What If Your Partner Isn’t Interested In Fanning The Flames In Bed?

If your partner doesn’t want to try to create sparks, what can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Tough question time. Video 2.  Cathy: It’s well and good to understand that-  Reid: If you didn’t watch Video 1, you’re like, where’s Video 1? It’s okay, we’ve got your back. […]

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Greetings from Burning Man, Catherine!

Greetings from Burning Man, Catherine!Yep. I’m at the famous, and very dusty, arts and music festival celebrating the 10th anniversary of a theme camp I founded for queer women in 2007. I know, weird. But that’s how I roll. I’ll be sure to share a picture or two and the origin story when I return! But […]

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What Do You Do If Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Sleep With You?

How do you handle it and what do you do when you partner doesn’t want to sleep with you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: You got the memo, too. Purple shirt day.  Cathy: What do you do when your partner doesn’t want to sleep with you?  Reid: I’m Reid […]

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Revved Up And Not Sleeping After A Fun Encounter? Is There Something Wrong?

Finding it hard to sleep after a great encounter? What can you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So what do you do… Reid: Tada!! Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com  Cathy: Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Never spin around. That’s an intro. Cathy: Would you like to spin back right […]

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Cyber Flirting… How Do You Do It?

How do introverts and extroverts cyber flirt? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cyber flirting. How do you do it? I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Well this is fun for me because Cathy usually picks all the questions because Cathy is better than this than […]

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LA! Learn To Create Your Own Workshop In Just 3 Days, Sept 13-15!

Let Reid Teach You To Create Your Own Workshop In Just 3 Days, During Catalyst-Con Week!!  Most Sex Educators and Workshop Facilitators Struggle with Workshop Design. But You Don’t Have To… Not Today. Not Anymore. And All It Takes Is Three Days. Why not tap into and harness your ability to “call forth” and generate smart, engaging, […]

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Snooping On Your Partner Because of Trust Issues?

Feel justified snooping because your partner broke your agreements? And your partner doesn’t understand? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How can I get my husband to see that I’m snooping because he was unfaithful to me? That was even a week since I found […]

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How Can You Tune Into Your Partners Arousal To Get More Turned On?

Want to create a feedback loop with your arousal and your partners? And build intense pleasure? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said… Reid: Flowers Cathy: Coming out on the top of your head? Reid: Yep Cathy: Oh, sorry. Reid: What they say? We have writing […]

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How Can You Be More Present During Sex?

Being present during sex can enhance pleasure and connection. But how do you do that? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Have you meet more presents during sex? Reid: I’m sorry, what? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And we we’re just talking […]

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Feeling Shamed About Sex-Positive Business and Wanting To Meet More Peers?

Sex Workers and Sex-positive business people can sometimes be shamed about their work, and meeting with peers can help support you. How do you meet them? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Are you going to do the business thing?  Reid: Yah I’m going to do the business thing cause […]

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