Dating & Connection

How Do You Know When To Pull Out? Can You Feel it?

What do you watch for to know when to pull out? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli, from TheIntimacyDojo.com . Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko, for ReidAboutSex.com . Reid: We have a question. Cathy: You actually started this as a […]

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Can You Really Watch Your Partner Sleep With Someone Else

Society tells us a lot about what it means if our partner sleeps with someone else… Is it possible to watch and enjoy? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and  said, “What’s wrong with you dude? You just sit there and watch while someone else […]

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Are You Poly or Monogamous In Your Business Relationship…

How do you do sex-positive business? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Are you poly or monogamous in your business relationships? Reid: What? Business conversation. Sex Geek Summer Camp T-shirt means business conversations for sex educators. This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from […]

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Reid & Allison Are Bringing Poly-Curious 101 Back To LA! Just in Time for Valentine’s!

Don’t know what to get your sweetie this Valentine’s? How about a Reid & Allison 3-Way? Curious about this new “lovestyle” you’re hearing a lot about called polyamory? Maybe you’ve read all the books but want to talk to folks actually living and loving the poly lifestyle… Whatever your reason or level of experience, join […]

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What If You Tell A Huge Lie

Told a huge lie and don’t know what to do? Suggestions from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: We have a video about what to do if you tell a lie and get caught in it. Why did you do that? Reid: I do that when I lie. Cathy: This […]

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What If You Keep Cutting People Off?

Ever get excited and cut people off? What can you do to make things better? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We did a video on what to do if someone’s always cutting you off, but what if you cut other people off? This is Reid Mihalko from […]

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Feel Strange To See Someone You Broke Up With….

No longer friends, but still seeing each other? Just because its going well, that doesn’t mean the other person wants to be friends. What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about […]

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What Do You Do After You Ditch The Rules Around Dating and Sex

If you dump the old paradigms around sex and dating, what do you do? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We have a video on playing games around sex and releasing old paradigms in our relationships, where a woman’s not supposed to initiate sex, not supposed to have […]

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Sharing With Your partner That You Dont Want To Have Sex

Example of telling your partner that you don’t want to have sex tonight in a loving way… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk […]

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Role Modeling… Asking For What You Want In Bed

It can be hard to ask for what you want in bed. Tips, and role modeling with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: This is awesome. We’re going to get so meta. We’re talking about how you can give your partners upgrades about certain things… Cathy: In bed. Reid: In bed. […]

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