Communication

Does He Love Me

Does he love me? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Does he love me? How can I tell? Someone wrote in and asked us that question the other day. It’s a great question. And this is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and apparently, we’ve killed […]

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Doing Things In Bed That You Don’t Want to Do

With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had someone write in to us and say that their partner is wanting them to try things in bed that they don’t really know they want to try. They’re not really sure and … Reid: Like eating cookies in bed? Cathy: Yeah. I’m sure that […]

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Asking for Reassurance without Blaming

Do you need reassurance and comfort from your partner? Want to ask in a way that gets you more of what you want and builds connection? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com as they give tips and new perspectives. Reid: Hello, welcome, it’s… Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Reid Mihalko […]

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Getting Your Partner to Grow Up

Getting Your Partner to Grow Up Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We’ve a bunch of people writing in and sharing things with us at the bottom of our videos, and one of the questions lately was how do I get my partner to grow up and stop being childish, and I can […]

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How Do I Know When She’s Come

How Do I Know When She’s Come? With Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: How do you know when she has an orgasm, so you know when to stop? Someone wrote in asking about that and I love that the person wants to know more. There is a lot of pressure I […]

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Privacy and Snooping

Your Partner Is Going Through Your Stuff? Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone else wrote in to us and said my boyfriend is going through my email and my phone.  He’s snooping.  What can I do, it makes me really uncomfortable? Reid: Shhh, he may be listening in right now. Cathy: That’s really […]

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Reframing Fighting

How Can You Reframe Fighting For A Better Outcome? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Hi, I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from the TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Yeah, and today we’re going to talk about reframing fighting. Cathy: It’s really powerful because in our society, we do have a tendency … […]

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Stuck in the Friend Zone

Stuck in the Friend Zone? Join Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they’re interested with romantically. It doesn’t ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating.  What […]

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Difficult Conversations [Video and Transcript]

Make Difficult Conversations Easier! Join Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com as he discusses Difficult Conversations with TheIntimacyDojo.com’s Cathy Vartuli! (Scroll down below the video for access to FREE Downloadable Worksheets, and the Video Transcript, too!) You can find the Difficult Conversations article here: reidaboutsex.com/difficult-conversation-formula/ (not safe for all work places, with lots of other juicy content) […]

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Sex Positive Professional 3.0: Upgrading Your Business and Community Pre-Conference Talk at AASECT’s 46th Annual Conference, June 4th

What if strengthening your peer community improved all of our businesses? I’m excited and honored to be asked to give a pre-conference talk at AASECT’s 46th Annual Conference this year in beautiful Monterey, California. Please join me for what is going to be some amazing brain-sex and sex geekery! From the AASECT’s website: Come renew and revitalize […]

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