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I Have An Idea! Initiating Intimacy

Want to Initiate a 3-some? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: So we’re back. Reid is going to explain, “I have an idea.” Reid: We’re back from what? What if this is this person’s first video they’re ever watching? They don’t really know […]

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How Can You Tell Who To Approach For A Three-Some?

Want to Initiate Intimacy? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: We had someone ask us- you’re such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, “Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?” […]

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Is It Safe To Be Sexually Intimate With Someone With Herpes?

A lot of people are nervous about connecting with people with herpes. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Hi Reid. One of our listeners asked, is it safe to be involved with someone with herpes? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: Is it safe? […]

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What To Do When Your Partner Is Depressed

When your partner is going through a tough time, your relationship can be stressed and strained. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: We have another comment from someone asking for help. Reid: Okay. Cathy:  His wife is going through some family stuff, and she’s been really depressed. […]

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If I Need Lube For Sex, Does That Mean I’m Not Turned On?

Does needing lube mean there’s anything wrong? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.comand Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share.   Cathy: We had someone write to us about needing lube for sex. She had thought originally because she needed lube, her partner thought that that meant she wasn’t turned on. What do you think about that […]

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Talking About Masturbation

Most people don’t talk about masturbation, and that can leave people feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … […]

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I’m Afraid I’m Losing My Partner

What can you do when it feels like someone is moving away from you and your relationship? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share.   Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing […]

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Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

If you’re curious about anal play and want to bring it up with your partner, how can you start? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you […]

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Being Attracted to Unavailable and Distant People

Being Attracted to Unavailable and Distant People? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Do you ever find that you’re getting attracted, you find yourself attracted to people that are distant or emotionally unavailable? That can be a pattern that some people can fond to. And if you can just hit […]

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Cheated On In Relationship

What do you do when your partner cheats on you? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do when your partner cheats on you? Reid: I get angry, that’s what I do. Cathy: Thank you, that was so helpful Reid Mihalko from Reidaboutsex.com. Reid: Awesome. You’re welcome Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. […]

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