How Not To Eat Your Own Nibbles On Encinitas, June 25th

Stop the infighting and start the thriving! Reid and Monique have a full weekend of events lined up for you! Other Facebook Page events below. Get your tickets EARLY, as every time we have events in San Diego they sell out!! Have you noticed that Conscious Communities are facing more in-fighting these days? Are you […]

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Making Breakups & Relationships Easier In 3 Simple Steps

Breaking up can be hard and messy, but it doesn’t have to be that way. We’re taught growing up that a relationship is more successful the longer it lasts. And breakups can be so painful, complicated and destructive that staying in a bad relationship can seem more sensible than having to face a catastrophic ending. […]

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Are You Dating A Cat Or A Dog? [Article on YourTango]

… the answer will revive romance in your relationship! [E.T.A. – Oct 1, 2019: This article was republished on YourTango, but it’s become hard to find the Page 2 of the article on their site now, so I’m posting the entire article here so folks can find it easily. I also updated broken links and […]

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Jealousy vs. Envy

In the last article I talked about Jealousy as Asthma and shared how you can identify, avoid, and inoculate against the 8 tentacles/triggers of the Octopus of Jealousy. I also promised to share soon about the difference between Jealousy and Envy, because it can make a BIG difference in relationships. So here’s the distinction between jealousy and […]

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Treat Jealousy Like Asthma

Jealousy isn’t something we look at closely, in general. We’re mostly taught that jealousy is bad, painful, shameful, and there is no relief. When it comes for you, you’re sunk, and it’s better to pretend it doesn’t exist and to just suffer through it when it does happen. (Or, blame our partners viciously if jealousy […]

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Loved, Honored and Cherished, Part II

In my last article I talked about creating safety and how to determine what you and your partner(s) might need to feel safe and grounded in your relationship to create a loved, honored and cherished experience. If you’re not in a romantic relationship right now, you can do this for yourself, for friends and family, for other […]

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Who wins? Feeling Unsafe Vs Feeling Cherished

Feeling Cherished We all want relationships that get richer and deeper and create less stress. Bonus points when they can nourish and fulfill us in new ways! Surprisingly, this is just some of the magic that happens as we start to figure out who and what we are in relationships, what our needs and desires […]

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Are You Dating Your Species?

The Old Dating Vs The New Dating Most of us were taught that we should be happy if we find a nice mate, one that is usually kind and considerate, who brushes their teeth regularly, brings home a paycheck, and pays the electric bill on time… What is this “species” stuff? The old dating mentality […]

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Chicken Soup For The Soul’s Jack Canfield And Reid On The Same Stage At CoachMBA LIVE!

A Weekend With Coaching Greats For $100! Are you a Life Coach, Workshop Leader, Educator, Professional Sex Geek? Already offering coaching as a part of your business and want to take it to the next level? Curious if being a coaching is the right fit for you? Clear that coaching isn’t something you want to […]

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Be A Gentleman AND Get Laid with Reid at UCSB, May 22nd!

What it means to “Be a man,” has changed… Come join us for an educational talk from sex & relationships expert Reid Mihalko on how to navigate masculinity and sexuality in our campus culture, and to help you create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health in your relationships and sex lives. Co-Sponsored by: CARE, CAPS, […]

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