Communication

What’s Your Cool Down Style When You Fight

When things get intense, how do you cool down? How does your partner chill out? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How do you cool down when you fight? There’s actually something called cool down styles and … Reid: Fuck this. Cathy: That’s Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and […]

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What If You Tell A Huge Lie

Told a huge lie and don’t know what to do? Suggestions from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy: We have a video about what to do if you tell a lie and get caught in it. Why did you do that? Reid: I do that when I lie. Cathy: This […]

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What If You Keep Cutting People Off?

Ever get excited and cut people off? What can you do to make things better? Find out with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We did a video on what to do if someone’s always cutting you off, but what if you cut other people off? This is Reid Mihalko from […]

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Feel Strange To See Someone You Broke Up With….

No longer friends, but still seeing each other? Just because its going well, that doesn’t mean the other person wants to be friends. What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about […]

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Sharing With Your partner That You Dont Want To Have Sex

Example of telling your partner that you don’t want to have sex tonight in a loving way… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time. Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk […]

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Not In The Mood? What Can You Do?

How can you tell your partner you’re not in the mood. How can you do that gently? Find out.. with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   How do you tell your partner in a way that’s loving and caring that you’re just not in the mood? Reid:     This is Cathy Vartuli […]

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How Do You Negotiate With Your Partner Around Their Overnight Dates?…

Dealing with new relationships in your relationship can be challenging… Listen to Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com disagree on what’s reasonable and draw your own conclusion! Leave comments below. Cathy:   Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my […]

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Do You Stay Silent When You’re Disappointed? What Can You Do?

Feel like your voice goes away when you’re disappointed? How can you learn to speak up? Find out… with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy:   Someone wrote in and said, thanks for doing this video, it’s about handling disappointment. Then she said, I usually stay silent when I’m disappointed. I’m finding that […]

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How Do You Transition Your Poly Relationships?

A lot of poly relationships don’t so much end they transition… how do you do that well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In poly relationships, you don’t so much break up always as transition. Reid:    Those relationships never end, do they? Cathy: Some of them don’t. Reid:    They’re like […]

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How Do You Deal With Your Partners Stuff When You Have Your Own?

How do you encourage your partner to source their own support? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    A writer, a commenter, wrote in, don’t do that.  I’m Reid Mihalko nfrom ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    We had somebody who wrote a really sweet question about, in response […]

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