Relationship

How Can You Build Connection In Your Community Faster?

Do you want to build connection faster? Wonder how you can be part of a community faster? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How can you build relationships that are deep in a relatively short amount of time?  This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  […]

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How Can You End Co-Dependency In A Relationship Without Ending The Relationship?

Struggling with co-dependency but not wanting to end the relationship? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: How can you end co-dependency in a relationship without ending the relationship? Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And our answer is … Cathy: Some […]

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How Do You Deal With Your Partners Stuff When You Have Your Own?

How do you encourage your partner to source their own support? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: A writer, a commenter, wrote in, don’t do that.  I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We had somebody who wrote a really sweet question about, in response […]

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How Do You Transition Your Poly Relationships?

A lot of poly relationships don’t so much end as transition… how do you do that well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In poly relationships, you don’t so much break up always as transition. Reid: Those relationships never end, do they? Cathy: Some of them don’t. Reid: They’re like […]

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If We Have A Threesome, Does That Make Me A Lesbian?

If we open up our relationship and have a threesome with a woman, will I become a lesbian or bisexual? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and shared that a perspective partner of theirs was terrified that she might be compelled to become a lesbian or bisexual […]

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What Do You Do When Someone Cuts You Off With “Got It”

What do you do when someone cuts you off and shuts you down? How can you be seen and heard? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: A writer, writes in … or a commenter … writer? They could be a writer? A commenter who could be a writer, writes in. […]

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Not Sure If You Like Someone Or Not?

How do you know if you really like someone?  With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: This just in, somebody who is awesome, thank you all of you for leaving comments. What do you do when you are not sure about how you feel about somebody and you keep going back and […]

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Poly And Worried What Other People Will Think When You’re Out On A Date?

If you’re poly you might worry what a co-worker or friend might think if they see you out on a date. Tips and ideas from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Road trip YouTube videos. What are we talking about today Cathy Vartuli of TheIntimacyDojo.com? Cathy: Dot com. Reid: Dot com. […]

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Argument Guidelines… Smart or Weird?!

Is it smart to establish argument guidelines and let your partner know what your argument triggers are? When should you do this? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Here’s the link to the Cool Down Styles: ReidAboutSex.com/Cool-Down-Styles/ Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, I’m wondering if I’m weird. I […]

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Can You Get Herpes From Cuddling?

Herpes can be spread from touch… can you get Herpes from Cuddling? Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share. Reid: Yeah. Cathy: So Reid… Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Can you get herpes II from cuddling? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: The answer is technically yes.  […]

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