Communication

When Do You Try To Upgrade, and When Do You Set Boundaries?

If your partner asks for something that’s challenging, when do you try to step up and when do you say no? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my question is say my partner ask to meet a need for them, which is difficult for me. […]

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What’s A Mark Group And How Can They Help You Connect?

A lot of people struggle to find connection. How can a Mark Group help? Dan Powers from BeyondTheBedroomEvents.com and Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Wahahaha! Hello, Dan. Dan: Do I have to have a laugh like that? Reid: No, you don’t have to laugh. Dan: Okay, good. Reid: This is Dan Powers from Beyond the […]

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You’re Partner’s Sex Drive On Again, Off Again? What Can You Do?

How can you take care of yourself when you’re partners sexual connection is on-again, off-again? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -“  Reid: Is it “we have had” or “I have […]

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He’s Just Not Interested In Sex With Me… What Do I Do?

What can you do when your partner doesn’t want to have sex with you? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, “My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer […]

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Lying and The Three Strikes Rule… What Is It And How Do You Use It?

How does the 3 Strikes Rule apply to lying? Does changing your mind count as a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Cathy promised me that was the last video but now we have to shoot another one.  Cathy: Actually I-  Reid: You lied to me!  Cathy: No, you […]

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Is The A Difference Between Telling A Lie And Changing Your Mind?

When does not keeping your word mean you’re telling a lie? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We’ve talked about before about what to do if you’re caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, “My boyfriend has lied to me […]

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Can The Marriage Be Saved If One Partner Doesn’t Want Sex?

Tried everything but sex is off the table? Is the marriage over? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn’t want to sleep with me, we’ve had a lot of people writing in about this. It’s a great question. This woman wrote in […]

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If You Go Down On Someone, Do You Have To Go Until They Finish?

If you give someone a blow job or cunnilingus, are you stuck doing it until they come? Learn more from Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “If you start a blow job or cunnilingus, don’t you have to finish?” Like, when we’re talking about how you […]

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What If You Tell A Lie But They Won’t Forgive You And Tell All Your Friends?

How do you handle it if someone won’t forgive you when you lie and tells everyone about it? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We’ve talked about people, “What happens if you tell a lie and how do you fix it?” Someone wrote in reply that, “But what if the […]

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If You’re Demi-Sexual, Can You Balance Your Relationships?

If you need to have an emotional connection with your play partners, how do you deal with a community that is more “slutty”? With Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: If you’re demi-sexual, meaning that you like to have an emotional connection with someone you’re sleeping with.  Reid: I thought denim […]

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