Dating

A Warm Connection, Part II: Training Your Hamsters

In the last article, we talked about one way to create warm connection quickly: Presence. Have you been practicing being present with people? Noticing when your brain goes off on it’s own, and bringing it back to the conversation? Noticing your toes, and the color of their eyes? Even a little bit of practice can […]

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Relationships Failing More Than Ever…Can This Save Yours?

Today, I’m going to teach you why relationships are failing faster than ever before, why people are so upset or unsatisfied in their relationships and what you can do to start transforming that. If you read my last article, we talked about the Difficult Conversation Formula and how you can start speaking up about the […]

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Navigating Emotional Distress And Also Being A Better Communicator

Awesome Relationships 101 Today I am going to teach you how to navigate emotional distress and also be a better communicator so you can have new ease and connection in your relationships. In the last article we talked about: – How you can create more romance for your partner, – How you can transform their […]

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Wineglasses can make you a better lover… Really?

This is really cool and can take your physical intimacy to a whole new level! And you’ll never look at a wineglass the same way again! Play along and then try it out… I’d love to hear how it works for you! The Wine Glass Analogy: Imagine that you have a wineglass in front of you. Have you ever tried […]

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How To Make Your Partner Feel More Romanced:

Would you like simple ways to create more romance quickly and easily? The secret is in figuring out who is a cat and who is a dog… Here are my top techniques for helping your partner(s) feel loved and appreciated! Romance Is NOT About Gender A lot of people think of romance as a guy/girl […]

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A Simple Technique To Lessening Conflict…

It might not seem super romantic, but if you can add ease and reduce struggle in your relationship every time you argue, that’s pretty special. Especially when you can do it so easily. And this can be applied even when things are going great! So what is this technique? It’s a really, really small thing that […]

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Making Breakups & Relationships Easier In 3 Simple Steps

Breaking up can be hard and messy, but it doesn’t have to be that way. We’re taught growing up that a relationship is more successful the longer it lasts. And breakups can be so painful, complicated and destructive that staying in a bad relationship can seem more sensible than having to face a catastrophic ending. […]

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Are You Dating A Cat Or A Dog? [Article on YourTango]

… the answer will revive romance in your relationship! [E.T.A. – Oct 1, 2019: This article was republished on YourTango, but it’s become hard to find the Page 2 of the article on their site now, so I’m posting the entire article here so folks can find it easily. I also updated broken links and […]

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Jealousy vs. Envy

In the last article I talked about Jealousy as Asthma and shared how you can identify, avoid, and inoculate against the 8 tentacles/triggers of the Octopus of Jealousy. I also promised to share soon about the difference between Jealousy and Envy, because it can make a BIG difference in relationships. So here’s the distinction between jealousy and […]

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Treat Jealousy Like Asthma

Jealousy isn’t something we look at closely, in general. We’re mostly taught that jealousy is bad, painful, shameful, and there is no relief. When it comes for you, you’re sunk, and it’s better to pretend it doesn’t exist and to just suffer through it when it does happen. (Or, blame our partners viciously if jealousy […]

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