Communication & Repair

What Do You Do When Someone Cuts You Off With “Got It”

What do you do when someone cuts you off and shuts you down? How can you be seen and heard? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: A writer, writes in … or a commenter … writer? They could be a writer? A commenter who could be a writer, writes in. […]

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Poly? Crush On Someone But Not Sure If They’re Poly?

Should you flirt with someone if you don’t know if they’re poly? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:This just in. A writer or commenter writes in. It’s very detailed and I’ll just summarize it but I just want to thank all of you who leave comments and leave questions or […]

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How To Share Feedback AND Leave Your Partner Feeling Appreciated!

Ever heard of the Appreciation Sandwich? Using this can help you give feedback and suggestions AND gently and clearly ask for upgrades. With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Do you like sandwiches?  How about an appreciation sandwich? This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. […]

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What Happens If You Follow The Difficult Conversation Formula and Things Blow??!

Ever have problems talking to your partner about the “difficult things”? Things blow up on you?? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What happens if you are following the difficult conversation formula and things blew up anyway? Reid: Did you do it wrong? No! We will tell you why. I’m […]

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Clarity Is Contagious! – Ask for Specifics When Asking for What You Want…

Exercising Your Clarity Muscles In 3 Easy Steps To Get MORE Of What You Want In Life and In Bed… If you know me, you know I’m a big fan of exercises I can do myself that give me clarity. Why? Because when I’ve taken steps towards becoming clear, others often react to me in more […]

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What Can You Do When You Fight Over The Same Silly Things All The Time?

Are you and your partner fighting over the same silly things over and over? What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: It’s Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: OK, so Cathy are you going to try to put the camera over here […]

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Self Soothing

Taking care of you can make a huge difference on how life feels to you…whether you had a stressful day or want to be ready for a powerful presentation. With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Do you self s- What? Cathy: Self soothe. Reid: Self soothe. What are your practices […]

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Someone Being Mean? Pretty Sure They Don’t Even Know It?

We all had someone that was mean to us, giving us advice on whatever, and they didn’t realize that they’re being mean…but they do come across sometimes very judgmental or harsh. Do you know how to deal with mean people, and with someone who doesn’t even realize they’re being mean? Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about […]

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What’s Your Business Relationship Style…. happy to have you around

Can you adopt some of the romantic relationship language for business relationships? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What’s your business style? Are you someone who loves a lot of primaries? Do you want some secondaries? How do you work with people? Reid: Oh my goodness. I’m wearing my […]

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Told A Lie… Not Sure How To Take It Back Or Fix It?

What do you do if you lied? You blurted out a lie without meaning to and then you’re afraid to take it back and you’re not really sure there’s safe space to do so. What can you do? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share thoughts about how […]

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