Sex Geekery

What Do You Do When Your Child Questions Their Gender?

How do you support your son or daughter when they question their sexuality? How can you be a loving parent? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, and this was a really loving letter, they said that their child is in college, first year of college, […]

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How To Use An Internal (Female) Condom…..

How do you use a female or internal condom? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Reid: Bring! Bring! Hello? Oh yes, you have a question about putting on internal condoms or what  used to be called female condoms? Hang on! We’ll shoot that video. Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com it’s for […]

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How Can A 55 Year Old Woman Have A Great Sex Life?

What can you do to help build connection and have a blast no matter what your age? If you want a bunch of lovers? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    I’m going to start reading it and then start the video? Cathy: Yeah. You’re so helpful, thank you. Someone wrote […]

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I Have An Idea! Initiating Intimacy

Want to Initiate a 3-some? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: So we’re back. Reid is going to explain, “I have an idea.” Reid: We’re back from what? What if this is this person’s first video they’re ever watching? They don’t really know […]

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How Can You Tell Who To Approach For A Three-Some?

Want to Initiate Intimacy? Break the ice? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ideas and suggestions. Cathy: We had someone ask us- you’re such a goof-ball. We had someone ask us, “Who do I or who to approach for a threesome and how to talk to them about it?” […]

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Talking About Masturbation

Most people don’t talk about masturbation, and that can leave people feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … […]

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Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

If you’re curious about anal play and want to bring it up with your partner, how can you start? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you […]

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Doing Things In Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don’t really know they want to try. They’re not really sure and … Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I’m sure that […]

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Get Slutty with Dossie Easton in Dallas, Sept 29th!

Don’t Mess With Dossie! If you’d like to meet one of America’s most outspoken, shameless and delightful sex positive activists, join us for an intimate evening on Sunday, September 29th, 2013, at the Bridge Bistro in Dallas for an exclusive night with Dossie Easton and friends, MC’ed by moi and organized by The Intimacy Dojo!! […]

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Where Is Your Sweet Spot?

I love it when I’m in my sweet spot – in relationships, in work, in play, with my friends and family. When I’m in my sweet spot, everything seems more interesting and fun! AND EASIER. Not that being in your sweet spot isn’t work sometimes, or that you don’t hit a speed bump or get […]

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