Jealousy vs. Envy

In the last article I talked about Jealousy as Asthma and shared how you can identify, avoid, and inoculate against the 8 tentacles/triggers of the Octopus of Jealousy. I also promised to share soon about the difference between Jealousy and Envy, because it can make a BIG difference in relationships. So here’s the distinction between jealousy and […]

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Treat Jealousy Like Asthma

Jealousy isn’t something we look at closely, in general. We’re mostly taught that jealousy is bad, painful, shameful, and there is no relief. When it comes for you, you’re sunk, and it’s better to pretend it doesn’t exist and to just suffer through it when it does happen. (Or, blame our partners viciously if jealousy […]

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Loved, Honored and Cherished, Part II

In my last article I talked about creating safety and how to determine what you and your partner(s) might need to feel safe and grounded in your relationship to create a loved, honored and cherished experience. If you’re not in a romantic relationship right now, you can do this for yourself, for friends and family, for other […]

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Who wins? Feeling Unsafe Vs Feeling Cherished

Feeling Cherished We all want relationships that get richer and deeper and create less stress. Bonus points when they can nourish and fulfill us in new ways! Surprisingly, this is just some of the magic that happens as we start to figure out who and what we are in relationships, what our needs and desires […]

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Are You Dating Your Species?

The Old Dating Vs The New Dating Most of us were taught that we should be happy if we find a nice mate, one that is usually kind and considerate, who brushes their teeth regularly, brings home a paycheck, and pays the electric bill on time… What is this “species” stuff? The old dating mentality […]

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Chicken Soup For The Soul’s Jack Canfield And Reid On The Same Stage At CoachMBA LIVE!

A Weekend With Coaching Greats For $100! Are you a Life Coach, Workshop Leader, Educator, Professional Sex Geek? Already offering coaching as a part of your business and want to take it to the next level? Curious if being a coaching is the right fit for you? Clear that coaching isn’t something you want to […]

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Be A Gentleman AND Get Laid with Reid at UCSB, May 22nd!

What it means to “Be a man,” has changed… Come join us for an educational talk from sex & relationships expert Reid Mihalko on how to navigate masculinity and sexuality in our campus culture, and to help you create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health in your relationships and sex lives. Co-Sponsored by: CARE, CAPS, […]

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Sex Geek Speakeasy with Reid Mihalko, Monika Thomas and Friends, May 30th, San Fran!

Date: May 30th, 2013 Time: 8pm-12am Location: Mission Control in the Mission, San Fran – Address upon registration Cost: FREE for Mission Control Allies, so consider becoming a member. Members are $20 at the door and $15 advance. Tickets: events.missioncontrolsf.org/events/1666 FYI: Mission Control fills up FAST, so consider getting your ticket ASAP!   Join Us […]

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Let’s Talk About Sex FREE Teleclass, April 30th!

Join 3 Sexperts in the field of relationships and conscious awareness in the bedroom and beyond….. Lawrence Lanoff, Reid Mihalko, and Monique Darling will share their ideas about Conscious Relating and how to upgrade your sexual encounters. Tips, tricks and ideas that have worked for us in our lives and the 1,000’s of clients we […]

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Healing Sexual Shame By Asking For What You Want AND Flirting-101–June 20th!

Have you ever been too ashamed to ask for something you wanted? Have you ever been too ashamed to ask for something you wanted?   Liked someone and wanted to flirt, but didn’t know how to break the ice?  Can you remember a time in your life when you felt embarrassed or shameful for something that […]

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