As practitioners of sexual healing, we are often the first adults our seekers and clients feel safe enough with to open up their Pandora’s Box of past hurts and wounds. As they delve into, stir up and begin to release old traumas, it’s only natural that their rage, mistrust and lashing out sometimes gets directed at us. For those of us who haven’t learned the hard-won knowledge of experiencing the fury of a wounded woman as she heals herself and reclaims her sexuality, we can sometimes flinch or lash-back when what these women need most is for us to be unshakable.
