Cathy Vartuli

How Do You Transition Your Poly Relationships?

A lot of poly relationships don’t so much end as transition… how do you do that well? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In poly relationships, you don’t so much break up always as transition. Reid: Those relationships never end, do they? Cathy: Some of them don’t. Reid: They’re like […]

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If We Have A Threesome, Does That Make Me A Lesbian?

If we open up our relationship and have a threesome with a woman, will I become a lesbian or bisexual? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and shared that a perspective partner of theirs was terrified that she might be compelled to become a lesbian or bisexual […]

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Opened Your Relationship and Dealing With Guilt…

What do you do if you opened your relationship and you have some guilt? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hallo ladies and gentlemen, I am a giant and this is Cathy Vartuli, the little lady that sits on my shoulder. Come on up Cathy, what are we talking about […]

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Sex Positive Business Advice: How To Build Engagement Part III

How can you build connection and engagement with your list? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: 3 is the magic number. This is Business Advice video 3. Cathy: Because we’re really meta and geeky, this also applies to relationships. I found that this really helps me with relationships of all […]

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Sex Positive Business Advice: How To Build Engagement Part II

How can you build connection and engagement with your list? Tip #2, With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Part two of a three part video series. Go. Cathy: How do you engage with your list and make your business … The people that interact with your business feel loved and […]

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Sex Positive Business Advice: How To Build Engagement Part I

How can you build connection and engagement with your list? Tip #1, With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: This video is part one of the three-parter. Cathy: You don’t know what they’re about yet. Reid: No, I don’t. That’s the letter E. Cathy: A lot of people want to know […]

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Sex Positive Business Advice: When Can Teasing Be Useful In A Business

How can teasing (building anticipation) be good when you’re talking to your customers? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: When can teasing be useful in a business? I don’t mean like this. I really don’t. This is Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and … Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. I think […]

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What Do You Do If You Giggle and Laugh When You’re Shy?

How can you be clear that you’re not flirting if you’re nervous and tend to giggle and laugh? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We had someone write in and say that … well she’s really shy, she tends to smile and laugh when people flirt with her. Reid: We […]

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What Do You Do When Someone Cuts You Off With “Got It”

What do you do when someone cuts you off and shuts you down? How can you be seen and heard? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: A writer, writes in … or a commenter … writer? They could be a writer? A commenter who could be a writer, writes in. […]

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Poly? Crush On Someone But Not Sure If They’re Poly?

Should you flirt with someone if you don’t know if they’re poly? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:This just in. A writer or commenter writes in. It’s very detailed and I’ll just summarize it but I just want to thank all of you who leave comments and leave questions or […]

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