What Are Some Tried and True Ways to Start Getting Out There in a New City?

What Are Some Tried and True Ways to Start Getting Out There in a New City?     Cathy: Quick question, as a super single 20-something in a new city what are tried and true ways I can use to start getting “out there”. Tinder was kind of weird for me and any advice from […]

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You’re Shy and You’re at a Play Party, What Do You Do?

You’re Shy and You’re at a Play Party, What Do You Do?       Reid: You’re shy and you’re at a play party. What do you do? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: I am and this is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: And for those of you who are just joining us, […]

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Too Many Single Men at A Play Party You Are Hosting, What Do You Do?

Too Many Single Men at A Play Party You Are Hosting, What Do You Do?     Reid: It’s on. Cathy: Yes. Now you’re going to. Reid: You, you ask the question and then you tell me who I am and I tell you who you are and then they keep watching. Cathy: Hopefully. Reid: […]

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I’m Shy and Having Problem Meeting Women Ages 58-62, What Should I do?

I’m Shy and Having Problem Meeting Women Ages 58-62, What Should I do?     Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’m shy but my real immediate problem is meeting women ages 58-62, I haven’t had much luck in dating sites, mostly women in their 70’s express interest. Help. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ […]

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Too Many Single Men at a Play Party You Attended, What Do You Do?

Too Many Single Men at a Play Party You Attended, What Do You Do?     Cathy: What do you do if at a play party and there are too many single men? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ where are they? All this single men? Cathy: [Inaudible 00:00:13] […]

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Informing You About My Accountability Process

[Some of the following text is taken from the flyer I make available at all of my workshops and appearances. I’m sharing it here to also give readers a sense of what and how information about my accountability process is being shared offline when I’m teaching.] Information about Reid Mihalko’s Accountability Process In early 2018, […]

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How Do I Know if I am Monogamous or Poly?

How Do I Know if I am Monogamous or Poly?       Cathy: How do I know if I’m monogamous or poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/Cathy: How do I know if I’m monogamous or poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And someone wrote […]

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How To Deal With Someone Who Says No To Flirting In A Powerful Way?

How To Deal With Someone Who Says No To Flirting In A Powerful Way? Cathy: How can you deal with someone say ‘No’ to flirting in a powerful way? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/.Cathy: How can you deal with someone say ‘No’ to flirting in a powerful way? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. […]

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The Importance of Difficult Subjects (In Sex Ed and In Life…)

Communities benefit from talking thoughtfully about difficult subjects. And while difficult subjects are, well, difficult… It’s my personal lived experience that silence creates even greater difficulties and pain than walking towards what is uncomfortable.

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An Apology To You For Disappearing For a Year…

If someone says I harmed them, I start with believing them. Period. Any other response, for me goes against my values. Any other response would be inappropriate. I wasn’t interested in adding myself to the list of men who deny, retaliate, or minimize the harms they’re being invited to hold themselves accountable for.

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