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As A Sex Educator, What Do I Do If Sex Organizations and Conferences Don’t Pay Their Presenters?

As A Sex Educator, What Do I Do If Sex Organizations and Conferences Don’t Pay Their Presenters?   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said what about sex positive and kink organizations and conferences that don’t pay their presenters, what can we do about this as an educator? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: And […]

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Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – UPGRADED for Your P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E.

Many people find it difficult to have a safer sex conversation because no one ever taught us how! I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help me recall each of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech’s 8 steps…

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You Have Reid’s Difficult Conversation Formula But You Freeze When It’s Time To Use It, What To Do?

You Have Reid’s Difficult Conversation Formula But You Freeze When It’s Time To Use It, What To Do?   Cathy: What do you do if you have Reid’s difficult conversation formula? You fill it all out, you love it and when it comes to the moment of actually using it you feel freeze. This is […]

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How Can You Create More Sex Date When You’re In A Long Distance Relationship?

How Can You Create More Sex Date When You’re In A Long Distance Relationship?     Cathy: How can you create more sex date and phone play times when you’re in a long distance relationship this is Reid Mihalko http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Why, you don’t remember after all this time? Reid: […]

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My Partner Has Cheated And Lied In The Past, How Can I Trust Her?

My Partner Has Cheated And Lied In The Past, How Can I Trust Her?       Cathy: Someone else wrote in and said they just stared opening up their relationship and her partner just met another girl which he likes which is just great, my only problem is she has a lot of trust […]

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Where Do You Find Sexy, Kinky Sex Geeks?

Where Do You Find Sexy, Kinky Sex Geeks?             Cathy: Where do you find sexy, kinky, sex geeks? Reid: Look where the tuxes are that’s where you’ll find them. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com my luggage got lost this morning and all I […]

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Guys Don’t Have To Musterbate, Their Partners Can Do It For Them! What??!!

Guys Don’t Have To Musterbate, Their Partners Can Do It For Them! What??!!     Cathy: In response to our video in masturbation someone wrote in and says the guy doesn’t have to masturbate his wife or girlfriend can do if or him. He should never have to jerk off if he has a woman […]

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How Do You Run A Great Sex Positive Play Party?

How Do You Run A Great Sex Positive Play Party?       Cathy: How do you run a great sex positive play party? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com who’s thrown a bunch of parties. Reid: Like a lot at this point, very many. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com who’s thrown fewer […]

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Is There A Way To Know If a Person Is Being Honest That He’s In an Open Relationship?

Is There A Way To Know If a Person Is Being Honest That He’s In an Open Relationship?         Reid: One of our listeners wrote in. Many men say that they’re in an open relationship just to let you think that I believe, I’m not sure if that’s written correctly. I just […]

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Safer Sex: E is for Essentials About Me

Use your safer sex/STI status conversation as building blocks towards creating a sexy, satisfying win-win by including an Essentials About Me segment! In my Safer Sex Elevator Speech post, I share my favorite way to have a safer sex , STD/STI status conversation. I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help remind me of each step. […]

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