Relationships

Where Is Your Sweet Spot?

I love it when I’m in my sweet spot – in relationships, in work, in play, with my friends and family. When I’m in my sweet spot, everything seems more interesting and fun! AND EASIER. Not that being in your sweet spot isn’t work sometimes, or that you don’t hit a speed bump or get […]

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Learning From Each Other’s A-ha Moments

Our culture doesn’t talk about sex and relationships much. Yes, there’s tons of gossip! But trash-talking about So-and-So’s celebrity sexcapades isn’t the same as authentic sharing of questions, concerns, personal challenges and creative solutions and ideas… If you had car problems, you’d have no problem asking your co-workers or your family for their thoughts. You […]

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What do Reid and Deepak Chopra have to say about Finding Your Soul Mate?

I’m so excited to be part of an upcoming free call series with Deepak Chopra and 49 OTHER LOVE EXPERTS!! I mean, how often to you get to hear Deepak Chopra dish on love and relationships?! And I’m headlining alongside John Gray, Lisa Nichols, and Marianne Williamson, too! I have to thank for this honor, […]

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Relationships Failing More Than Ever…Can This Save Yours?

Today, I’m going to teach you why relationships are failing faster than ever before, why people are so upset or unsatisfied in their relationships and what you can do to start transforming that. If you read my last article, we talked about the Difficult Conversation Formula and how you can start speaking up about the […]

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Navigating Emotional Distress And Also Being A Better Communicator

Awesome Relationships 101 Today I am going to teach you how to navigate emotional distress and also be a better communicator so you can have new ease and connection in your relationships. In the last article we talked about: – How you can create more romance for your partner, – How you can transform their […]

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Wineglasses can make you a better lover… Really?

This is really cool and can take your physical intimacy to a whole new level! And you’ll never look at a wineglass the same way again! Play along and then try it out… I’d love to hear how it works for you! The Wine Glass Analogy: Imagine that you have a wineglass in front of you. Have you ever tried […]

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How To Make Your Partner Feel More Romanced:

Would you like simple ways to create more romance quickly and easily? The secret is in figuring out who is a cat and who is a dog… Here are my top techniques for helping your partner(s) feel loved and appreciated! Romance Is NOT About Gender A lot of people think of romance as a guy/girl […]

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Cool Down Styles

“Take a Chill-Pill” has a whole new meaning (and use)! When you are upset, what do you naturally do to calm down? What does your partner do when they’re upset? When you’re aware how you operate best in relationships, and understand how your loved ones function best, you have a huge leg up on having […]

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Bringing Back The Spark!

How YOU can bring back the spark! Why Security Doesn’t Excite Excitement and Why Excitement Doesn’t Make Security Feel Secure! What makes us feel secure rarely turns us on. Security is a relief. It’s sure. Security soothes your nervous system. Excitement feels dangerous. It’s stimulating. Excitement pumps the adrenaline. Adventure and intimacy are opposites, but both […]

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Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

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