Sexual Skills

Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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Wineglasses can make you a better lover… Really?

This is really cool and can take your physical intimacy to a whole new level! And you’ll never look at a wineglass the same way again! Play along and then try it out… I’d love to hear how it works for you! The Wine Glass Analogy: Imagine that you have a wineglass in front of you. Have you ever tried […]

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Sensual and Erotic

Go, Team Sensuality! In my last article, I suggested you try new things as a couple to create more sparks in your relationship by rediscovering each other. If you missed it, you can find it here: reidaboutsex.com/bringing-back-the-spark In this article, I’m going to also recommend that you guys create a team project around sexuality. Sensual and […]

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Show-N-Tell Sex Ed: Why Putting A Condom On A Banana Isn’t The Same As Putting A Condom On An Actual Penis…

A.K.A., How I Went From Cuddle Parties to NC17… Cuddle Parties don’t overtly deal with sex. Nor should they. But what should? In today’s touch starved culture, Cuddle Party was (and still is) doing a great job of giving people a sunggle-O-licious laboratory to practice the foundational communication skills that make the world safe for […]

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