Cathy Vartuli

Feeling Underappreciated In Your Relationship

Do you sometimes feel under appreciated, but other people just see you as being quiet? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share what you can do when you feel under appreciated in your relationship. Cathy: Another person wrote in saying, “What can I do when I feel under appreciated in […]

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How NOT Homophobic Am I?

How NOT Homophobic Am I? America’s favorite sex geek, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, jumps out of a birthday cake and strips, reveals his stripper name from back in his college days (hint: It’s a famous comic book character), and shares the story of how he discovered just HOW not homophobic he is… Happy Birthday to […]

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How Can You Be Part of A Group Faster?

A lot of people feel that they don’t fit in. But there are some simple steps that you can take to help you start being part of the group a little bit faster. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how to fit in a group faster. Cathy: Reid and […]

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Rebuilding Trust in a Relationship

How do you rebuild trust in your relationship? What can you do, if you have a lot of struggle over time and you’re just not feeling really easy and trusting with each other. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out how to bring back trust in your relationship. Cathy: One of […]

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They Claim They Didnt Know The Condom Broke…What do you do?

Did they tell the truth? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com (Laughs) Reid: Sing it! Cathy: Oh no, they’ll just hang up. Reid: All right. All right. I’ll let you off this time. Cathy: Oh […]

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Dealing with Criticism

Was your partner very critical over a period of time, and now he’s being less critical, but it’s really hard for you to go back. Do you feel shut down, and expecting criticism every time you talk? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase […]

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Stories About Jealousy In Polyamorous Relationships

What are some examples of jealousy in polyamorous relationships? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more […]

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Is He A Good Fit For Me? Dating Advice

How do you know if someone is a good fit for you or not? Is it the circumstances you’re in right now or are they just not a good fit? The main thing is when you’re thinking about is this the tough time – has the relationship always been a tough time or are you just […]

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Someone Flirting With Your Boyfriend…. And Gossiping About You?

What do you do if someone flirts with your boyfriend, then says bad things about you behind your back? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We had a writer write in. Cathy: Yes. Reid: We love it when you write in. Cathy: Yes. Reid: Because it gives us things to […]

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Getting Your Needs Met When Your Sex Drives Don’t Match

When we’re talking about issues of libido, we have to ask ourselves, if there’ve been any recent changes in ourselves, your lovers’ lives that could be the cause of the decreased libido. The second thing to start looking at, then, is there something that’s going on between you two relationship wise that you don’t have matching libidos? […]

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