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Reid Mihalko Has Been Nominated for 2 XBIZ awards!

Reid Mihalko Has Been Nominated for 2 XBIZ awards!       Cathy: So Reid you’re here all dressed up from XBIZ, can you tell us about XBIZ?   Reid: So first everyone needs to know I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com   Reid: And the Airlines lost my […]

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How To Tell If Someone’s Telling You The Truth About Being In An Open Relationship Or Not?

How To Tell If Someone’s Telling You The Truth About Being In An Open Relationship Or Not?     Cathy: Have you ever wondered how to tell if someone is telling you the truth about being in an open relationship or not? One of our amazing viewers wrote in and said that they get this […]

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After My Failed Poly Relationship, How Do I Make Sure I Have Control And Get Respect?

After My Failed Poly Relationship, How Do I Make Sure I Have Control And Get Respect?     Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that my first poly relationship was a flap. We connected, we had a really nice time and suddenly the couple decided they weren’t Poly and dumped me and then the boyfriend […]

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What Is Couple Privilege And How It Can Interfere With Relationships?

What Is Couple Privilege And How It Can Interfere With Relationships?     Cathy: What is couple privilege and how it can interfere with relationships? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com what is it, Cathy? What do you think of this? Cathy: Well how I’m seeing it I’m right now […]

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Do You Only Speak Up If You Have Deep Connection With That Someone?

Do You Only Speak Up If You Have Deep Connection With That Someone?       Reid: Snap! Cathy: Are you going to share the question? Reid: Yes. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and the question is based on something Cathy and I were just talking about, Cathy do […]

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How Do I Cope Knowing That My Girlfriend Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me?

How Do I Cope Knowing That My Girlfriend Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me?     Cathy: How do I cope with knowing my girlfriend doesn’t want to be sexual with me anymore or she’s not sexually attracted to me? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and […]

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How Do I Tell Them That I’m Only For A Casual Hook Up Without Making Them Feel Rejected?

How Do I Tell Them That I’m Only For A Casual Hook Up Without Making Them Feel Rejected?           Cathy: What do you do if you’re into someone for a casual hook up but not for anything deeper and you’re not sure how to tell them without kind of making them […]

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A Few Resources on Power Dynamics…

An area that often gets overlooked in relationship and sex education is the area of individual/institutional power dynamics and how they impact relationships. This is an area that I was sorely lacking understanding in, but as I continue to journey further down the rabbit hole, slowly developing more awareness and understanding, I would be remiss if I didn’t shout from the rooftops, “Learning how power dynamics are impacting your relationships changes everything!”

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When To See The Doctor If Penetration Hurts?

When To See The Doctor If Penetration Hurts?       Cathy: When do you know if it’s time to see a doctor when penetration hurts? Someone wrote in and said if her partner goes to deep it really hurts, I feel like there’s a blockage or something. I can only handle 5-6 inches, is […]

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How To Be Authentic and Not Disappointing Someone At The Same Time?

How To Be Authentic and Not Disappointing Someone At The Same Time?       Cathy: How do you handle it if you’re a kind person and you don’t want to have other people be disappointed but you want to be authentic too? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com […]

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