Having Good Boundaries When You’re Being Playful

People like being playful and goofy, but they are not necessarily being as careful about boundaries. State your boundaries so that you can be even more playful. It’s not the other way around. With boundaries you can make people feel safer, and they will play back with you. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and […]

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Are My Fantasies Okay?

Ever wonder, if your fantasies are okay, and if you don’t have really good fantasies, how could you develop your skill at creating fantasies? How do you know which fantasies are okay and which ones aren’t? Listen to relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they are talking about fantasies. Cathy: Are […]

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How Do You Know If Your Partner Is Faking It?

How do you know if your partner had orgasm? We all have faked orgasm before, it’s true, we do sometimes. What you want to start doing is start talking to each other about the kind of sex that you like. What gets you off, what doesn’t get you off, when you’re not having the sex. Join […]

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Isn’t Dependency In A Relationship Bad…And How Do You Avoid It?

We’re all taught that we should avoid dependency in a relationship, that codependency is bad. What can you do to avoid that? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share more about this topic. Cathy: We’re all taught that we should avoid dependency in a relationship, that it’s […]

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Reid Can’t Be at Ecstatic Fest, But YOU Can… June 9-12 2016 in Pinecrest, CA

I Can’t Attend This Year’s EcstaticFest, But YOU Can! If this amazing 4-days resonates for you, I highly recommend* this event! Please send my love to all the awesome folks there if you do go… Are You Ready For a Weekend of Radical Connecting? I was honored to be invited to teach and geek out […]

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Someone Being Mean? Pretty Sure They Don’t Even Know It?

We all had someone that was mean to us, giving us advice on whatever, and they didn’t realize that they’re being mean…but they do come across sometimes very judgmental or harsh. Do you know how to deal with mean people, and with someone who doesn’t even realize they’re being mean? Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about […]

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What’s Your Business Relationship Style…. happy to have you around

Can you adopt some of the romantic relationship language for business relationships? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and SexGeekSummerCamp.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What’s your business style? Are you someone who loves a lot of primaries? Do you want some secondaries? How do you work with people? Reid: Oh my goodness. I’m wearing my […]

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How Can I Slow Down And Tune Into My Partner?

Finding out where your venn diagram overlaps with your partner so you might be able to find your yes in an area that’s really juicy for them too. If you have a hard time tuning into that, and always feel rushed and in a hurry, then join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com […]

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Flirting Without The Other Person Becoming Pepe La Pew

When you flirt does the other person crank up the heat to an 11 as a consequence? Problem sometimes occurs when you tell the other person that you’re flirting with, that you’re a shy, slow, tentative person, but it seems to come across: “I hereby encourage you to channel Pepe Le Pew and ignore all boundaries, starting now.” What can […]

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Reid and Monique Are Bringing Fearless Relating & Energetic Play Back to Oakland March 12th

Reid & Monique are back in Oakland for a day of fearless relating and a night of playing in the energetic field Saturday March 12th! Join us for both events! FEARLESS RELATING ONE DAY INTENSIVE 10:30-5:30PM Are you ready to take an intensive based on FEARLESS RELATING with two of the most dynamic relationship geeks on […]

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