Dating

How Do You Deal With Feast Or Famine In Dating- Identity: Part 1

How Do You Deal With Feast Or Famine In Dating- Identity: Part 1         Reid: One of us is drinking coffee and one of us is not. Can you guess who? Cathy: [Laughing] it looks like a lot I can see from here. Reid: It does. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ […]

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Single And Celebate For Years… Is There Anything Else To Try Around Dating?

Single And Celebate For Years… Is There Anything Else To Try Around Dating?   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I’ve been single and celibate for years. I’ve tried online dating, approached men, lost weight, joined a gym, joined a church, dyed my hair, volunteered in my community and still never got asked out even […]

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How Do I Manage Building A Sex Ed Business While Having A Full-time Job?

How Do I Manage Building A Sex Ed Business While Having A Full-time Job?       Cathy: Someone wrote it and said, “I’m super-psyched. I’ve been wanting to come to sex geek summer camp for three years.” They just got their ticket and Reid’s wearing the t-shirt pointing to it. She said “I’m not […]

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Can You Practice Social Skills On Low Status People In Your Community?

Can You Practice Social Skills On Low Status People In Your Community?         Reid: So there’s this thing about when you want to practice something socially, skill-wise in some communities they talk about picking somebody who’s of low importance in a community to practice on because if you fuck it up there’s […]

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The Condom Broke When I Was With A Sex Worker… Could I Have HIV?

The Condom Broke When I Was With A Sex Worker… Could I Have HIV?       Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, “I was having sex with a sex worker and the condom broke. I pulled out immediately and I didn’t ejaculate so does that mean if she has HIV, I’ve contracted it […]

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The Importance of Asking For What We Want!

The Importance of Asking For What We Want!               Reid: I just want to be the first to say that Cathy is making me do this video and withholding dinner from me. Cathy: The steak is over there. Reid: There’s…there’s steak Cathy: With mushrooms and blue cheese on top. […]

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Do Girls Ever Need To Be Forced A Little Bit?

Do Girls Ever Need To Be Forced A Little Bit?         Cathy: Do you have to force girls a little bit? I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/. Give me context Cath, give me context. Cathy: Some…someone was talking about that he…he had a date with someone he […]

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What’s The Difference Between Objectification And Preferences In Sex?

What’s The Difference Between Objectification And Preferences In Sex?   Cathy: What’s the difference between objectification and preferences when you’re sleeping with someone of a particular type? Someone bigger, of color or tall, short, older, younger or whatever it is. I am here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: And I am here with Cathy […]

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Determining One’s Needs Through Self-love Before Entering Into New Relationship

Determining One’s Needs Through Self-love Before Entering Into New Relationship       Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “When I was newly single after divorce I had all these men flocking to me and I was like having all kinds of hot poly kinky play, everything I dreamed of and then some I met […]

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What Do You Do If You Have Trouble Accepting Offers Of Sex… Even If You Want It?

What Do You Do If You Have Trouble Accepting Offers Of Sex… Even If You Want It? Cathy: What do you do if you have trouble accepting sex even if someone else initiates it and you really want it? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from https://reidaboutsex.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: Read that […]

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