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Been in An Open Relationship for a Long Time, Am I Poly or Not?

Been in An Open Relationship for a Long Time, Am I Poly or Not?       Cathy: I was in an open relationship for the for 7 years and I’m wondering if, am I being poly because it’s a habitual thing that I’m used to, or is it right for me? How do I […]

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How Do I Find a Good Poly or Kink-Friendly Therapist?

How Do I Find a Good Poly or Kink-Friendly Therapist?         Cathy: How do I find a good poly or kink-friendly therapist? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And someone wrote in and said they were looking for a therapist and they weren’t sure how to […]

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When Is It Appropriate to Take Care of Other People’s Feeling?

When Is It Appropriate to Take Care of Other People’s Feeling?       Cathy: Do you feel obliged to take care of other people? When is it appropriate to look after someone else’s feeling? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ and we got the memo today coz […]

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What does “Sharing Your Mildest to Wildest” at a play party mean?

What does “Sharing Your Mildest to Wildest” at a play party mean?       Cathy: If you’re at a play party and someone talks about sharing their mildest and wildest, what does that mean? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ A play party for those of you who […]

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What Are Some Tried and True Ways to Start Getting Out There in a New City?

What Are Some Tried and True Ways to Start Getting Out There in a New City?     Cathy: Quick question, as a super single 20-something in a new city what are tried and true ways I can use to start getting “out there”. Tinder was kind of weird for me and any advice from […]

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You’re Shy and You’re at a Play Party, What Do You Do?

You’re Shy and You’re at a Play Party, What Do You Do?       Reid: You’re shy and you’re at a play party. What do you do? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: I am and this is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: And for those of you who are just joining us, […]

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Too Many Single Men at A Play Party You Are Hosting, What Do You Do?

Too Many Single Men at A Play Party You Are Hosting, What Do You Do?     Reid: It’s on. Cathy: Yes. Now you’re going to. Reid: You, you ask the question and then you tell me who I am and I tell you who you are and then they keep watching. Cathy: Hopefully. Reid: […]

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I’m Shy and Having Problem Meeting Women Ages 58-62, What Should I do?

I’m Shy and Having Problem Meeting Women Ages 58-62, What Should I do?     Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’m shy but my real immediate problem is meeting women ages 58-62, I haven’t had much luck in dating sites, mostly women in their 70’s express interest. Help. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ […]

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Too Many Single Men at a Play Party You Attended, What Do You Do?

Too Many Single Men at a Play Party You Attended, What Do You Do?     Cathy: What do you do if at a play party and there are too many single men? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ where are they? All this single men? Cathy: [Inaudible 00:00:13] […]

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Informing You About My Accountability Process

[Some of the following text is taken from the flyer I make available at all of my workshops and appearances. I’m sharing it here to also give readers a sense of what and how information about my accountability process is being shared offline when I’m teaching.] Information about Reid Mihalko’s Accountability Process In early 2018, […]

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