Sexual Skills

Should You Ever Put A Timeline On Sex?

Is it a good idea to promise to sleep with someone in 6 weeks, or any other timeline? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So Reid, you’re talking to someone about having sex in the future, should you ever give them a timeline? Reid: In future like 2069? […]

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What Are Some Cunnilingus Tips?

How do you do cunnilingus well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cunnilingus tips? Cathy: Yes. Reid: All right. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid travels all around the country teaching a workshop at sex-toy stores and colleges […]

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Is Your Condom Too Long?

Does your condom slip forward so there’s a bunch of material at the end? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “My partner and I often have a problem when the condom will slip off his dick or over stretch the tip so there’s this long […]

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Not Sure If You’re Non-monogamous or Have Intimacy Issues?

Are you a monogamous person with intimacy issues or poly? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Do you ever feel like you’ll never fall in love, that you might be broken? Cathy: That’s a really scary feeling. Reid: We had a question, some of you awesome folks and you’re writing […]

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Not Having A Lot Of Sex And Feeling Strange Because You’re A Sex Educator?

Shouldn’t all sex educators being getting laid? Not necessarily. Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I can’t take him anywhere. Reid: That’s why we sit right here, in front of this camera. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they’re a sex educator. Good job. They’re also going through […]

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Want The Erotic Feeling Of Someone Reading Your Mind?

How can you balance someone knowing you so well you don’t have to use your words, with being in consent and asking for what you need? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: All right. So this is the second video to the mind reading question video, because I had an […]

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When To Use Intuition and Mind Reading In Bed

Is mind reading sexy in bed? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said: “Hey Reid, sexy question here.” Reid: Ooh, sexy question time. Cathy: “So I’ve just read one of your articles on communicating and not assuming that your partner can read your mind. What […]

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Can G-Spot Stimulation Bruise The Urethra Or Cause UTIs?

G-spot play can be really fun. Can it cause problems? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers in Germany wrote in and said “Hey there guys.” Reid: Germany? Cathy: Yes. Reid: Hello Germany. Cathy: It’s great to see you. “Hey there guys. I hope it’s okay to […]

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Playing Games Around Sex? Using Old Paradigms Around Relationships?

How can you step out of the old games about withholding sex or not contacting the other person “too soon”? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “I recently had sexual encounter with a new man. I know we really like each other […]

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