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I’m sure that […]

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