Sexual Skills & Pleasure

I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?

I Put My Dick In And She Screamed, What Do I Do When She Says Stop?             Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do […]

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A Few Resources on Power Dynamics…

An area that often gets overlooked in relationship and sex education is the area of individual/institutional power dynamics and how they impact relationships. This is an area that I was sorely lacking understanding in, but as I continue to journey further down the rabbit hole, slowly developing more awareness and understanding, I would be remiss if I didn’t shout from the rooftops, “Learning how power dynamics are impacting your relationships changes everything!”

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Reid’s Safer Sex Elevator Speech – UPGRADED for Your P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E.

Many people find it difficult to have a safer sex conversation because no one ever taught us how! I use the P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. acronym to help me recall each of the Safer Sex Elevator Speech’s 8 steps…

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What To Do When I Get Turned On…I Feel Less Deserving For Pleasure?

What To Do When I Get Turned On…I Feel Less Deserving For Pleasure?           Is it okay to have a lot of pleasure? Find out with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   Cathy:  We had another intrepid viewer write in and say “I noticed that sometimes when […]

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Oral Sex Expertise Teaser

Oral Sex Expertise Teaser                             Reid: Hello everybody. It is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com and I’m just going to talk about oral sex for a couple of minutes. Why? Because I teach oral sex workshops all over the country whether it’s Blowjobs […]

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You’re Partner’s Sex Drive On Again, Off Again? What Can You Do?

How can you take care of yourself when you’re partners sexual connection is on-again, off-again? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -“  Reid: Is it “we have had” or “I have […]

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Reid’s Pegging Grad School straps it on for Albuquerque, Nov 9th, at Self Serve Toys!

Pegging Grad School: Get Your PhD in Strap-On, Bend Over Your Boyfriend, Pleasure! If you… Are curious about strap-on play and pegging (anal penetration on a man via a strap-on harness and dildo) but have never tried it… Already have your Masters Degree in dildos and prostate pleasure but are looking for a few advance techniques… […]

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What Do You Do If Someone Has A Cool Sex Toy You Want To See? (new w/ outro)

Do you pounce and grab someone’s sex toy? Learn more with Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: A good friend shows up with their brand new sex toy. So cool.  Reid: It’s so shiny.  Cathy: It’s nice and bright and it’s one you’ve wanted to see forever.  Reid: I want to […]

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Is There Such A Thing As A Male G-Spot?

And if there is… How do you play with them? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Is there a male G-spot? I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: The answer’s yes.  Cathy: Called the P-spot.  Reid: But it begins with a P, yes. It’s the […]

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Keep Falling In Love When You’re Sexual? Feel Like Its Easier To Avoid Sex All Together?

What do you do if you always fall in love when you have sex? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What do you do if you’ve been struggling with being sexual? You’re a really sexual person, but every time you’re sexual you kind of fall in love, and it doesn’t […]

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