Misc

A Warm Connection, Part II: Training Your Hamsters

In the last article, we talked about one way to create warm connection quickly: Presence. Have you been practicing being present with people? Noticing when your brain goes off on it’s own, and bringing it back to the conversation? Noticing your toes, and the color of their eyes? Even a little bit of practice can […]

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A Warm Connection: Part I of III

Step 1: Presence… Want to learn how to build a warm connection quickly with people? Having a warmth between you and another person can make friendship, romance, and business easier and A LOT more fun. Can you imagine what your life would be like if you could create a warm easy relationship with the people […]

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Get Slutty with Dossie Easton in Dallas, Sept 29th!

Don’t Mess With Dossie! If you’d like to meet one of America’s most outspoken, shameless and delightful sex positive activists, join us for an intimate evening on Sunday, September 29th, 2013, at the Bridge Bistro in Dallas for an exclusive night with Dossie Easton and friends, MC’ed by moi and organized by The Intimacy Dojo!! […]

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Where Is Your Sweet Spot?

I love it when I’m in my sweet spot – in relationships, in work, in play, with my friends and family. When I’m in my sweet spot, everything seems more interesting and fun! AND EASIER. Not that being in your sweet spot isn’t work sometimes, or that you don’t hit a speed bump or get […]

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Mindful Touch and Presence For More Intimacy

Reid: Touching with mindfulness and what was it? Cathy: I don’t remember what I said. Reid: It was good though. Cathy: Yes. Reid: So touching mindfully is the topic for this video and Cathy Vartuli, why is it important to touch people mindfully? Cathy: A lot of us when we’re first dating someone and touching […]

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Wineglasses can make you a better lover… Really?

This is really cool and can take your physical intimacy to a whole new level! And you’ll never look at a wineglass the same way again! Play along and then try it out… I’d love to hear how it works for you! The Wine Glass Analogy: Imagine that you have a wineglass in front of you. Have you ever tried […]

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Making Breakups & Relationships Easier In 3 Simple Steps

Breaking up can be hard and messy, but it doesn’t have to be that way. We’re taught growing up that a relationship is more successful the longer it lasts. And breakups can be so painful, complicated and destructive that staying in a bad relationship can seem more sensible than having to face a catastrophic ending. […]

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Are You Dating Your Species?

The Old Dating Vs The New Dating Most of us were taught that we should be happy if we find a nice mate, one that is usually kind and considerate, who brushes their teeth regularly, brings home a paycheck, and pays the electric bill on time… What is this “species” stuff? The old dating mentality […]

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Let’s Talk About Sex FREE Teleclass, April 30th!

Join 3 Sexperts in the field of relationships and conscious awareness in the bedroom and beyond….. Lawrence Lanoff, Reid Mihalko, and Monique Darling will share their ideas about Conscious Relating and how to upgrade your sexual encounters. Tips, tricks and ideas that have worked for us in our lives and the 1,000’s of clients we […]

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Energetic Sex For Pragmatists primer course [Video + Bonuses]

Learn to explore the “Tantric Twitchies” by watching live demos and without all the woo-woo! Remember that Cosmo magazine article that talked about how Tantra and breathing could give you explosive orgasms? How about the urban legend about Sting having sex for eight-hour stints? Maybe you caught Reid talking about the “Tantric Twitchies” on CBS’ […]

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