Romance

Did You Know YOU Have a Romance Groove?

Last week I shared my pragmatic definition of romance (leaving people seen and heard with warmth sprinkled over the top) and how jettisoning culture’s idea of romance can improve your love life. I also talked about the myth of mind reading around romance, and how sharing the process of identifying romantic gestures with your partner or those you’re […]

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No Mind Reading Required… Conscious Romance 101

In my last article, I talked about Kissing in the rain isn’t romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter? In case you haven’t read the article, I shared that despite what media and culture tell us, if you cut through the BS and the music swelling/tear-jerking movie hype, romance just means leaving people feeling appreciated, significant, […]

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Kissing In The Rain Isn’t Romance! – What is Romance and Why Does It Matter?

Why kissing in the rain isn’t necessarily romance! Isn’t romance some story about a helpless damsel and a strong handsome man riding up on a white horse to rescue her? Or is romance Hallmark cards and flowers? Maybe you’re thinking romance is standing in the rain declaring your undying love… Ummmm… I think romance is none of these things. […]

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Introduction to Sex10x at Lotus Falls in Del Cerro, San Diego, March 30th

How do you make sex 10-times better? Let me give you a taste… An Introduction To Sex10x Be here to get a peek at -and some black belt level sex technique info- Reid Mihalko’s exciting new offering! Learn how to increase your sexual self-confidence and start becoming a more attractive, self-expressed and fearless person in […]

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Creating A Valentine’s That Will Melt Your Cat’s Heart And Have Her Bragging To Her Friends [Article]

Creating A Valentine’s That Will Melt Your Cat’s Heart And Have Her Bragging To Her Friends… Last article, I wrote about creating romance for Valentine’s Day, and I discussed looking at romance as Cats and Dogs, rather than men and women. I shared with you how to make your Dog feel special and deeply loved […]

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How To Stop Valentine’s From Going To The Dogs This Year WHILE Making Your Dog Feel Loved! [Article]

How To Stop Valentine’s From Going To The Dogs This Year WHILE Making Your Dog Feel Loved! [Article] ROMANCE: YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG! The two ways of orienting toward romance have very little to do with gender. They have to do with how people approach life, and what makes them feel important and valued, not what chromosomes […]

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Bringing Back The Spark!

How YOU can bring back the spark! Why Security Doesn’t Excite Excitement and Why Excitement Doesn’t Make Security Feel Secure! What makes us feel secure rarely turns us on. Security is a relief. It’s sure. Security soothes your nervous system. Excitement feels dangerous. It’s stimulating. Excitement pumps the adrenaline. Adventure and intimacy are opposites, but both […]

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Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

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Reid’s Day of Jealousy with Guest Jealousy Experts

Jealousy isn’t just about romantic relationships, you know! You can experience jealousy over your children taking up too much of your partner’s time, or become jealous over a co-worker’s promotion, or even a lover’s favorite hobby could trigger jealous twinges…

So what’s a person to do?

Join Reid Mihalko, Nina Hartley, Dr. Carol Queen, and other quest jealousy experts as we make sense of what jealousy is, how it impacts our lives, and how we can gain the upper hand. Whether you’re experiencing jealousy on a regular basis, in love with someone who does, or just afraid that jealousy might rear it’s ugly head, these two calls promise to give you a wealth of information!

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Staying Connected Through Romance workshop

The Hallmark Cards idea of a romantic Valentine’s being flowers, chocolate, diamonds, stuffed teddy bears is great every once in a while, but how do you stay connected on a day to day basis and have it be romantic?

Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for a playful (and connected) two hours of discussion, exercises, and romance just in time for Valentine’s!

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