Sexual Skills & Pleasure

Having Good Boundaries When You’re Being Playful

People like being playful and goofy, but they are not necessarily being as careful about boundaries. State your boundaries so that you can be even more playful. It’s not the other way around. With boundaries you can make people feel safer, and they will play back with you. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and […]

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How Do You Know If Your Partner Is Faking It?

How do you know if your partner had orgasm? We all have faked orgasm before, it’s true, we do sometimes. What you want to start doing is start talking to each other about the kind of sex that you like. What gets you off, what doesn’t get you off, when you’re not having the sex. Join […]

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Is Anal Sex Bad For You?

Some say that the anus is not meant for receiving penetration and that having anal sex would lead to incontinence were you wouldn’t be able to refrain from pulling yourself. Is that true? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about anal sex. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in […]

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How NOT Homophobic Am I?

How NOT Homophobic Am I? America’s favorite sex geek, Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, jumps out of a birthday cake and strips, reveals his stripper name from back in his college days (hint: It’s a famous comic book character), and shares the story of how he discovered just HOW not homophobic he is… Happy Birthday to […]

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They Claim They Didnt Know The Condom Broke…What do you do?

Did they tell the truth? What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com (Laughs) Reid: Sing it! Cathy: Oh no, they’ll just hang up. Reid: All right. All right. I’ll let you off this time. Cathy: Oh […]

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The Top Three Mistakes Geeky People Make When Making Love

Wondering Where the Spark Went?     Movies and culture make sex seem like breathing- like you should naturally know how to do it, and if you don’t there’s something wrong with you… The truth is, even geeky people are usually making 3 core mistakes when making love. What are the Top 3 Mistakes Even […]

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How To Know When To Stop

Do you know when to stop? Some women want to stop when they have an orgasm, and some women are multi-orgasmic, or just want to keep enjoying. Some men, too. Having a discussion with your partner about it can be really powerful. There’s ways that you can set up agreements ahead of time. Join relationship expert […]

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How Can A 55 Year Old Woman Have A Great Sex Life?

What can you do to help build connection and have a blast no matter what your age? If you want a bunch of lovers? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid:    I’m going to start reading it and then start the video? Cathy: Yeah. You’re so helpful, thank you. Someone wrote […]

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Afraid of Attraction or Arousal? We’re Not In 7th Grade Anymore!

Are you afraid of other people’s attraction? Or your own arousal? Most of us can actually control ourselves. You can upgrade your beliefs and feel more confident with yourself and others. Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and approaches to help you appreciate your pre-frontal cortex! Cathy: Are you still […]

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Talking About Masturbation

Most people don’t talk about masturbation, and that can leave people feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. Join Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share. Cathy: Do you ever masturbate? Reid: No! Never. Cathy: You’re going to scare them. Reid: What are we talking about? Cathy: Masturbation. Reid: Oh, no! No, no! Cathy: A lot of us are brought … […]

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